How do you stop your heart from aching and make sense of things...?

Question

...when a friend, whose counsel you value hightly, tells you they must cut all communications with you? I've been told that the "communications blackout" is out of necessity on his end, and it's nothing I've done wrong... Then why do I feel so bad?

Answer 1

You feel bad because you can't make sense of it and you may have lost a dear friend. Ask him for more detail - you deserve it. If he won't say any more then he doesn't deserve your friendship or concern - but you'll still miss him. Turn to your other friends for company. The pain will subside in time.