I have no doubts, we can make it work. But once in a while I get this heavy heart. I think it's a normal, and healthy, fear. I do love her so much. I think that if I were too confident I'd be oblivious to possible outcomes.
2006-10-31 03:13:17 · 11 answers · asked by B.B Top 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that it is normal to be a little nervous, it is a very big step. As long as you know that you guys can work through the ups and downs and u are not unrealistic about the fact that you will have problems then I think that you guys will be fine!
Good luck to you both
2006-10-31 03:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by TNL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a major change in your life so you will obliviously have the feeling of being nervous and its like marriage without walking down that isle.......
Don't worry everones go through this sometime in there life.....
Jus imagine that she spending the weekend over at u and then a week then a month and evenutally all your nervous will go....
Because u would be too busy on other stuff
2006-10-31 03:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by tutsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it all depends on what your so nervous about. Moving in together should be fun and exciting not causing a heavy heart. You need to determine what is causing that.
2006-10-31 03:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get Ready to fight.. that's all I can say..
There will be an adjustment period...First it's all fine.. then she wants things a certain way..you want them another way..then DING-DING... fighting starts.. then eventually 6 mos. later.. you learn to pick your battles and start adjusting to one another.. or that never happens.. and you break up...
So.. you're putting the relationship to a new test.. if you fail..that's it.. it's over.. if you pass.. then that'll make you both stronger and you will likely stay together..
I just noticed something... "A GIRLFRIEND"??? How many Girlfriends do you have??? This could be more serious than having ONE girlfriend... Had you said "MY GIRLFRIEND"...then above is my thought.. but "A GIRLFRIEND?" that's another story..
2006-10-31 03:16:37 · answer #4 · answered by RUNINTLKT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being nervous is normal. Its a life changing experience for the both of you. Give it time for both of you to adjust to the situation and everything will be fine
2006-10-31 03:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by rabbit5140 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's okay to be nervous, that you'll be around her more. And hoping you won't like too infront of her scare her off with the hairy bar of soap in the shower. Don't worry about it.
2006-10-31 03:15:39 · answer #6 · answered by fuzzy_fruitcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal to be nervous. I think your nervous because you can't see into the future. If you love her it will work out.
2006-10-31 03:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by babyboy9car 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's probably too late but don't do it.
why not wait until you are ready for marrige?
or maybe by that time you will realize that you don't know if you want to or can be with her for the rest of your life.
2006-10-31 03:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by killer boot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should make an honest woman out of her.
2006-10-31 03:15:19 · answer #9 · answered by onlylove41 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there shouldn't be anything to be nervous about
2006-10-31 03:15:11 · answer #10 · answered by Valerena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋