How do I get over a guy when he won't leave me alone? I met this guy 5 yrs ago he was a total sweet heart?

Question

about 6 mths later he just turned into a complete jerk. We have been on and off for these 5 yrs. We'll get together for a few months break up for like 6 mths get back together. Well two mths ago I broke up w him bcuz he said some really mean things. I couldnt even believe he said what he did. But now he keeps calling me, emailing & iming me like nothing happened. He hasnt even apologized bcuz he said he meant what he said. I am done w/ him I am tired of it After being together on and off for 5 yrs and it still hasnt worked why even try? I am still young(i'm 22) and want to move forward w/ my life and I dont even see him the same way I used to after what he said. I cant believe he would ever say anything like that to me. How can I get him off my mind and move on w/ my life when he wont let me go?

Answer 1

I went through this! You must change everything. Your phone number, email address, etc. Block him totally out of your life in order to move on. Get out and meet new people. Eventually, with time, you will forget the loser. If he gets drastic and starts "stalking" you, get a restraining order. Good Luck!

Answer 2

I can't believe you were a glutton for punishment for 5 years...I hope you learned some lessons here. As for what to do about him, cut contact. Block his number so he can't call you or text you. Block his email and IM so he cannot contact you that way. If you are aware he's contacting you, simply don't answer the phone or read the email.

He'll eventually leave you alone, if you stop replying...you're just giving him reason to keep trying by answering him, even if the asnwer is always 'go away'. Tell him if he doesn't stop harassing you, that you will get a restraining order...over means over and you're serious about it.

Take care of you...and in the future if something doesn't work out with a guy, don't give him years of more chances...just move on then and save yourself a lot of heartache and grief.

Answer 3

Change your number, email and IM name. I know it is kind of a pain in the butt but it is obviously the only way to avoid him. If he finds your new IM name or email, try blocking him. If you are unsure how to do so, contact your service provider and they should be able to help. If he gets your phone number, contact you phone company and look into having his number blocked. If you see his number calling, DON'T ANSWER! Try to avoid him at all costs!
The only way you are going to be able to get over him, is to distance yourself from him. If you are going somewhere and you know he will be there, change your plans.
Good luck and I hope this helped!

Answer 4

Change your phone number. Hang out with family and friends so he won't come to your house and find you there. Tel him something mean like- i found someone else but- if you don't want to say that it means that you still have feelings for him but you know he isnt' the guy for you. Tkae care of yourself. If it wasn't meant to be- there will be someone else out there for you

Answer 5

Sounds like you wont let him go also.

Be strong and cut the cord its the best thing you can do for yourself. This relationship sounds like it has been going nowhere from the very beginning

Answer 6

Just remember, absence makes the heart grow absent, just stay away from him, don't talk to him, don't see him, don't even go to the places you used to go with him. Then after a while it will be easy to forget him.

Answer 7

On n off for 5yrs, it's probably a habit by now. Old habits are hard to break. Seek help honey!!

Answer 8

Get another b/f..
Start being rude to your ex..
Tell him you are going to call the police
about him stalking & harrassing you...
And then do it if he does not stop...