i'm 31 and i don't have a lot of dating experiance. i mean i'm not perfect no one is. i just want to find a nice single guy who is between 30 and 50 who will understand me, be kind,romantic,and just simply love me, and spend time with me! i want someone who wont try to just get into my pants. who is nice,caring,considerate,repectful, and fun, and who will trust me. and be willing to come to me to see me if need be. this is simple. problem is i live in a small town where its hard to meet guys especially nice ones and i really don't want to try online dating. so any suggestions are welcome. put please be resectful and serious in your answers.
2006-11-01 18:09:56 · 12 answers · asked by ♥musiclover♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i did not mean that i expected the guy to love me right off the bat.i meant after we had dated for awhile and got to know each other. and i am open to being friends with a nice guy first and seeing if it turns into love in time.
2006-11-01 18:38:58 · update #1
Hi Mea,
I have the Problem,I look for a Woman in a Small Town,I think you just have to take your Time,there is someone for you,as for me to,so just hang in there,some times it pays to wait,Good Luck,You can always E-Mail me.
2006-11-01 18:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by karl s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I also dont believe in online dating. People can mask under that computer screen for all we know.
The way I see your Q is this. No matter how much u tried, when the time for u to really find love is not yet there, u will only fall into the hands of some wicked men wanting to get into ur pants and taking advantage of ur loneliness.
I think u r just feeling lonely and needs a guy to hang out with. well, many of us are on the same shoes, but we have to be careful how we put this across. bec there are a lot of men out there ready to prey on the next victim and that is when u will start feeling sorry for urself.
I suggest u learn some new things, go back to school, learn a musical instrument, etc etc.. where u can meet people.. not exactly men.. but also women who can might have a brother or a cousin or a friend u can get to know. try something natural in this area.. bec u dont want ending up being torn and not just inexperienced...
2006-11-02 02:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about nice guys cause all guys are the same the difference is percentage of their insensitiveness. You can find a good guy in your small town but it seem you are looking for mr perfect but i'm sorry to tell you there is non be happy with what you have you will never get better may be different.
2006-11-02 02:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by auntsid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a lot on this subject. when it comes to finding someone who actually loves you and doesn't only love sex, first thing to do is friendship. You hang out a lot with one person and then you see if you can cope with that person's personality, if you can then you can fall in love with them if they fall in love with your personality. I'd suggest giving it at least a week of knowing how you would get along with the certain person
2006-11-02 02:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by fuderpod 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be yourself. if you meet the right person he will be all of those things to you. move if need be. just have a back-up plan, if you never find this person then so be it-it doesnt have anything to do with you. have enough going for you that if you never find that special someone then it will only seem like a minor setback in the rest of your fabulous life!
2006-11-02 02:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by miss mackay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the old saying goes, you have to kiss 1000 frogs to find your prince.
You can't go out and just look for a serious long term relationship, cause you won't find it. you need to be ok with several casual short term relationships, and you have a good chance of one or more of them becoming serious and turning into long term relationships...you see what I'm saying?
2006-11-02 02:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
knock the cob webbs off of it and put some milage on it......... if you look decent, perform well, and leave a guy satisfied and wanting more then your a keeper. If you look like a beast and lay there like a cold dead fish, we normally toss your type back into the sea.
2006-11-02 02:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by DemoDicky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start by truly loving and accepting yourself, and you'll find not one, but many men who will love you just for being you.
2006-11-02 02:14:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should pack up and move to a bigger city. Or join Match.com
2006-11-02 02:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by mrcarl92807 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You could always try church, that's where I go although I haven't met anyone there but I am not looking either.
-NmD!
2006-11-02 02:12:28 · answer #10 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋