2006-11-01 17:05:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No of course not.
We need good Muslim men in our Ummah, far to few from the looks of it.
Keep doing what your doing, from your questions and answers you seem like an intelligent and pious Muslim man.
May Allah reward you. Ameen
2006-11-01 22:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Umm Ali 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you like me? I've been told by everyone who's ever met me that I'm one of the last remaining gentlemen on this planet, and everyday I hear all these women wondering where all the nice guys are, and yet we spend our entire lives alone cause were to kind to get upset. And then it gets to the point where all the woman say that your "to nice", give me a break, how can we be to nice. I know I've been trying to stop being a gentleman, and start acting like everyone else in the world, but I can't, I just cannot deny the person I've grown into, and you probably can't either, no matter how badly we want to.
2006-11-02 01:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Should you stop living? no. Who you are is what makes you live. Not live but FEEL alive. To give up who you are is to give up what you are. You are simply flesh and bones and a few chemical reactions. But WHO you are is what makes you feel alive. Lungs and a heart and blood help, but whats most important is your personality, your look out on life, your beliefs and the simple "essence" of you. Stop being nice and stop living life to its fullist. Stop being nice and stop being you. i say no. keep your "nice" charm. Maybe someday someone will respect it as much as you do.
2006-11-02 01:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by Amyscastle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you not want to be a nice guy? Won't you want a nice girl, when you marry? Women who don't appreciate you being a nice guy aren't worth wasting time on...Don't be in a hurry, wait for the girl who is wise enough to know how lucky she is to have you...
2006-11-02 01:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by Barbarita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should stop being a good person but don't put her needs before your own. If she is giving you what makes you happy, then give back. Otherwise move on.
Some guys go a little nuts with a goodlooking lady, and they turn her into a spoiled princess. But that technique is manipulation. And it backfires.
2006-11-02 01:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by meanpromqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the world needs nice guys because we are nearly out of them.
2006-11-02 01:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice guys make the world a bearable place to live in. nice guys rock!
2006-11-02 02:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a nice guy too and find it hard to say " no" .to anybody around me evn others-strangers.
be nice to people who are nicer to u first
dnt be nicer from beginning.if they give u respect,be nice else dnt be.
i do it this way.
2006-11-02 01:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by krishna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a nice guy.. if u really areee a nice guy. otherwise,screw it. you ain't gettin none.
hahah okie dokie.
BE CONFIDENT. BE BOLD. sometimes too nice a guy is a turn off. or actually i mean, don't be a goodygoody.
2006-11-02 01:11:16 · answer #9 · answered by indecisive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way-- nice guys are awesome
2006-11-02 01:16:51 · answer #10 · answered by Kristen L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋