I've been married for 3 years and husband has never been faithful and had a possible baby outside the marriage,time after time I've given chances but today I feel like I can no longer do it anymore. I have children I have to think about and I don't want them miserable along with me
2006-11-01 17:09:42 · 12 answers · asked by cinny27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't do it anymore. You have more strength inside youself than you realize. I was married for 7 years and put up with his lies and "baby I love you" B.S. He always made me feel ok even after the proof of his cheating was presented to him. He left me in January and moved into a house with his girlfriend- they're planning on a baby soon, and now I'm raising 3 kids alone.
IT WILL NEVER CHANGE. You may want to believe him so deeply that you sacrafice your dignity and self worth....You have the power to change that. Do what you need to to make yourself happy......and it doesn't sound like u are right now.
The pain may linger for awhile, but eventually, you'll find someone who will love and respect you the way you deserve. Because if he TRULY loved you, he wouldn't have ever cheated in the first place.
Best wishes.
2006-11-01 17:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion they get one chance and that is only if you genuinely believe they love you and just made a terrible mistake. We are all human (well some of us anyway) we are not perfect, but as you said he continues to be unfaithful so if l was you l would either give him his marching orders or leave yourself. It is unfair on your kids to keep putting up with this sort of behaviour but especially hard on you. If you have only been married 3 years and he has already been cheating l don't believe he knows how to be faithful. Please don't put up with this behaviour any longer, get out while you still have some dignity and not to mention sanity. You and your kids deserve better. Good Luck
2006-11-01 17:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
regrettably you could die from a broken heart. while a pair gets married and that they advance previous mutually and then one among them dies, the different one generally dies interior a year after the different's passing from a broken heart in the event that they actually love eachother. you would be fantastic. i'm specific you're dealing with a coarse time yet don't be affraid to grieve approximately it. once you get by grieving you would be numerous an excellent individual because of the fact of your journey. i'm so sorry on your broken heart. Take all of the time you need to repair it.
2016-11-26 23:10:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My granny always said "This to shall pass" I didnt know what it meant until I got older. But it is true. You cant see that right now, but you will. Or, you could just try finding some one new to take your mind off of the old... Besides, did you not see that before the "I do"..... Watch Dr. Phil
2006-11-01 17:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by Cricket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Today something in you finally woke up! You need to rediscover who you are again. Find out what you like to do and do it. Walks on the beach, painting, exercising whatever. Find pleasure in your life. As you rediscover whom you have become and allow yourself to like this person then your heart will start to mend.
2006-11-01 18:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go it alone, talk to someone you trust. Just try and get yourself well emotionally because your children will need you greatly. What a shame, I'm sorry for your situation.
2006-11-01 17:17:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals all ills. Next time really do a pro and con list on men so you have a better chance
2006-11-01 17:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce and find a better man to marry next time..
Do a credit check first...
Do a D&B..
Check his financials, assets...job etc. etc..
No more romantic losers...
2006-11-01 17:35:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hate to say this, but the best thing you can do to heal your broken heart is to divorce him. and yet, it probably will be one of the best things ever happens in your life.
2006-11-01 17:17:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
put your mind on something else and keep busy you want even think about him you know i agree with you life is to short sometimes you have do what you have to do.
2006-11-01 17:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋