I have friends all the time that want me to go out danceing and drinking without my boyfriend, while he sits at home, totally avalible to hand out, but not invited. I love hanging out with him and totally would love for him to come, but the girls don't ever want the guys around. I think it's fine for going out to dinner, shopping everything else with the girls, but feel like the whole club thing is rude. Am I the only girl that feels like that?
2006-11-01 18:14:00 · 17 answers · asked by Jenna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i used to all the time with my friends. as soon as i met my wife, i stopped completely. it's not that she asked me to, but i no longer had a reason to. and besides i feel guilty losing the opportunity to spend a nice evening with the one i love. if i were asked to go out for a special occasion, like a bachelor party or something like that then i would go. she wouldn't have a problem at all, she trusts me fully. it's just that my time is more well spent with my wife than a bunch of drunken idiots.
so to answer your question, i think it is alright for you to go out with your friends i just wouldnt make it a habit.
2006-11-01 20:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by locowherto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you would rather be out and about with your boyfriend in tow then maybe you could just politely decline the offer from your friends.....I think its great that you still maintain friendships with the girls by shopping and having dinner but I also think its very admirable that you want to include your man in your activites.....so don't worry, you're not the only girl who feels this way! Its good to perserve a certain balance between the relationships in your life.....:)
2006-11-02 02:21:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jaybird21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a good guy...then hang on to him. Your girlfriends
don't respect the fact that you have a relationship. What are
your priorities here ?.... Tell the girls to take a hike. The bar
scene is out. A little get together for lunch, or shopping is another story. Put your foot down. You'll feel better, believe me!
2006-11-02 02:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Club environment is fine, no need to have any fears. It is only under these 2 circumstances when u shld fear:
1. You do something or act like u wanted trouble to come ur way.
2. Look scared and stupid that makes wolves want to prey on you.
Inside the club, act smart, dont look scared... as in be SMART...unless you want to flirt and have a one night stand of course ;)
everything will be alright....
2006-11-02 02:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to do the club/bar scene with the girls, then don't go. Tell them you're up for dinner or shopping but since you have a boyfriend, you'd rather skip the single's scene and they should go have fun.
2006-11-02 02:17:25 · answer #5 · answered by chnchita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are not acceptable to me because I'm a girl who doesn't like to go out with friends at night especially in going to a night club.Girls should stay at home especially when you already have a husband or boyfriend.She should change her attitude as the role model for her future children.thanx
2006-11-02 02:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by Kristine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Its yo life and u got to enjoy it. Something called "girls only" are important.
Even though that is yo bf or spouse, you still need to get yoself out there and enjoy the fun.
Having bf/spouse does not mean you cant do things without him.
BTY, if you r not doing anything wrong (ur having fun for yo life and friends), then there is nothing u have to worry or mind about.
2006-11-02 02:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is perfectly fine to have a girls night out. As long as you go just to have fun with the girls and not look for a quick lay. Enjoy yourself, suggest your b/f have a guys night out if it makes you feel better. And consider yourself lucky if he lets you go without throwing a fit.
2006-11-02 04:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by froggie47469 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the club scene is bad news and a meat market = and a married woman has no business there- and someone w a boyfriend- and if you don't want to go- draw the line there- D
2006-11-02 02:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel you shouldnt go to the club without your bf. these days the club has changed its not just for dancing now its more or less a pickup place. so you should only go with him. your girlsfriends are probably going to the club to meet guys. well you already have one so dont mess it up.
2006-11-02 02:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋