Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

I mainly want answers from married or engaged couples, please.

2006-10-30 05:05:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm struggling not to feel permanently "down" after a bad bust-up with someone who is the love of my life (I'm not young and have been round the block a few times so I know that she's the one for me). How can I keep cheerful while I wait to see if I can persuade her to forgive me - I know it could take a VERY long time. At the moment I often give way to self pity. Please help if you can.

2006-10-30 05:05:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She is the most beautiful woman on the planet.I love this woman.

2006-10-30 05:05:35 · 17 answers · asked by Old Jim 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 05:04:37 · 7 answers · asked by gangsta smooth 2 in Friends

one of them is a great father provider etc. and the other makes me feel like a woman loves me passionatly and the sex is amazing. I have two children to consider and one on the way do I pick up and leave the one who is a great father and provider for the one who is amazing in other ways?

2006-10-30 05:03:45 · 13 answers · asked by momof2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met my wife 17 years ago. She was 18 and I was 23. We have been married for 16 years and have two children 16 and 12. Up until last year we lived in a very nice neighborhood on a private golf course and for all intesive purposes lived what most would consider a very comfortable life. Last year my wife convinced me to move to her hometown (population 600). In the year we have been there I have had individuals approach me about knowing my wife when she used to live there. Seems she like to party quite a bit which matters none to me. However I also found out that my wife got pregnant and had a child when she was 13/14 and the child lives nearby and the childs father also lives in the area. My wife was upset that several individuals spoke to me about this but what I don't understand is did she possibly think that secret was going to stay that way in a small little town. My question is if someone had a secret like that why insist moving back 18 years later and risk being exposed?

2006-10-30 05:03:32 · 26 answers · asked by Harley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 05:02:50 · 6 answers · asked by Suman G 1 in Friends

My boyfriend stopped smoking about 2 months ago, he's on patches and everything and i trust him that hes not smoking, but every now and again maybe a few times a week i dream that ive caught him smoking its really beginnging to bug me and i dont know why i am dreaming this.

Please help

2006-10-30 05:01:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost three week and we are having problems already.He's the jelouse type of guy and i don't like that i been telling him that there's nothing to worry about because i love him and i will never cheat on him but i still think he doesn't belive me even though he says that he trusts me. I realy like him a whole bunch but i just feel bad that i'm trying to fix this things out and he wont wanna talk about it and keeps ignoring me. I been calling him and sending him txts but he wont answer my calls or messages. I don't wanna say this but if he doesn't change i think i'm gonna break up with him but @ the same time i don't wanna do it 'cause i love him....what should i do?

2006-10-30 05:01:02 · 9 answers · asked by ***i <3 Mi BABi*** ^:J&K:^ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 05:00:08 · 24 answers · asked by chesscrazz 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, here's the situation. Been married over 20 years. My wife is a very attractive 43 year old. Very bubbly, with a lot of friends. She works with a 25 year old guy and they text message each other when they are not at work. While she was away on business, I discovered they had sent a few "I miss you" type messages to each other. I'm beginning to think I should be worried. I thought we had a very close, strong marriage. Should I be worried, or am I being overly suspicious?

2006-10-30 04:59:37 · 27 answers · asked by MS 1 in Marriage & Divorce

was reading about attraction.

mostly biological reasons. eg facial symmetry, cute infant-like features and expression, and proper proportions of face.

on body, a 70% waist-hip ratio is the optimum.

as 4fat/skinny, depends on introversion/extrov*(in fact most quieter introvert guys prefer small breasts), +overall ego same reasons why sum women mor concerned w/ height than others.

generally has very little to do with the media and what ur friends think, and different societies will have different preferences depending on the environment, things like that. eg fiji

proof is fact that despite XTREME thinness promoted by fashion magazines, virtually same number men have this preference(a low number) as if didnt exist.

virtually no males are primarly attractd 2anorexics.

we're IN8LY WAY more concerned, w/ looks than most conventionly brain-head party-girls, apart height.

so how easy is it for a not-desperate man with a lot of selfrespect 2 make himslf like biologicaly ugly women?

2006-10-30 04:59:21 · 6 answers · asked by doe12345 1 in Singles & Dating

If i gave you my heart, could you make it start?
Do you have the ducktape to ducktape my heart back together?
If i gave you my soul, could you make is whole?
If i gave you the sun, would you make me one?
If i gave you me, would that set you free?
what would you do if i gave you my all
would you give me a call and hold me so i won't fall?

2006-10-30 04:59:05 · 21 answers · asked by Youngling 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 04:57:44 · 21 answers · asked by chesscrazz 1 in Singles & Dating

this girl means the world to me she lives in another state and I havent seen her in 5 years but she means the world to me and I love her so much and when I talk to her I feel like apart of me comes to life. Every time I hear Far Away by Nickelback I start crying cause it describes how are relationship has been . I have no idea how she feels about me and She is coming up for the holidays so should I tell her then I am so confused. Girls would you think its weird if someone you havent seen in 5 years told you how much they love you and everyday with out you is torture and you love them so much. Be honest I would rather you be honest then tell me what you think I want to hear. Thank you

2006-10-30 04:57:02 · 40 answers · asked by Redd_09_hawaiian 1 in Singles & Dating

Things have been really hard for me the past 2yrs. I am 21 single women with 2 kids, that mean the world to me. And i have tried everything in my power to make the best for them. My husband had them with him in jan. of 06 and was highly intoxicated wrecked with my to children in the car with him my son whom is 4 at the time went through the windshield and my daughter was turned upside down in her carseat, she was declared to not be in the car. This has traumatized my children, and my husband and his family acted as if nothing had ever happend. At this time the feeling that i have toward these people that i thout was my family they are not. THERE IS ALOT MORE TO THE CITUATION

2006-10-30 04:56:28 · 4 answers · asked by TIFFANY S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been together for almost 5 years. We count on each other for everything. and we both have future plans, academic and professional. but we need to separate (move to different countries) for a while. Still, its in my plans to marry him and have kids, etc... We broke up 7 months ago, but still go out, kiss, sleep together, and everyhting. He isnt seeing anyone else. Nor am I. Were still a couple, but without the pressure and formality. I feel he Genuinely Loves me, but is afraid to admit and accept it. But some friends say its only for the sex. What do you think. Is it solely sex, or does he love me but is afraid to accept it. He's 25 and I'm 23.

2006-10-30 04:55:49 · 35 answers · asked by ssota 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend thinks that she can get away with out telling Social Security that she has a job, so that she can get the same amount thats on her monthly check. She says she's gonna put the job in her boyfriends name. She hung up on me when i told her that she was walk on thin Ice with SSI

2006-10-30 04:55:12 · 7 answers · asked by Amanda M 2 in Friends

i am an open type person who speaks with anyone freely [i never differentiate boys and girls, all are humans]. but i dont think many like this. they speak to me well but behind my back they are speaking ill about me, why so? why are people doing this. if they wish to say something, why dont they do it to me itself directly? is it wrong to be so much free speaking, open type and bold?

2006-10-30 04:55:09 · 4 answers · asked by priya 1 in Friends

My bf and i have a tirbulent relationship sometimes breaking up three times in one week over piety arguments over anything.This has been going on for a year the getting back together and breaking up all the time. Jealousy attacks on both sides and bad argument where things get thrown.We are both in college which does not help.We are both polar opposites me the good girl, with good grades who is shy, but likes to let loose sometimes when with friends. Him the bad boy who is smart but cuts class and passes by skin of his teeth is very outgoing and thinks he nows everything!We are both stubborn and he likes to mess with me to get me mad and both of us has a temper.

2006-10-30 04:54:16 · 7 answers · asked by Tiffancy L 1 in Singles & Dating

That you can still check phone numbers from the computer. He thinks that just because the papers don't come in the mail anymore with the numbers used for the month that you can't check the phone usage. What if you look through the bill and you keep seeing the same number on the bill for a whole hour. You dial the number and a female picks up. You don't know the name, you don't even remember if thats a cousin or aunt in the family, what do you do?

2006-10-30 04:53:38 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What to do,what to do?
I'm sweating and trembling,and I have to go back to that stupid party of my mothers...
when will people realise that girls have needs?

2006-10-30 04:53:22 · 13 answers · asked by Madelain M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-30 04:52:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If u felt someone was 'the one' for u, even though u split up, n looks unlikely to get back together, is it possible to get over that person, and fall in love again? Or do u think u should fight for what u want, even if it means u making a constant fool of urself?..thanx

2006-10-30 04:51:59 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend treated me like crap, broke up with me for no reason and told me to never talk to him. Real easy when we work together, huh? Well, we have been getting along fine as friends until he pretty much insulted me the other day. I am so frusturated because I want him to realize that he is the one who hurt me, not vice-versa. If anything he should be the one walking on egg shells around me and not vice versa. Should I talk to him and tell him how I feel, even though I could never do that before? Or should I leave it alone, get over my anger and resentment and move on with life?

2006-10-30 04:51:32 · 7 answers · asked by ms. fix-it 2 in Singles & Dating

But not the nipple.they always shade it out. Males/ females all have nipples. whats up with that

2006-10-30 04:51:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

A friend's duty is to show support when a friend is having trouble, but that doesn't mean that he/she has the right to meddle.

2006-10-30 04:51:16 · 24 answers · asked by tangerine 7 in Friends

so he want 2 be with me but his friend are bothering him about being with me so do we break up or still togeter

2006-10-30 04:51:12 · 13 answers · asked by sweetangel 1 in Singles & Dating

well i been dating my b/f for 6 months already and my mom is always telling us that we should get marry.....why???? well because we have been through much in the 6 months we have been together we have been traveling to so many places like if we are marry, i spend most of nights with him u know sleep with him, and the most scary experience we were together when a guy shot at his car like 5 to 10 feet away from the car.......but anyways....when ever my mom ask him if get plans to get marry with me he tells her that he does and that just wait for him to get job as soon he gets better since he got shot...i'm confused before he would tell me that he was not gonna get marry but when i ask him seriously if he would marry me in the future not right now he tells me that what makes me think that he wouldnt marry me.....but i just want to know what u guys out there think about this situation????

2006-10-30 04:50:48 · 8 answers · asked by yessika_213 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had friend (she's middle) who came to me and was confronted by her sisters (2 sisters) simply because she tried to inquire about the issue regarding some matters that is really hurting the reputation of her aunt. The story that people who are mad at her aunt are trying to circulate are really coming out in bad taste so she decided to inquire regarding the real scenerio. The story was totally different from what was being circulated, so she had to tell one her sister#1 (the eldest) truth and that the other story turned out to be a hate campaign towards her aunt but her sister#2 (the youngest) who was involved in that story got mad cause she was confronted by the aunt and those people who are trying to circulate the story, now she confronted my friend and told her to shut up and she shouldn't have meddled, not start to break up the family and rather would shut so that everybody would be happy. She asked me which is more important: keep quiet & exalt on rumors or come out with facts?

2006-10-30 04:49:48 · 9 answers · asked by Rochelle5969 2 in Friends