I met a guy (called Ben) 3 years ago in a country I was working in. There was an instant attraction between us but another girl I worked with liked him too so I declined his advances. I met another guy after a couple of months of the season and got together with him. Ben guy nearly had a fight with him for no particular reason on a few occassions although I've never seen him do it to anyone else at all.
I stayed with the guy I met until this summer. We went back to the resort on holiday every year at least once and I would always see Ben. He would come and talk to my boyfriend then just watch me from wherever he was standing.
This christmas when I was there he drove past me in his car. stopped, ran up the street shouting my name. He grabbed me and hugged me and kissed me and just kept saying are you happy? I'm so glad!
Iwent back in March and he was there, he just kept watching me but we still couldn't seem to talk properly. I really like him. what shoul I do? what does he think?
2006-10-31 03:29:07 · 6 answers · asked by cheeky_delinquent 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sweetie pie, honeybunny,angelnut? It seems to me that you already know what you want and how you feel about your situation, its just that you cant seem to bring yourself to face it because it may make you seem lika bad person, forget about your new boyfriend because if you really fully liked him then you wouldnt keep thinking about this new guy, its possible to like two people at once but you seem to be very glad of Ben's affront..really its like a bad romantic comedy (shouting your name?, grabbing you in the strret? he's probably stalking you too I bet), you should quietly break up with your current boyfriend but do not even hint at another guy and then make yourself slightly hard to get..but not too much with this ben guy..Do NOT THROW YORSELF AT HIM because then you'll qualify for the 'I'm a desperate and easy street whore who is desperate for you to satisfy me' club (all right reserved), so there you go, enough with the drams, just deal with it like oyu know the best way how
2006-10-31 03:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by Chunkylover53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get with him. What are you scared of you are obviously all in love with him to because you keep going back.
2006-10-31 11:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by homie_j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really fancies you, but you have to make your mind up who you like the best as its your life and your happiness is important.
2006-10-31 12:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out and see where it gos what you got to lose
2006-10-31 12:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh just give him some and wack is brains out that should surprise him
2006-10-31 11:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants sex..and so do u
2006-10-31 11:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋