Family & Relationships - 1 November 2006

iam really worried he is cheating on me somedays i get so scared

2006-11-01 18:26:52 · 17 answers · asked by hilaryduff198916 1 in Singles & Dating

Thanks for helping me sort this out.

Back in high school, I developed a crush on a male friend. Nothing much happened, but we did have some emotional history.

Now a few years later, I'm married. This guy I used to like is now wanting to talk to me.

Should I, or should I not talk to him? I've heard to "keep the past in the past" but my former crush knows I'm married and may just want to see how I'm doing and catch up over these last few years.

P.S. My husband has said he isn't too fond of this guy, but also he hasn't specifically asked me not to talk to him.

2006-11-01 18:26:12 · 25 answers · asked by JennBride 2 in Marriage & Divorce

dont lie. thankz.

2006-11-01 18:25:02 · 22 answers · asked by thatswhoIam 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you believe in cyber love??? Can this happen? Will they last?

2006-11-01 18:22:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really want to surprise my wife for her 30 something birthday, which is round the corner. Not just to celebrate her birthday, but also to apprepriate her hard work in delivering our first born son. I want to present her with a whole day worth of surprises in doses till the final 'surprise gift'. I'm wondering if anyone can furnish me with the day's itinerary and gifts ideas.

2006-11-01 18:21:02 · 17 answers · asked by Mad Mat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

100 & 1 reason ?
why do people like to talk
behind other people

2006-11-01 18:20:20 · 5 answers · asked by 1111 3 in Friends

These two kids asked me if I can give them a quarter. So I gave them a dollar to which the older brother replied, " we won't have to sneak on the bus today". I asked them where they liveds and what are they doing on the beach. T which they replied that they come to fish so they can sell the fish and make some money. I offered to buy them corn dogs and I asked if they already have had their dinner to which they replied that they do not eat dinner. The younger kid started to cry and said that sometimes they give him lunch at school and sometimes the they tell him that all their tickets ran out so no lunch. I gave the younger kid all the cash that I had on me so he can eat for a few days. The older blond kid asked his brother to return the money. The younger kid asked me tell his brother that he has returned the money to which I lied. I found out that the father abondoned them and mother has altogether seven kids so she does not work. Why does the school not give the kid lunch.

2006-11-01 18:19:23 · 8 answers · asked by observer 4 in Family

If you were over there what would you want....please keep it clean Army prohibits obsceneties. What would you send, maybe something no one would think of? I'll take anything even if I have probley thought of it already. Also, what would be a perfect Gift for our Soldier Husbands in Iraq for Christmas???

2006-11-01 18:19:03 · 11 answers · asked by VolimT 1 in Marriage & Divorce

One day as i was crying outside my dorm room on the phone w/an ex-bf & this guy that i didnt know (but lived down my hall) walks by & randomly asks me if i need a hug..for some reason i say yes & it was the best hug i had ever had, he leaves to go to the store & he passes by me again & walks to his room just waving as he passes, then comes back & from down the hall throws a stuffed animal at me & starts to run away, im still on the phone but i ask this stranger what i should do with this stuffed animal, he replies "you need it more than me, sleep with it" & he tells me to return it when i feel better. The next day i go to his room, very nervously, & hand him back his stuffed animal & he tells me it was his way of getting me to visit him cuz i looked like i needed a friend :), he asked me why i was crying & we talked 4 hours, he became my best friend & then my bf & have been in love for 2 1/2 years. I love this story &want to hear more ways in which people meet the love of their lives

2006-11-01 18:17:57 · 15 answers · asked by sarinajf 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been talkin to this boy bob for a few months, i met him and i tried to set him and my friend up, but she didnt like him & me and him clicked and well i started to like him && well he like's (liked?) me too, well he tells me everythin and i tell him everythin, i trust him, he knows i like him, but im not sure if he still likes me (we talk all the time, he invited me to his house & etc.). hes a confused boy that im for sure of, he likes his ex & stuff and says he would wait for her, but he wants to screw around with other girls (hes still a virgin and very hornay and theres two girls that told him they would be his fockbuddies) and he tells me all of this, knowing that i LIKE HIM. well i just want to know, should i wait and be his shoulder to lean on until he realizes what hes got, or should i move on and date and pretend i dont give a rats butt until he realizes what hes got :S

2006-11-01 18:17:15 · 10 answers · asked by Alisha 1 in Singles & Dating

If two people who know each other, but are both more listeners than talkers, kinda shy people, how is conversation supposed to happen? If they're both listening for conversation but nothing is going on, are they just sitting there listening together or waiting for the other person to say something do you think?

2006-11-01 18:16:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a college student, and have a girl friend. And these are my habits to my girl friend.

1. When I see her carrying a heavy-looking or big bag pack, I cannot help myself, I take away her bag, and carry it for her.

Her response: She feels rather embarrassed.


2. When it's raining and we both didn't bring umbrellas, I run to my car and bring umbrella to her.

Her response: She feels awkward.


3. Whenever she looks cold, I take off my jacket no matter how cold it is and give it to her.

Her response: she feels embarrassed.



I consider these habits good, but her responses are rather negative. Shall I stop doing these??

2006-11-01 18:14:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have friends all the time that want me to go out danceing and drinking without my boyfriend, while he sits at home, totally avalible to hand out, but not invited. I love hanging out with him and totally would love for him to come, but the girls don't ever want the guys around. I think it's fine for going out to dinner, shopping everything else with the girls, but feel like the whole club thing is rude. Am I the only girl that feels like that?

2006-11-01 18:14:00 · 17 answers · asked by Jenna 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 18:10:52 · 12 answers · asked by daniel a 3 in Singles & Dating

I do love him but times I ask myself am I in love with him. He is the best thing I could have asked for in a man. I have had alot of relationships and I knew he was the one. He want go to the doctor or denist. He was going to the denist before we got married and now he has completely stoped. His breath smells all day long and it makes me sick at my stomach to smell it. Its a big turn off to me and our sex life is lacking because of this. Also he is forever scratching his nuts and I tell him that he has to have some type of infection but he still hasnt went to the doctor. Also this man its like as soon as he gets hungry and he eats then he cant even think straight or keep his eyes open. He gets really nasty with my family, its like he is just uncontrolable after he eats or if he is really tierd... I just need some suggestions to help save my marriage.

2006-11-01 18:10:45 · 17 answers · asked by teetee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 31 and i don't have a lot of dating experiance. i mean i'm not perfect no one is. i just want to find a nice single guy who is between 30 and 50 who will understand me, be kind,romantic,and just simply love me, and spend time with me! i want someone who wont try to just get into my pants. who is nice,caring,considerate,repectful, and fun, and who will trust me. and be willing to come to me to see me if need be. this is simple. problem is i live in a small town where its hard to meet guys especially nice ones and i really don't want to try online dating. so any suggestions are welcome. put please be resectful and serious in your answers.

2006-11-01 18:09:56 · 12 answers · asked by ♥musiclover♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

My friend thinks I am a common ****, but I am only kissing them right? So is that bad? BTW, there is no bf attached, so I'm not cheating on anyone!

2006-11-01 18:09:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel being possessive means,i love n care her a lot...but she does'nt think the same..help out ppl...

2006-11-01 18:08:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, I've just moved to a new highschool, and I' m kinda starting to like this guy in my first period class... and I rarely talk to him but I do talk to him like A LOT on the internet... what do I do? I mean should I wait, not do anything, or risk making a move? And like a few months ago he told me for no paticuliar reason that he didn't like me as a girlfriend when I've never even seen him before... But now he's like acting kinda wierd, and I've noticed he acts wierd when I'm around... NEED HELP!!!

2006-11-01 18:07:37 · 5 answers · asked by Tash 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 18:07:26 · 6 answers · asked by daniel a 3 in Singles & Dating

please give some

2006-11-01 18:01:04 · 9 answers · asked by Ann Carmeline 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this girl and was a family friend of mine, who's actually been a friend, since childhood. We grew up with each other. When we were kids, she liked me in a different way, sort of, "crush-like", but that eased off later, in herself. Basically, we remained as good family friends.

After a few years, we became adults and I turned 18. I became attracted to this family friend. So, one special night, when my parents held a fine dinner party in a 5* hotel, we sat with each other, like good family friends, dining and talking. She looked pretty, as always!

When the time was right, I asked her out, after a long-term family-friendship of 20+ years, and she said, "NO". :(. She broke my heart into a 1000 pieces and said to me, that, I was only a GOOD FAMILY/BROTHERLY-TYPE friend. Later on, our friendship broke off, but she still had minor feelings.

4+ years passed of no-commun.. Is it possible for me to get her back and will she understand me now, so that she can fall in love/marry?

2006-11-01 18:00:19 · 11 answers · asked by K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

In a divorce/child custody battle. My son 14 would like to tell someone that he wants to live with mom. As of right now mom has 55% & dad has 45%. He had an attorney appointed during court before he turned 14. What are his options now?

2006-11-01 17:59:04 · 6 answers · asked by cecimad 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my boyfriend of almost 4 years used to go at it all the time, but lately he doesn't even look at me. I'll even make an effort like walking around strait out of the shower nude and wet, and once i even sat on him wearing just a thong! he doesn't seem to want me anymore, and this is just recently, like within the past 3-4 months. I don't get it. I feel like i tried everything short of raping him. lol, what are some idea's people?

2006-11-01 17:58:16 · 17 answers · asked by Bitterly Sweet 3 in Singles & Dating

i actually make them cry on purpose for this

2006-11-01 17:56:36 · 14 answers · asked by stephanie_the_fish 1 in Friends

were do you draw the boundary if any, and no they arent mutual.

2006-11-01 17:55:28 · 20 answers · asked by Cool Guy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you should see some of the stuff in here! gender confusion, preteen lesbian crushes, foot fetishes, belief in aliens....this stuff is comedy gold!

i'm thinking of posting it on myspace as a prank, but i'm not sure if i wanna go that far.... maybe anonymously?

2006-11-01 17:53:34 · 29 answers · asked by stephanie_the_fish 1 in Family

i realize that Im young and have my whole life ahead of me, and stuff
But I cant stop thinkin about this.
Im rather self conscience about myself, and Im just wondering.. when it comes to sex, how do you get over this little stuff or whatever?

2006-11-01 17:53:16 · 10 answers · asked by bob b 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you think when you see married couples, he is cute and she is plain? Why does this sometimes happen?

2006-11-01 17:52:22 · 10 answers · asked by meanpromqueen 2 in Singles & Dating

Monique is 22 years old and her husband is 24 years old. Both in school. They have 2 kids together. Monique is a good mother, she put her kids first all the time, she goes to school, and she very responsible. And a lot of the time she put herself last, doesn't have any friends, doesn't go clubbing, or even drink acohol. She feels like she's to young to have all of these things on her plate. She doesn't feel young, she feel like, she should be doing what other 22 year olds people are doing. Like having fun, and she takes life pretty seriuos. She love her kids and husband, and don't regret anything.
1) What should she do to feel young?

2) What can she do to make friends ?, because she feel like she's to busy for friend.

3)And sometimes she get frustrated because she's home every weekend hanging out with her kids(3 yrs old and 8 month old); is that normal ?

4) She feels, she's too grown for her age; is that normal ?

5) Is it normal to have feeling someone else ?

2006-11-01 17:49:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce