i realize that Im young and have my whole life ahead of me, and stuff
But I cant stop thinkin about this.
Im rather self conscience about myself, and Im just wondering.. when it comes to sex, how do you get over this little stuff or whatever?
2006-11-01 17:53:16 · 10 answers · asked by bob b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont guess it matters, but Im 16
2006-11-01 17:56:34 · update #1
cofidence is sexy. don't worry about yourself. worry about the girl. worry about pleasuring her. go out of your way to please her and she won't care what you look like. and you'll feel sexy cause she'll know you'll sexy. trust me, if someone wants to be with you and see you naked/have sex with you then they obviously like you! so you have nothing at all to worry about. just have fun but be safe and use protection of course.
2006-11-05 07:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST AND FOREMOST; ALWAYS USE PROTECTION!!
that out of the way..... it takes time. Women seem to be more self concience than men; but men get it too. A lot of times when a woman has sex they are thinking "does my butt look big from this angle?" " oh my god when i am bent like this it looks like i have rolls!" "am i making a funny face" "uh-oh i just farted"
SEX IS AWKWARD! it always is at first, people are nervous and curious if they are doing good, etc. If you keep worrying about these things, you will never enjoy the moment. If the person didnt like you; they wouldnt be having sex with you! Don't worry about how big you are, or how good it is feeling for the other person; just be in the moment.
when you are with someone that you like a lot; or love then it doesnt matter because they love how you look.
2006-11-01 18:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's incorrect with the microscope whilst he loves each inch of you? The advice above approximately working on your physique to enhance your self photograph is stable. no remember if that's greater of a stagefright subject than a self-photograph subject, attempt and be bare along with your boyfriend around the domicile for a pair hours, in basic terms doing popular issues like staring at television or sorting the laundry. with any luck then you definately won't sense such as you're on show on your boyfriend and revealing each flaw which you gown to cover--you will sense like that's in basic terms your pores and skin and that he loves you--no longer in basic terms on your character and ideas, yet on your physique too.
2016-10-03 04:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by sashi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God has gifted a natural insight towards sex and when it comes to a real game you will not know how you could perform that well... so dont think too much about it.. let the things as they come...
2006-11-01 18:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As cliched as it sounds, if you have sex with someone who's gotten to really know you and love you, it's a lot easier. If they love you, they're probably not going to judge you, so that makes it a LOT easier to feel good about yourself when you're with them.
Also, as you age, you'll find eventually you just say "screw it", and accept yourself as you are. People who do tend to shine no matter what they're like physically, because they have that confidence in themselves.
2006-11-01 17:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by Cracea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you have sex with someone you really love and they really love you back you wont be thinking about the little stuff you will be thinking about how lucky you are to experince all the emotions you have with this person.
2006-11-01 17:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by twysty 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
bob: Keep your "little stuff" right in your pants where it belongs !!! You are interested in sex ... not seeking love !!! What's the rush, anyways?
2006-11-01 17:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just learn to be comfortable with your body after some time... it happens when you gain self confidence.
remember that each of us are beautiful in our own way...
2006-11-01 17:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by Rin 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just get butt ******* naked and go with the flow.
2006-11-01 18:02:00 · answer #9 · answered by DemoDicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once u are horny, whats in your pants will take over. go with the flow.
2006-11-01 17:55:31 · answer #10 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋