The guy has told me he's been with 33 girls (girlfriends and one-night-stands and counting), and looking at his personality, I do believe him. Does the "numbers" tell a lot about a guy or no and why?
2006-11-01 17:11:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it doesn't really matter i guess, but i personally wouldn't be very excited to date a guy who has been with 33 women and actually counted them.
2006-11-01 17:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by Aly 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes! If the person has gone through 20 partners then it is not hard to go through 21 partners. It also depend on you if you are looing for a short term commitment or a long term. Also, it could signify the extent of a possibility to catch any STD's. Picking a card 20 times from a deck and hoping to get king is much higher probability than picking a card 2 times and hoping for the same result.
2006-11-02 01:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by shkabaj 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Umm, it could definitely tell you he may be a whore. I doubt he's had close to 20 some odd relationships, so most of those numbers are probably from one night stands. If you're going to have sex with him, I would use protection! Extreme protection! Just think, you're not only having sex with him but also with the 33 girls he's had.
2006-11-02 01:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by bri 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First off does he get tested?You should too by the way. To me,if my guy said to me " you asked how many and I told you. You don't like it, get over it or don't. Just tell me." I would have to. "Numbers" should mean nothing. It's what you are that counts. Do you like him enough to look over that? If not go to someone else.
2006-11-02 03:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by tequillajenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mumbling girl: Guys are "conquer" oriented and view woman as a challenge - something to conquer !!! What need be the real issue here, is what kind of disease(s) [STD] is he going to donate to you ? Chances are, that you will become number 34, on the "I notched another one chart" !!! Through his years of practice, he has developed the habit of pick up, use and throw away. He has no sense of loyalty and therefore, love is not in his mind-set. Go out and find yourself a guy who YOU will be number 1 with !!! Good luck to ya - mumbling girl !!!
2006-11-02 01:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope it doesn't. I have sex every night with my wife for 27 yrs. now not counting 2 sometimes 3 ejaculations. My problem is she's now at menopausal stage.
Now, do I tell you something about me with my "numbers".
2006-11-02 01:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by junior 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh yes but it depends on you. if you can handle being with a guy who has been with (no matter what kind of relationship or none) that many then well thats your decision. personally i wouldn't, personally if he didnt tell you right away and like you were total in love with him and maybe later on like 6 mo's down the line he might have mentioned it, there would be no reason to ask this question. cause you cant really control who you fall for but if you just started to date this guy or like him and he told you this, if it was me, i wouldnt.
2006-11-02 01:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by j 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes it matter's for your health. hopefully he used a condom with all of them but let's say he didn't with 10 and those 10 have had sex with 5 each then boom you are at risk by 50 people if those people had sex with 5 each add in another 25 and keep going .. it's risky !!!! so be careful :)
2006-11-02 01:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by evilprincess 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, why is he telling you 33 women?
He lacks fidelity in my book
2006-11-02 01:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes and no...depends on how he says it...if he says it like he is trying to show off and thinks it is good to brag about it...he's a player and it is bad. if the guy keeps it to himself but is in a relationship and thinks that the other should know...it is ok to let the cat out of the bag.
2006-11-02 01:15:53 · answer #10 · answered by any1on 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋