what are the signs of my boyfrien cheating on me?

Question

iam really worried he is cheating on me somedays i get so scared

Answer 1

Less time with you and more "unexplained absence".

More overwatch of public communication...like he suddenly shuts his phone off or holds it or keeps it on "silent notification".

Less concern for what goes on in your daily life.

Answer 2

If you have reason to suspect it then that in itself would be deemed as a sign of either them doing so (through giving you warnings such as being unusually nice to you without reason) or that you are just insecure.

It may be best to take a step back and re-evaluate your time together, but make sure that you are not at risk of over-reacting.

If your suspicions are confirmed then try to take it level-headedly... The extent to which you suffer depends upon how much you let it hit you (easier said than done perhaps), so try to take it in stride and move on to one more worthy of your attention.

Put yourself before him. It is too early to sacrifice the self for a person you feel insecure about.

Answer 3

You have to explore why you feel you picked someone you don't trust? Have you done this before, gotten involved and gotten burned? How was your childhood and growing up? Did people deceive you and hurt you?

You are the best guide to why this may be happening. People who have healthy boundaries are naturally inclined to others who have the same self respect. If your boyfriend is cheating on you, that means you have chosen someone you can't trust. You can never really know, but what we do know is you suspect it. Even if he isn't you have yourself an issue to deal with.

I would say that people who have flimsy values and low self esteem are the most at risk to cheat. Does he have a super-inflated ego? Is he always trying to prove himself? This is a cover-up for insecurity. People who are insecure need excessive attention put on them, they feel entitled because of their unmet needs of being secure in who they are. Often these people will try and meet their insatiable needs in addition to other relationships. It's a gaping black hole and it sucks other people in. You don't need to know if he's cheating as much as you need to understand yourself and why you're with this guy...why you feel this way. If it's paranoia, you may have your own issues with self esteem.

Answer 4

some issues to seem for - a million) Will he artwork w/o complaining continuously about having to artwork? 2) Does he lie? (to you, his acquaintances, relations, and so on) 3) Does he have some delight in his visual charm? 4) Does he pay interest once you communicate over with him or does he enable little issues distract him? 5) Do you've an same lengthy-time period aims in existence? 6) Do you percentage an same religious beliefs or a minimum of tolerate the beliefs of one yet another? 7) What fee do you position on relations? also, the understand & interest he provides to his mom & sisters is a good indication of how he values women human beings. good luck!

Answer 5

You have to ask yourself if you are being insecure. If you don't feel like you may be acting out of insecurity or fear, trust your gut. Whatever you decide to do, do it with confidence. You'll figure it out.

fyi - I had a boyfriend in the past who thought that I was cheating and it was the furthest thing from the truth, but he decided to trust his gut, when really it was his insecurity at work. Whatever you do, don't second guess yourself.

Answer 6

He's male kidding...

Private phone calls.
Locking his phone.
Getting really dressed up for nights out with the guys but nor the ones he usually hangs out with.
New fancy clothes under ware that he never wanted bef.
Working late lots.
Being really secretive.
Talking about a new woman he met lots.
New techniques in bed kissing etc.
He's less connected to you like blowing you off more.
If you ask him he either gets really defencive or sais your hormonal.

ASK HIM.

Answer 7

if u have that feeling, then he really is cheating on you. only u know the answer to this.... what we women suspect, always turnd out right.. thats a god given gift.

but how come we never do anything about it? how come although the proofs are there, we still deny them and keep asking ppl if he is cheating on us or what? well, no one can know that but u urself.

and when it is proven, then pls, have the courage to NOT hang on pride.. bec the worse it will get.....

Answer 8

Ask him. If he's cheating, he will do one of the following:

• repeat your question
• ask if YOU are cheating on him
• say you are crazy to think so
• say "you have no proof!"
• deny it, using the words "honestly" or "to tell the truth" (people only use these phrases when they're lying)

Also, he may give you special gifts for no reason (out of guilt).

Answer 9

No man is worth sweating over that, trust me. If you've got a good one those thoughts will never even cross your mind, and a relationship won't survive without trust.

Answer 10

lieing about whereabouts, not being as intimate as before, easily gets upset, looks at other woman, turns his back when you are in bed, cant talk on phone, doesnt call as regular, trying to start fights so you can tell him to get lost,dont say i love as much, has to work late all of a sudden, cancell dates planned, finding phone numbers and articles of women and saying it is his friends, always got to go somewhere, lock on cell phone, you ask who called and he says nobody, dont have that fire in his eyes he once had,dont have much to say.