Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

which one is for you?

2006-10-31 03:37:08 · 67 answers · asked by its me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and i have cheated on each other and neither can get over it, but neither will let go? how do i let go, i'm scared to be on my own, let alone on my own with a child. I work, take care of her 5 days a week without him (hes a truck driver-doesn't get home until fridays and leaves sunday evening sometimes late afternoon).I've never been on my own. hes very supportive financially, but i have not an ounce of trust, how do we let go and be civil??

2006-10-31 03:36:41 · 12 answers · asked by Michele Z 2 in Family

my parents told me that a source had told them that my husband got this girl pregnant that use to live across the street from us also that the girl said she was going to file for child support when the baby is born so my parents ask this person why you didn't tell tina they said they couldn't but they would tell my parents. also before that it was a incident me my husband and a friend of ours was out side talking and people thought we were arguing but we was just talking loud so the next 2 days our neightbor went to my husband and said "you got busted last nite" that was said before this baby situition so and there is a lot more.

2006-10-31 03:36:10 · 29 answers · asked by angeleyes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating a guy for a few months, he acts like he loves me, but he lives 3 hours away, after I came back from spending the weekend at his place, he started ignoring me, like when I would text, he wouldn'nt always reply, but if I call, he'll answer but never take the initiative to call me first. After 4/5 days passed, I sent him a text saying 'I thought u were special not like the using bastards I've had in the past, guess I was wrong'. He didn't reply. But spoke briefly on MSN the other day, he called today and said that calling each other too often is excessive, and calling every few days is how he prefers it, he said he still really likes me but was put off by the text I sent, should I be weary to the fact that he's not into contacting me as often? or am I over-reacting? He's always been like this but I wasn't really too bothered cuz i was doin my own thing,he's still doin it, it seems odd. Plus, we have awkward silences on the phone.

2006-10-31 03:35:57 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and me started dating back in january and i found out that he was still talking to a woman that he has used for sex twice and at first it didn't bother me because it was the beginning of our relationship i figured he would give her up on his own after we've been together for awhile but i ended up having to fight with him to get him to stop talking to her. Along with this he used to chat with all kinds of woman on his im his im list had over 100 names for yahoo a piece and he had two and most of them were exes or single woman. I gave him a chance to clean them out but there again i ended up having to fight with him to get rid of them. Is it normal for this to bother me. He says it shouldn't matter because he's giving it up now but knowing i had to fight with him and he wouldn't give it up without an arguement makes me feel bad.

2006-10-31 03:35:13 · 15 answers · asked by anon a 2 in Marriage & Divorce

that your spouse pawned their wedding ring and never went back for it? And please state whether or not you are married.

2006-10-31 03:34:08 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

You could have been a hand job alone or full on with a partner and someone walked in.

Its time to share your story.

This question is for the Guys and girls and my 3rd attempt to get it posted.

2006-10-31 03:34:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am in love with a man who is much older than I. Over the last months my feelings for him have deepened. Everytime I see him my heart pounds and I feel "weak at the knees". I tried avoiding him but it's hard to because of the ties I have with his family. I want to move on but I don't know how.
I tried to think of him in a nonromantic way and it helped a little. ( I do love him as a friend) There's still that part of my heart that longs to be with him though.
Any advice??

2006-10-31 03:33:56 · 13 answers · asked by isitlove20 2 in Singles & Dating

What are the consequences and any tips??

2006-10-31 03:33:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when your children come home with candy from Halloween.... also do you allow them to go without parental supervision?

2006-10-31 03:33:34 · 12 answers · asked by jaimestar64cross 6 in Family

a lifetime supply of fudge? Something to consider: the possibility of seducing Cindy with all that fudge.

2006-10-31 03:33:10 · 7 answers · asked by cagewalker 2 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering what some of you thought about this. Do you guys or girls have a problem with your SO kissing someone else that isn't you even if it's just to say hello? Even if it means nothing and you only do it with close friends?

2006-10-31 03:32:28 · 19 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Marriage & Divorce

God Bless and Be Safe:)

2006-10-31 03:31:55 · 22 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2 in Singles & Dating

I live on the west coast and like to misbehave. You know like a baby. Any women out there who wants to talk

2006-10-31 03:31:43 · 5 answers · asked by webfeet51 1 in Friends

My girlfriend and I have desided to get married!!! Now the problem is I dont know were to even start to get it all taken care of. We are planing on doing a really small spair of the moment wedding at first, then having a big wedding later for all the family. My Questing is, were can I find out about how to get married. I know there is paper work that has to be filled out but I have no clue were to find out about it. Anyone have some advise. Also we are planing on getting married in Austin TX.

2006-10-31 03:31:05 · 12 answers · asked by Zachariah M 1 in Weddings

I went out with a friend of mine last weekend, and after too many beers we went back at mine....i then saw him the day after, but realized how stupid that was. I do no like him at all(not more than friend)! I don't want to lie to him, but what's the best way to tell a guy that likes you a lot, that you don't like him a bit!
Don't want to hurt him!

2006-10-31 03:31:03 · 26 answers · asked by sarah d 2 in Singles & Dating

have sex in front a stadium of 60,000 screaming people. Something to consider: the possibility of those screaming people booing you.

2006-10-31 03:30:51 · 16 answers · asked by cagewalker 2 in Singles & Dating

he emotionally abuses me, he always finds a new way to put me down. i even ran away once but the cops found me. and they of course took my dads side. i've even considered suicide and i have cut myself but i have stop for now... and i dont want to continue liveing this way with my dad he makes me feel like ****!!! and that i dont deserve to have a life...

HELP???

2006-10-31 03:30:49 · 15 answers · asked by Carly-Bear 3 in Family

to the office today? Are you in costume or just your regular business clothing?

2006-10-31 03:30:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he emotionally abuses me, he always finds a new way to put me down. i even ran away once but the cops found me. and they of course took my dads side. i've even considered suicide and i have cut myself but i have stop for now... and i dont want to continue liveing this way with my dad he makes me feel like ****!!! and that i dont deserve to have a life...

HELP???

2006-10-31 03:29:53 · 2 answers · asked by Carly-Bear 3 in Family

Im doin a survey for an argument essay .. all help will be greatly appreciated,, please answer ALL questions if answering any... how many women out there are housewives (example: your spouse works and you dont)? and if any, how does it make you feel having to do all the "duties" at home (like chores..cookin... cleaning.. etc).. how many of you women work and bring home the money while your spouse is the one that stays at home? how does THAT make you feel? ,...... and how many of you women live in a household that BOTH you and your spouse work and share responsibilities around the house? and how does that make you feel?.................................................................... THANK YOU!!

2006-10-31 03:29:09 · 36 answers · asked by mony 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a guy (called Ben) 3 years ago in a country I was working in. There was an instant attraction between us but another girl I worked with liked him too so I declined his advances. I met another guy after a couple of months of the season and got together with him. Ben guy nearly had a fight with him for no particular reason on a few occassions although I've never seen him do it to anyone else at all.
I stayed with the guy I met until this summer. We went back to the resort on holiday every year at least once and I would always see Ben. He would come and talk to my boyfriend then just watch me from wherever he was standing.
This christmas when I was there he drove past me in his car. stopped, ran up the street shouting my name. He grabbed me and hugged me and kissed me and just kept saying are you happy? I'm so glad!
Iwent back in March and he was there, he just kept watching me but we still couldn't seem to talk properly. I really like him. what shoul I do? what does he think?

2006-10-31 03:29:07 · 6 answers · asked by cheeky_delinquent 2 in Friends

My parents put too many restrictions on me... What do I do???

I don't want them to complain when I come home late from college.

I have talked to them about it, but they didn't listen to me....

Help me out....

2006-10-31 03:28:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been married for a year! well recently i met this really nice guy names alex. i really like him and he treats me 100 times better than my hubby! however i am still in love with my hubby, i mean i have a baby with him and would love to stay with him its just this other guy really has me f***ed up in the head. he is trying so hard to get me to leave me hubby. i kinda do want to leave is the bad thing. i mean i love him with all my heart it just seems that our relasonship would work out better as friends than lovers. i also really like this other guy and he knows this. what should i do? should i cut off contact with the other guy or follow my guts?

2006-10-31 03:28:11 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK - we've all done it one time or another, just admit it! So, if your in bed with another and you let one rip do you:

a) Smile proudly and point!
b) Challenge your partner to do one better?
c) Put your head under the covers?
d) Put your beloved's head under the covers?
e) Roll over and pretend you're asleep?
d) Blame it on your parter?

2006-10-31 03:27:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after introducing myself to my fiancee's pastor, he sent a massage that i should not call her, visit her or even send her a text massage. it's a month plus now and he has not lifted the embargo. i'm no more comfortable with the whole thing. she told me she'll rather obey her pastor. it even get worst when i force my self to see her. for my calls? she won't just pick them. what should i do? wait? and for how long?

2006-10-31 03:27:47 · 13 answers · asked by dearson b 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 03:27:21 · 26 answers · asked by Bob the Cat.™ 4 in Singles & Dating

Me and my wife have grown apart and live as roommates. We don't fight, we sleep in the same bed. We share responsibility for the chores, well I do most of them, but she helps out. We love each other but not as a husband and wife should. We are both ok with our situation but I want to start getting sexually satisfied else where and I am sure she is getting her freak on else where. Do you think this could last? Should we stay together for the kids or until one of us finds ur other soul mate and need to move on?

2006-10-31 03:26:19 · 33 answers · asked by Joesmoe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

God Bless and Be Safe:)
Thanks for your answers:)

2006-10-31 03:26:02 · 15 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2 in Singles & Dating

im a Asian.
my english isn't that good. i mean my speaking skills and writting skills. Especially when im talking with english speaking people. i feel very low confident. i don't know why. my problem is i really want to be friend with a group of people that speaks excellent english and they are very smart people. all their friends speaks excellent english, good in studies,& everything.What shall i do? i dare not say 'HI' to any of them. i scare that i will be ignore and when im chatting or talking with them, i can't speak well. Actually i think i can speak quite well, but not excellent. but when it comes to face-to-face or chatting, everything seems to get upside down. i'm kinda of scare being look down. i know is kind of silly. but that is how i feel. im sure u all know about "friendster" right? i really want to add them and start to befriend with them, but i just not confident enough.I thought of going for english lesson, but i scare that i'll be the worst one and im kinda shy.thx!

2006-10-31 03:25:09 · 7 answers · asked by Mandy 1 in Friends