I went out with a friend of mine last weekend, and after too many beers we went back at mine....i then saw him the day after, but realized how stupid that was. I do no like him at all(not more than friend)! I don't want to lie to him, but what's the best way to tell a guy that likes you a lot, that you don't like him a bit!
Don't want to hurt him!
2006-10-31 03:31:03 · 26 answers · asked by sarah d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You tell the truth! You tell him you do not like him like that. Sounds harsh? Maybe. But keep this in mind (coming from a guy). You have to smash any thought he might have about being with you. If you make up a lie or excuse, he might just wait until that passes. Most importantly, it's kinda rude not to share that with him. Give the courtesy of at least knowing you're not interested, it's the least you can do. That's the kind of information you shouldn't keep secret from him. The bottom line is that although you do not want to hurt his feelings, you don't have any control over that. You should respect his feelings, BUT YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS FEELINGS! He is a grown *** man who is responsible for his own feelings and his own self. Tell him how you feel as soon as possible.
2006-10-31 03:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by cagewalker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a tuff one (that is how I have ended up with so many guy friends) just be honest with him, tell him that you don't want to mess up the friendship that you have.....tell him that you are not ready for that and that you just love the two of you being friends. (give him the "Just Friends" speach.....it's the only way that I have ever been able to do it, then make sure you stick to your guns...don't give in the next time and lead him on.
2006-10-31 11:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by TNL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh get you,kinky beast. He is gonna react in 1 of the 2 preset male ways
1)He will act a complete C*CK.He will act as if you were never his friend, and probably spread vicious lies.
or
2)He will understand, and do as probably want(completely forget about it).
Whatever happens, DON'T WORRY. You will probably be wetting your knickers laughing about this a few months down the line. If he don't wanna be grown up about it....f*ck him xx.
2006-10-31 11:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by siany warny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you like him as a friend and that friendships last longer than most relationships and you don't want to chance losing him as a friend.
2006-10-31 11:36:06 · answer #4 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest if he truly is ur friend he will understand let him know that u care about him alot as a friend but the whole u and him dating thing jus wont work out for jud be subtle and understanding to his feelings
2006-10-31 11:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by UR COUNTRY BEAUTY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the best way to go about it is to let him know what the deal is and whatever that happened between you guys he should try to forget and you don't see being anything more than a friend.
2006-10-31 11:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by lizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly to him, drink beer with him, have fun with him, but never, ever sleep with him again. If he asks why, say, "That is not a possibility," and smile.
2006-10-31 11:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by slippped 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Sorry I just like you as a friend" and thank you for asking that question so many women would just not pick up the calls with the guys number...
2006-10-31 11:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by Thomas 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
presumably you slept together? You either have to brazen it out and be honest or carry on as though nothing happened. My guess is he is probably cringing too. go easy
2006-10-31 12:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight simply and in private, do it soon and don't be ambiguous, best way for all concerned in the long run.
2006-10-31 11:34:04 · answer #10 · answered by Bindesh M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋