hi me & my friend (girl) stopped talking 4 the past 2 years. just misunderstandings but i really care 4 her as a tru friend i want 2 clear all misunderstandings & tell her that i care 4 her. but the problem is 1 of my friend said that if i talk to that girl again he will tell her that i stopped talking 2 my mother due 2 her & that i've been on fasting 4 her sake 4 the past 3 years wishing & praying 2 god that she should get a gud hubby & nice in-laws. i don't want that girl 2 know these things. i've been wasting time whether 2 tell her the actual things or not. what to do? i am not bothered whether she will understand my friendship or not but just i want to tell her that i care for her. any suggestions? don't think that i am obsessive with this girl. normally i do care for everyone even for my old neighbours & friends (this includes ladies also)
2006-11-01 17:05:14 · 6 answers · asked by Dvij 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
that makes your such a caring man..there should be more like you in this world of lost, mean men.....why those your friend have to throw himself into your life....tell him to mind his own business and that this unfinished business had nothing to do with him....i think you calling your old friend and solving the problem is the nicest thing in the world...I think this would let her know that you want to solve all the problems between each other and be the friends you two used to be.. and if she understands that means she was a true friend towards you and also wanted the best for your relationship...and if she doesn't care and acts weird upon your call...then just forget about her...i dont think she deserves a friend like you...do what yout think is best and let the nosy ones stay out of it..good luck
2006-11-01 17:14:59 · answer #1 · answered by Mololina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kind of obsessed with numbers? Ok, well it's good that you care. Obviously you're a caring person. It would be nice if you told her you care about her as a friend if you ran into her by accident. Otherwise, you might look like you're trying to get back together, and open up an emotional can of worms that should really be left closed. What do you mean you fasted for her sake? I mean, that's your business, but you sound really intense. I think it would be healthier if you don't try to see her or talk to her until you can be less intense about it.
2006-11-02 01:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and talk to her. From what you stated , it seems it is a case of pride that you don't talk to each other. Everybody deserves a second chance. Give your friendship a second chance, be honest with her and tell her everything. Honesty and sincerity are the foundations of true friendship. If she considers you her true friend she will understand all abut the fasting, etc. If you can't trust her and have the courage to approach her , then you better move on and get on with your own life.
2006-11-02 03:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry she will Understand U if she has the same friendship in her hearts towards U U can call her and speak to her. U will be the successfull one.
2006-11-03 20:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ramasubramanian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about her.
u'r just making urself sick. i don't think that if u teel her she'll actually believe it. mayb she'll say yes from outside and no from inside.
ur just thinking about her and sort of breaking ur relationship with ur pals.
trust me.
2006-11-02 01:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by supriya_maharaj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about her, you'll just go insane coz of desperation and confusion..
2006-11-02 01:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋