Me and my boyfriend of almost 4 years used to go at it all the time, but lately he doesn't even look at me. I'll even make an effort like walking around strait out of the shower nude and wet, and once i even sat on him wearing just a thong! he doesn't seem to want me anymore, and this is just recently, like within the past 3-4 months. I don't get it. I feel like i tried everything short of raping him. lol, what are some idea's people?
2006-11-01 17:58:16 · 17 answers · asked by Bitterly Sweet 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please check if there is an emotional reason, that's he doesn't want you anymore OR he wants some one else more than you. I know its harsh. but it could be a possibility.
Second a physical reason, an erectile dysfunction...consult a doctor.
Third could be general depression, hyper tension etc.
In any case a visit to a suitable doctor is in order.
2006-11-01 18:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
how are you taking care of yourself? Have you gotten lazy and not putting makeup on and dressing nice? Who is he hanging out with? Is there someone else? Sometimes guys just want a challange and if your being to easy for him to get it when he wants maybe thats the problem... you need to play a little hard to get and see if that helps.. not too much or he might lose intrest compleatly... but a little wont hurt
2006-11-02 02:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by smurfettepark 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Either you suck big time at sex and your boy friend is now sucking kock like its going outta style because you turned him gay. -or- He is using all his energy to rail the **** out of some other chick while you stay at home and make dinner and keep the house clean. Either way your on the out's and dont even realize it. If he wont lay you down and drop his pipe down your pink gash..... hes getting his action elsewhere. Either way, nice work on losing that one!
P.S. if he has video of the 2 of you slamming ham, you might want to find it and destroy it before he puts it up for download on Kazaa.
2006-11-02 02:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by DemoDicky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take care of yourself right in front of him. If he is watching T.V., just slide your hand right there and let him watch(better yet wear a skirt!). It would totally turn him on. If nothing else, talk to him. Tell him you feel like he isn't attracted to you & you want to make sure everything is ok..
2006-11-02 02:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's already found someone else, just hasn't broken it off with you because of the hassle it involves. Morally and emotionally lazy and self-involved. Been there (20 yr ago), done that. Lost a 19 yr marriage that way.
2006-11-02 02:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by Philo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave something to the imagination...Nude is not all there is to it! Check for emotional problems, maybe there is something bothering him, stress, too much work, a physical problem, tired, depression, etc... Good luck!
2006-11-02 02:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by Valeria 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think maybe things have gotten a bit too dependable maybe you need to go out on some dates with some men, seems like your man has failed to realize that if he doesn't want the fun someone else does!
2006-11-02 02:02:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
try swinging, either bring another girl or guy or couple into the bedroom, it usually works, and will bring you two closer together, and maybe you could learn some new tricks...
2006-11-02 02:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch some porn with him..
Does he have another girlfriend you don't know about ?
Does he have any unfulfilled sexual fantasies ?
Bring one of your g/f over for a 3some...
2006-11-02 02:01:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
take a hint, hes about to drop u. do it to him before he does. fell free to come round my place for some nude walking, i wont ignore you.
2006-11-02 02:04:59 · answer #10 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋