Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

How many married couples go through a big fight or disagreements, or can't see eye to eye with their mates?

How many times are u supposed to go through these times?
I thought as time goes on you learn how to deal with each other and it gets easier.

It just seems like it's getting harder.

2006-10-31 03:24:15 · 20 answers · asked by Sicilian Princess 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-31 03:23:26 · 13 answers · asked by TT 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for nine years and love my husband very much, but I have been having a secret on line romance with another man. It is something that started in an inocent way, but has now gone onto a lot of sex talk and exchanging of some pictures. I want to stop but haven't. I'm not sure what to do? I love the fun of the secret romance but yet I think I have gone to far to tell my husband.

2006-10-31 03:22:00 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to one day be working for my company. I love it when you women dress up in your cute litte dresses with make-up kissing my a s s just to get a job. I have 50 women work at my company and they always FAKE LAUGH at my jokes. I LOVE BEING RICH AND HAVING CONTROL OVER PEOPLE. KEEP MAKING BABIES.

2006-10-31 03:21:50 · 7 answers · asked by Vick 1 in Singles & Dating

What has been the strongest or weakest point in your marriage that has made you want to stay or go?

2006-10-31 03:21:19 · 10 answers · asked by postal_marg 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend's mom, sister and I were talking about abuse as a child. His mom then told me that my boyfriend was sexually abused by her cousin at the age of 9. She said that since then, he's completely blocked it out of his memory. However, whenever something reminds him of that horrible time, he gets very angry. We tell each other EVERYTHING. But he's never said anything about this, even though I've told him simular stories about myself.
I just want him to know that I'm there for him if he ever wants to talk about it. Should I ask him about it, or avoid it completely?

2006-10-31 03:21:18 · 35 answers · asked by imasooite 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello i have been married for about 4 months and my mother inlaw is living with us.she doesnt work so she spends all day watching her soap's in the living room so on my day off i cant watch tv in my own home!! i have to go to my room and watch tv there. I cant even study bacuse i want to study in the dinning room wich is in the same room as the living room. She will tell me mean things like: oh your marriage is not going to last, or she will ignore me. I feel so sad and depressed and whats worse is that my husband is the only son, and i have tried telling him how I feel about his mom but he will get mad. She even told me that if I ever said anything bad about her to her son he would leave me. I love him so much but what can i do???

2006-10-31 03:20:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-31 03:17:20 · 20 answers · asked by kaydedid 2 in Weddings

I know it is basically up to each invidiual couple, but I was wondering what the standard practice was. My girlfriend proposed to me, so I do not have a ring for her yet, but she obviously has one for me. Is it ok/normal? How should I deal with people who say something about it?

2006-10-31 03:14:58 · 19 answers · asked by Nick 1 in Weddings

Why are some guys so revengeful? I mean he and I are divorced, share a child and yet he just cannot stop being a "DICK". He has a woman and has other kids...why can't he just try at least to get along with me? We are fighting for custody of our daughter now for almost 2 years and is ongoing.......why can't he just stop his crap and grow up? Sick of his crap!

2006-10-31 03:14:56 · 7 answers · asked by MOM OF ONE 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 19 yrs old and everybody thinks I am like 14 or 15. They always say you have such a cute and innocent face, but this gets aggravating after a while, bc guys do not want girls with innocent faces. It is so aggravating that at college other students always call me baby or darling. Sometimes, I just dont understand this. I have never had a bf, and I think it is mainly bc they think I am a child. I am not prepubescent in any way shape and form, but I want to be seen as being hot instead of cute.

2006-10-31 03:14:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 03:13:41 · 8 answers · asked by purplelemon06 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

You met a girl and went out on a date with her. She told you that she wanted to be honest right off the bat and told you that she got divorced a few months ago and her husband abused her. She was strong,has put it in the past, and looked at the good things in life. Would it freak you out?

2006-10-31 03:13:35 · 21 answers · asked by freedove06 3 in Singles & Dating

I have no doubts, we can make it work. But once in a while I get this heavy heart. I think it's a normal, and healthy, fear. I do love her so much. I think that if I were too confident I'd be oblivious to possible outcomes.

2006-10-31 03:13:17 · 11 answers · asked by B.B Top 3 in Singles & Dating

I have finally spoken to my close female friend(she's decided to reply finally) and we are meeting on Saturday. We are going for a walk in the country and then to a country pub for dinner.

How do I bring up the subject of 'us' especially as she see's the subject closed. Do I tell her how I feel about her, give her a ultimatum?Surely she can see that our friendship is something more. How can i get her to open up? For her to say how she's really feeling?

What if I told her that I really wanted to kiss her? Should I try to hold her hand?

Help! Want to resolve this....

2006-10-31 03:13:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you know what is life?

2006-10-31 03:11:58 · 26 answers · asked by jigarmartina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am always the inititator, he is all into it once i start and the sex is passionate and satisfying, but i sometimes want him to come and intice me.... should i back off and give him a chance??? He says he thinks about it and then i beat him to the punch. Maybe i shouldnt worry about who starts it, as long as he wants it.... lol ...

Do men like to be seduced rather then the seducer??

2006-10-31 03:11:26 · 18 answers · asked by coco 2 in Singles & Dating

my partner and i havent had sex for about 7 months now,proir to that it was about three times a year(weve been together 5 years.i have tried everything but if i go near him he pushes me off,we have no intimacy at all.He ie definetly not having an affair,i take care of myself and have been told im attractive-but he makes me feel ugly,im only 28yrs old and hes 34,i love him in other ways but i have a high sex drive and i dont know how much longer i can live this celibate no intimacy life.We dont even kiss,a peck on the cheek if im lucky.i have had no problems in past relationships,always had very active sex life prior to him-HELP

2006-10-31 03:09:44 · 27 answers · asked by NATALIE W 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She insists she still loves me but we remain separated because she says I hurt her so badly (with unkind words during a breakdown) that she can't trust me again, believes I despise her (SO not true), feels ugly and rejected, and is "frozen". Surely if she loved me she'd forgive me? Is it possible to stay away from someone you love?

2006-10-31 03:09:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im stick of men thinking they can look anyway they like but women have to be the stereotypical thin & beautiful! Maybe im just meeting the wrong men!!

2006-10-31 03:09:07 · 16 answers · asked by PIDGE 1 in Singles & Dating

...when a friend, whose counsel you value hightly, tells you they must cut all communications with you? I've been told that the "communications blackout" is out of necessity on his end, and it's nothing I've done wrong... Then why do I feel so bad?

2006-10-31 03:08:11 · 1 answers · asked by Cleveburgher 3 in Friends

ok. I gave it up to my bf and I'm on the pill ortho tri, but I start spotting for just one day about a wk or 2 before my period. It doesn't happen just after we do it either. So do you think I need a different pill or is this normal?

2006-10-31 03:07:32 · 3 answers · asked by for_runner0 2 in Singles & Dating

See Cellulite?
Like Cooking?
Really mean "I'll call you..."?
Want children?
Like the taste of Whiskey?
Ever change their own bed?

Just Curious

2006-10-31 03:07:20 · 53 answers · asked by Sarah B 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is faithful to me and we see eachother all the time. In fact, we live together. Prior to meeting me online at Yahoo! personals, she was seeing this guy who was her friend's boyfriend and her friend lives in another country and was not here at the time this happened. My girlfriend, most likely, was seeing him while we were writing back and forth initially on-line. In fact, I found several e-mails dated a week before we started seeing eachother that were written the morning after they had sex. He was still in her bed when she wrote them. I happened upon these e-mails on accident but they still burn me up. I feel like I want to tell her that I know but I don't want to piss her off to the point that she dumps me. She had told me about hooking up with him and she also told me that she was in a longterm relationship months prior. Although I knew she had been with other people, for me, it is just weird to think about her with someone else and of the timing of it all.

2006-10-31 03:07:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 03:07:14 · 16 answers · asked by Lil' Passion 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean the butterflys and nervousness and constant "agony" you are in because you are not with X. It's kind of like being nervous before going on the stage but it's not just for a few seconds it's all the time untill you see the X again...?
I doubt that all the things that go on inside your body are good for the general health. You don't sleep or eat...

2006-10-31 03:07:14 · 9 answers · asked by Tina M 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife has an affair but when i find out im not as angry as i thought i would be.she was a virgin so she was experimenting-but i should be pissed.even more i kind of horny off the fact that she got ******.is it cause i finally got someone else to compare my dick too(she said i was better but of course she said that).anyway am i crazy cause i get mad when i think about them doing it behind my back.i get so infuriated.but when she tells me bout it i be like oh and get turned on.no i am not gay ,i dont wanna see no penis but i have to admit i dont know why im only angry when im away from her but not when she's around.help

2006-10-31 03:05:18 · 11 answers · asked by THE M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Yesterday at work a male co-worker looked at a diamond ring I was wearing that looks and is very expensive and asked me if I was married. When I said no he said that any man who saw that ring would think to himself "I have to compete with that ?". I felt what he was implying was that it would be hard for me to find a man I assume because they would think Im high maintenance. Is that true men ??

2006-10-31 03:04:49 · 18 answers · asked by JustMe 6 in Singles & Dating

I live with my boyfriend as his two hot roomates. My boyfriend works swing shift so I'm with his roommates at night alone. One of the roommates has openly asked me to sleep with him. I have known him for a long time and don't think he would say anything. I would like to have sex with him - should I???

2006-10-31 03:04:46 · 39 answers · asked by Zoe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I started chatting with this guy every so often online. I really like talking to him and he sends me pics of himself. Is it crazy for me to actually maybe start liking him? I have never had an online thing b4 and am so confused. It sounds so strange and weird.

2006-10-31 03:04:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating