All my friends hate me, what should i do?

Question

I used to have lots of friends but i wasn't close with any of them and many of them were really mean to me and put me down all the tim. At the beginning of the last school year i started to become friends with this new group of girls and i found out i had a lot in common with them. My old friends didn't like these new girls and tried to make me choose and i chose my new friends. This school year i became best friends with these girls but they always walked all over me and i let them do it. Last week that all started acting weird and stopped talking to me. I confronted them about it and it turned out that they all hate me. They say i am mean because i ditched my old friends which they pressured me to do and they say that i am bad person and they hate me. What should i do because i don't want to be friends with those girls anymore if they are mean but i can't go back to my old friends cos they always put me down. I can't belive those girls hate me so much i don't know what i did to them

Answer 1

Hi Holly. Listen, 'real' friends don't put you down, aren't mean to you & don't make you choose between them & someone else. 'Real' friends are there for you - they encourage you, help you out, you should feel good about yourself when you are around them. I suggest that you look around for some people who you share common interests in -- maybe music or drama or sports or band or art or church or something. Build on that commonality. Make sure that as you are building a relationship with these new people to keep watch for anything that doesn't feel like a 'real' friend. There are nice people out there - you have to look for them. Hope you find some 'real' friends soon! :)

Answer 2

Hey
well i understand u perfectly because i was about to ask the same question, last year i had the bestes friends i've ever had but one move from were she lived and now i dont see her anymore. The other is still in my school, but these new school year is so diferrent because she doesnt talk to me that much all she says is hello, the other one i only talk to her the first day of school but know we act as if we never knew each other and it makes me feel bad because sometimes i think it was my fault as if i had done something to them. now i talk to some new friends i met and they r really nice with me but everytime my old friends see me with my new friends they act as if i wasnt even there so all i do is sometimes ignore them because if i dont i will feel very upset will myself. sometimes i feel that they r not the kind of friends i once imagine but if they dont want to talk to me i see as if they were saying dont talk to me because i dont want ur stupid friendship so thats what sometimes i do. Maybe in your case they hate u because ur a better person then they r or maybe because they want to be u but they cant so thats why they put u down all the times. well dont listen to them the more u do the more power they will have over u so just follow there play and dont let there anger bit u down thats the first thing they look in people THE WEAKNESSES.
good luck

Answer 3

MY ONLY ADVICE FOR YOU IS
Sometimes we expect far too much of the people around us, and because no one can ever live up to those expectations, we are almost always disappointed JUST LEAVE AND START MAKING NEW FRIEND LOL NONE OF YOUR FRIEND OR OLD BUDDY ARE REALLY YOUR FRIEND JUST FOUND A DIFFERENT FRIEND YOU MAY FOUND A TRUE FRIEND
Remember, the greatest gift is not found in a store nor under a tree, but in the hearts of true friends so you may found a true friend lol remember a true friend never make you felt sad or down HOPE THIS HELP HAVE A WONDERFUL TIME OR DAY ^.^

Answer 4

It sounds like me!

Answer 5

Are you a bad person? Do you lie, cheat, steal? Do you talk about them behind their backs? Either the old group is jealous of the new group or...it could be they don't like you because you are are weak and whine a lot.

Answer 6

If their acting like that, none of the girls in either group were ever your friends.

Friends don't put you down or walk all over you.

I would find a whole new group of people to spend time with.

Good Luck! True friends are hard to find.

Answer 7

not to sound mean but it doesnt sound like either of these groups of girls were ever considered friends friends stick together threw things they dont put you down or drop you for nothing find a new crowd of girls that like you and are nice hope you feel better

Answer 8

you ought to attempt to remedy the reason they're combating and verify out to lead them to no longer hate one yet another as lots. in the event that they save persevering with to combat and you do no longer % to % aspects only walk away and hold close out with another human beings for the day and notice what's going to ensue.

Answer 9

just try to apologize to ur old friends and tell them you made a mistake and you would like to be friends with them again.

Answer 10

To tell you thr truth none of them seem like they like you! You need to get with other people and just be happy and move on. They don't deserve you anyway then!