Monique is 22 years old and her husband is 24 years old. Both in school. They have 2 kids together. Monique is a good mother, she put her kids first all the time, she goes to school, and she very responsible. And a lot of the time she put herself last, doesn't have any friends, doesn't go clubbing, or even drink acohol. She feels like she's to young to have all of these things on her plate. She doesn't feel young, she feel like, she should be doing what other 22 year olds people are doing. Like having fun, and she takes life pretty seriuos. She love her kids and husband, and don't regret anything.
1) What should she do to feel young?
2) What can she do to make friends ?, because she feel like she's to busy for friend.
3)And sometimes she get frustrated because she's home every weekend hanging out with her kids(3 yrs old and 8 month old); is that normal ?
4) She feels, she's too grown for her age; is that normal ?
5) Is it normal to have feeling someone else ?
2006-11-01 17:49:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You said you don't regret anything but if you thinking of someone else or thinking of what other 22 year old are doing, then yes, that sounds like regret. Most 22 year olds are single mothers with several kids and several different fathers and single men with several kids and several different baby's mamas. If you had your first kid at 19 then what prompted you to have another one so soon, especially because your in college. You shouldn't try to do anything to feel young because you are young. You should to do something to make yourself feel good about you. Making friends is becoming one the of hardest things because you don't know who to trust these day. I'm sure your not the only young mother at your college. Try checking out the bulletin boards are websites for a support group. Getting frustated with your kids is part of being a mom. Try having you husband be home with kids every so often or take them to a sitter. Don't just make time for you, make time for both of you. Your not too grown for your age, it's called being mature for your age. That's showing that your being responsible and at least trying to handle your situation. I think you having feelings for someone else is just your mind reverting back to your teen years on what you may have missed out on. You can't feel sorry for yourself because these are decisions you've made. No one forced you to have kids at young age or get married either but it happened. You are blessed in more ways that you know. Your married with two healthy children and your in college. That's rare. You will be tested in every aspect of your motherhood and marriage but you seem to be doing fine. Step 1, you ask for advice before you did something you'd regret. Hang in there, it'll be okay. Good luck!!!
2006-11-01 18:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been there. I am a mother of 4 now and I started my family at he age of 19. It has been a very happy and depressing journey for me. I am now 30 years old and I am still waiting for my time to come. My advise to you is to create a balance in your life. Although it is important to always put your children first, during a weekend, maybe every other Friday or Saturday you can have a couples night out with your friends. This way you can put a balance in your family and social life.
2006-11-01 17:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jeannette E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Main question is not really linked to details. What u have described is that Monique is a devoted mother. Probably she is sexually also not very active or hot. She has to learn the art of relaxation and look at her life in a relaxed state of mind.
2006-11-01 18:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of you men could circulate! get far flung from all of this drama! Your fiancee shouldn't would desire to paintings this complicated. Plus, no longer rather everyone seems to be a hilarious outgoing individual. perhaps you're able to be the only to do this rather. And sure having a motor and father would be very worthwhile to the youngster. My mothers and fathers are divorced and that's poor to would desire to decide on which one i desire to assert with! in spite of the incontrovertible fact that it additionally does no longer be stable on your son to verify that your depressing in a courting, which will positioned on of on him. wish I helped :)
2016-10-03 04:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by sashi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! I have to agree with "Italionaire" she really jumped into answering this one. You need to be sure to pass this on to your friend.
2006-11-01 21:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal to have feelings aside spouse. Just make sure that when you cheat do not get caught you whore.
Hope that helps :)
2006-11-01 17:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
have all night girls out only no mean is allowed
2006-11-01 17:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your own homework
2006-11-01 17:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋