Family & Relationships - 1 November 2006

i like this guy that i talk to pretty much everyday late at night online. he found out i like him 2 years ago. probably still thinks i do. the problem is, how do i talk to him in real life?? i actually kinda avoid him at school cause im shy or somethin like that.
yes i still do like him. he seems like he likes me i guess..what do i say to him or howwwwww?///////
thankks.

2006-11-01 17:22:22 · 7 answers · asked by indecisive 6 in Singles & Dating

It was like fairy tale, i met him, i fell in love in spite of knowing that he was a cancer patient with just a short time here, loved him even while knowing how much i wud get hurt.. and now he told me he has such a beautufull wife n a darling baby..whom he doesnt love , whom he has been running away from.. does this man deserve to be pitied? he loved me true that i know.. his life is in shreds ..is he worthy of sympathy?

2006-11-01 17:21:59 · 13 answers · asked by ivyblue 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. We're 20 now. It's been pretty good, but we go to different colleges 90 miles away, and we really don't see each other as much as we'd like to. When we do see each other, we bicker more than anything else. We're sophomores and we're both very adjusted to college life now, but our freshman year was hard like it is for most people, and we needed each other to make it through. I think the number one problem is I'm sexually frustrated. I knew going into this relationship that he wasn't going to have sex until marriage, and it was fine then, but it bothers me now. I feel like we are missing a huge part of what a relationship is. He treats me very well, and I admit that most of the bickering is started on my end because he never seems as happy with me as he does when he's at school. It's like he can't wait to go back. He is planning to transfer to California next year for film school, 2000 miles away, which will only make it harder. What now?

2006-11-01 17:21:34 · 19 answers · asked by I heart art 2 in Singles & Dating

i love my lover and he says he love me too.we are inter caste. will i be able to marry him

2006-11-01 17:20:40 · 14 answers · asked by jaan4khushi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-01 17:20:11 · 5 answers · asked by Romeo (The Original) 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 17:19:54 · 3 answers · asked by mrcarl92807 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 17:19:48 · 29 answers · asked by Hacker 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 17:19:41 · 4 answers · asked by joe 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have married 14 years ago, I have a daughter 13 years of age. I remember how madly in love I was with him before marriage and it was me who wanted the marriage more than him. Until now I have had to live overseas with my husband and my daughter in my in-laws house, where we have been treated very badly by my mother-in-law and some of the brothers-in-law and their wives. Every time my husband came back from work and met his mother first in the other floor of our house she said something to disturb him so badly that he would come up to me and started scolding or even hitting me. I have tolerated through the years that he will someday understand. Today he realises his mistakes and he is trying heart and soul to make up for all his bad behaviours, but something is gone already from our lives. I do not feel the heat to make love to him any more as much as I would like to, I do not get excited looking at him, although he is very satisfied with me, physically and mentally. What should I do?

2006-11-01 17:19:31 · 10 answers · asked by S&D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i want a good friend from whom i can share evetything

2006-11-01 17:18:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-01 17:16:16 · 27 answers · asked by vikas n 2 in Singles & Dating

my sister is beautiful she has a lot of admirers, and i really get pissed if this admirers start befriending me so they cud ask things about her, i feel used, they try to impress me just so i could become their way of connecting with her,
but i refuse to do so, if they just talk to me and want to be friends with me just because of my sister i usually get mad and dont talk to them or answer them in anyway
first because my sister is too young to have any boyfriend i dont want them fooling her, she has a gentle heart, and is easy to fool i dont want her to get pregnant, or her heart get broken, so i dont want to help any suitor of her to get to her
do you think at some point i am insecure
because if a guy likes me and will see my sister i start to hate the guy and not call anymore, i make it a point that if they want her they cant have me anymore, they can no longer call me or anything,& at some point i will just choose to not have any boyfriend at all and let my sister have them all

2006-11-01 17:16:00 · 4 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

okay. so lately, for the past year or so i have been changing for good and other times for the not so good. i had my family,friends and bf tell me that they wanted the person they once knew back. all i could do was sit and cry and think that im screwing up...well, today i had trouble with my laptop being down and my bf went away for a day or two to his home-we attend the same university., so i had no one to help me and lots of stress building up. when he was trying to walk me through it i did not want tng to solve what was wrong with my laptop but rather wait until my bf would get back so he would do it.that is when he told me that i am not the girl he thought i was because i did not at least try and just wanted to give up which is so unlike me. that made me challenge myself and with his help i fixed my laptop. the only thing is that he told me that he does not think that i have changed for the better in the past year or so which sort of hurts. i always said that i wanted to learn but.

2006-11-01 17:15:33 · 9 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend are both mature and responsible adults, not just a bunch of punk kids screwing around. just to clear that up. but anyways, we have been together for two months and we have an active sex life. i am on birth control and we use condoms. he has not complained until tonight after we had sex. he said he hates condoms. i have a baby and don't want another yet, nor can i afford one in any way. i know alot of people reley on birth control alone to prevent pregnancy and i was wondering what other people's opinions are. what are the risks? should we try it without a condom? another thing is when he comes alot of times little or nothing comes out. part of having diabeties and drinking too much coffee i guess. and i've been on the deadbeat dad train before but i know in my heart if we did have an oops he would make sure his baby was taken care of no matter what happened between us. WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK??

thanks all,
~Rikki

2006-11-01 17:14:55 · 13 answers · asked by 1 Hott Mami 4 in Singles & Dating

could we bring women to their knees?

2006-11-01 17:14:23 · 11 answers · asked by CoolLuke 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

with me n him alone its PERFECT!.. buh when we c eachother when others r around he says hello has abit of a chat buh then thats it ...

2006-11-01 17:11:28 · 11 answers · asked by jessie 1 in Singles & Dating

The guy has told me he's been with 33 girls (girlfriends and one-night-stands and counting), and looking at his personality, I do believe him. Does the "numbers" tell a lot about a guy or no and why?

2006-11-01 17:11:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm really into this guy I go to school with and I think he may like me but I'm not sure. In the one class we have together, he always sits next to me. When he sits next to me, he sits relatively close, and will often move his body to face me or he'll put his arm on my chair. I catch him looking at me a lot, and if I look at him and make eye contact with him, he smiles at me. He often comes up behind me and tried to scare me. When we talk, we hold eye contact with one another. He told me to listen to a song the other day about a guy who wants a girl. Plus we have many of the same interests. HELP.

2006-11-01 17:11:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm at work right now, where I work its laid back. Theres no supervisor so were pretty much on our own. Well there's these 2 girls sitting by my that are close friends but all 3 of us talk the night away. Yesturday we were all talking and one of there girls (we'll call her stephanie) said something about quiting, so i was like "why would you wanna quiet" and she goes "just becouse", then says to other girl (sally) "you know why sally". 2 me that was rude. but maybe i'm just over reacting. So the rest of night they both tried to talk to me but i wasnt into the conversation much. Then tonight something happened and *stephanie was pissed off and wanting to quite, all night the 2 girls have been talking back and forth say stuff to each other like "you know what i'm talking about" and "i'll tell you later" now keep in mind its only us 3 on this side of the room so no one else can hear whats going on. I'm so close 2 going off on her but im biting my tongue. I havnt talked to each all night

2006-11-01 17:10:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married for 3 years and husband has never been faithful and had a possible baby outside the marriage,time after time I've given chances but today I feel like I can no longer do it anymore. I have children I have to think about and I don't want them miserable along with me

2006-11-01 17:09:42 · 12 answers · asked by cinny27 1 in Marriage & Divorce

That pretty smile and long red hair.

2006-11-01 17:09:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

at my church i'm in the band and my band leader and i were rusling and he wooped me and the girl i'm in love with saw

do you think she thinks i'm a wimp now?

2006-11-01 17:08:52 · 11 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 17:08:10 · 24 answers · asked by deenu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of about a year was dumped about 2 1/2 years ago by his ex. It was a bad breakup, but he assures me that he is glad it ended. That she was crazy which I am aware of, since I used to go to college with her and we talked at parties and stuff


He compares me to her regularly, as a compliment like "Becky was so....I'm glad you are not like that." Or, I am so glad you like doing this or don't like doing that...Becky. He does this about 1-2 times a week.

Its getting old, and then tonight he took me out to a nice resturant and said "I hope you don't get upset at my saying this, but the last girl I ever took here was Becca. When we broke up I swore I would never take another girl here ever again-unless I was going to marry her."

Yeah, so its sweet and all but I am freakin fed up with it. Its ridiculous.

Also, he is so resentful at her still, he will make snide remarks about her occasionally

2006-11-01 17:08:05 · 13 answers · asked by Lashenova 4 in Singles & Dating

my sister is beautiful she has a lot of admirers, and i really get pissed if this admirers start befriending me so they cud ask things about her, i feel used, they try to impress me just so i could become their way of connecting with her,
but i refuse to do so, if they just talk to me and want to be friends with me just because of my sister i usually get mad and dont talk to them or answer them in anyway
first because my sister is too young to have any boyfriend i dont want them fooling her, she has a gentle heart, and is easy to fool i dont want her to get pregnant, or her heart get broken, so i dont want to help any suitor of her to get to her
do you think at some point i am insecure
because if a guy likes me and will see my sister i start to hate the guy and not call anymore, i make it a point that if they want her they cant have me anymore, they can no longer call me or anything,& at some point i will just choose to not have any boyfriend at all and let my sister have them all

2006-11-01 17:07:41 · 2 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 17:05:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi me & my friend (girl) stopped talking 4 the past 2 years. just misunderstandings but i really care 4 her as a tru friend i want 2 clear all misunderstandings & tell her that i care 4 her. but the problem is 1 of my friend said that if i talk to that girl again he will tell her that i stopped talking 2 my mother due 2 her & that i've been on fasting 4 her sake 4 the past 3 years wishing & praying 2 god that she should get a gud hubby & nice in-laws. i don't want that girl 2 know these things. i've been wasting time whether 2 tell her the actual things or not. what to do? i am not bothered whether she will understand my friendship or not but just i want to tell her that i care for her. any suggestions? don't think that i am obsessive with this girl. normally i do care for everyone even for my old neighbours & friends (this includes ladies also)

2006-11-01 17:05:14 · 6 answers · asked by Dvij 3 in Friends

Alright. We're planning on having a wedding next spring in the Caribbean, and we both plan to have guests. Her parents are paying for the wedding-- nice, I know. The problem is that she plans to have only 5 family members there and a friend or two, while I have a large, close family and plan to have around 25. She's not happy about this because she feels that she'll be overshadowed by my family and that I'll ignore her during the 4-day "event". I guaranteed her that I would be there for her the whole time, but she seems to think that I'll make it all about myself and go off drinking with friends. I said I wouldn't. She responded by saying "okay, let's just do it alone then-- with no friends or family at all." Is she just testing me, or is she really that worried that I'll find a way to ruin our day? Could it really be that she's resentful that I plan to have more people, when it's on her parent's dime??

2006-11-01 17:04:57 · 21 answers · asked by H2Oskier 2 in Weddings

Don't you question why it is you are so repulsed by the opposite sex's organ? You almost seem to RELISH the opportunity to tell a guy how gross they look in speedos. I described myself as fit, etc...just so you'd know I wasn't fat and hairy. Why is that egotystical, to the one of you who said so? My God...99% of females wear revealing swimsuits to the beach, and 99% of those who do don't look good. You're such hippocrites. Please, I don't enjoy seeing your odd shaped breasts, cellulite, love handles, piercings, tattoos, crotch stubble...or outlines of anything down there. Utter hippocrites.

2006-11-01 17:04:51 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 17:02:32 · 28 answers · asked by Lucia 3 in Family