ive been talkin to this boy bob for a few months, i met him and i tried to set him and my friend up, but she didnt like him & me and him clicked and well i started to like him && well he like's (liked?) me too, well he tells me everythin and i tell him everythin, i trust him, he knows i like him, but im not sure if he still likes me (we talk all the time, he invited me to his house & etc.). hes a confused boy that im for sure of, he likes his ex & stuff and says he would wait for her, but he wants to screw around with other girls (hes still a virgin and very hornay and theres two girls that told him they would be his fockbuddies) and he tells me all of this, knowing that i LIKE HIM. well i just want to know, should i wait and be his shoulder to lean on until he realizes what hes got, or should i move on and date and pretend i dont give a rats butt until he realizes what hes got :S
2006-11-01 18:17:15 · 10 answers · asked by Alisha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know common sense tells me to move on, yes but its so hard. and you can say it a million times.
2006-11-01 18:22:10 · update #1
what can i do to make him realize what hes got? because i know what i want and thats him <3 ive waited to find someone like him & i cant let him go now that ive got him <3
2006-11-01 18:23:15 · update #2
well i dont 'got' him, ive 'found' him. id like to have him tho :)
2006-11-01 18:23:49 · update #3
it sounds like he just wants to be friends. dont pine over him. get another date and just be his friend. or he is testing you by making you jealous, which is rude and childish.(no wonder he is a virgin) if thats the case then walk away clean because he is a liar and cheater in the making.
2006-11-01 18:25:25 · answer #1 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wo....no WAY should you be his shoulder to lean on. Anyone who explicitly tells you they are willing to wait around for their ex is not over them and will give you serious emotional grief if you pursue a relationship with them.
And what's up with the whole "fuckbuddies" thing? Any guy who has an ounce of decency wouldn't share this information with you, unless he wants you as one as well. Which, might I tell you, is NOT something you want to be, as you are too emotionally attached to this guy. Don't think he'll have sex with you and fall head over heals in love. Guys don't work like that, girls do. Also, guys don't fall for the girl who's hanging around him being all "supportive." They fall for the one that walks away and never looks back. Why do you think he's so hung up on his ex?
I know its hard to hear "move on" but you really, really, really need to. I mean, REALLY need to. Seek out new friends, a new crew to hang with, get busy with a new hobby or part time job or something. This situation is bad news and sounds like it could get incestuous with so many "friends" in the picture too....
2006-11-02 02:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by SummerPixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there and beleive me it is NOT worth the wait... Do you really want a guy that is thinking constantly about his ex? Do you, because I know I don't. You want and deserve a guy that is thinking about you 24/7 and who loves you for you. Take my advice and kick him to the curb. I know it's lonely out there but take his advice and find a fockbuddy for now until you find someone you can love... Or just keep searching for that one special guy who will treat you with love and respect.
2006-11-02 02:23:45 · answer #3 · answered by parsnippy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your place a few years ago, found the woman I had been looking for. Waited for her to get around to wanting to date me, though we were "friends". My advice, don't wait for anyone. Go and find someone that will treat you with the respect that you deserve and never sit on the sidelines waiting for someone to love you. Good luck.
2006-11-02 02:36:37 · answer #4 · answered by Cannibal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think that u should not fu^ck him. If he's a virgin then he's just tring to lose it & get it over with.I think NO women should be a "fuckbuddy"that's not cool .So wait It out and see if he still cares.
2006-11-02 02:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by bigglilly_09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds immature and is showing you no respect
as a girlfriend or a friend.
Cutt and run, your better than that.
2006-11-02 02:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by J B W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya he sure is confused...the guy is jus trying to impress u dats all...he is jus trying to show u dat gurls go behind him and dat he still cares bout people he loves and all...dnt u think its all jus methods to try and impress u?....do u want him & do u like him?if ya..go and ask d guy out...No harm wat so ever....Or he must be too shy to ask u out or something..Hey dnt wait for him to realize and dnt move on...if u really like him go get her gurl....
P.S:-y would he try to impress you if he did not want u?;)
2006-11-02 02:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was real funny yes hunny you need to move on
2006-11-02 02:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by NICOLE B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck him off.....if you really love him let him shoot in your mouth. If you only like him...... let him anally violate you.
Just my thoughts, Believe in JESUS
2006-11-02 02:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by DemoDicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say SCREW him. If he doesn't care any more than that, then he's not worth it.
2006-11-02 02:22:35 · answer #10 · answered by Sweets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋