Your husband doesn't know...?

Question

That you can still check phone numbers from the computer. He thinks that just because the papers don't come in the mail anymore with the numbers used for the month that you can't check the phone usage. What if you look through the bill and you keep seeing the same number on the bill for a whole hour. You dial the number and a female picks up. You don't know the name, you don't even remember if thats a cousin or aunt in the family, what do you do?

HE'S BEEN CALLING THE NUMBER FROM ONE TO TWO IN THE MORNING

Answer 1

Why is he not in bed asleep at 1 or 2 in the morning? I can do the same thing and before I married my husband we had the same phone plan and I went snooping. I called a number, but went further. I called from work, so she wouldnt know the number and I blocked the number from work. When she answered I said I'm sorry, I must have the wrong number and asked who she was. She told me her name and I hung up. I asked him about it, and it turned out that it wasnt that girl, but another who he had in his phone. He called me because he couldnt sleep right before this call and the call to her lasted less than a minute. He says he must have hit the button on the phone or something. Anyway, I'd call and ask who it is. If it turns out its family then you need to back up. If it's not you need to find out who it is from him, but dont be stupid and dont be fooled by dumb lies. If you believe he's not cheating after that, you need to stop snooping and trust your husband.

Answer 2

The simple and most honest way is to confront him directly and only hope to get an honest answer.

Or you can choose the more complicated route below:

You can pretend that this number called the house and you didn't have enough time to get to the phone.

If you don't have caller ID, you can always say that you dialed *67 to obtain the last number called.

So, then you tell him that you called the number back and tell him that the lady who answered said she "dialed the wrong number".

You can start the conversation by saying: "Have you noticed how many wrong numbers we've been getting lately". It's sooo annoying! and then proceed of telling him the above story.

This has never happened to me but I am good in comign up with stories.

Answer 3

I would call the number and say that this is not a familiar number to you, ask her who she was speaking to and what was so important that they spoke for an hour. If she was speaking to your husband then you know some sneaky thing is going on,that it wasn't a wrong number if you spoke for an hour. Then show your husband the computer and how you found out and that you talked with the other party, so what is his side of the story.

Answer 4

I would ask him. Also next time will you tell everyone else how to check that? Also try calling the number and asking questions. Just say I saw this number on my phone and am not sure why. What is your name. Then if the persons name is not that of one of your boyfriends family members, you will know he is talking to another girl.

Answer 5

Pretend you are doing a survey for the local community, from another number of course. Ask questions like are you the lady of the house, how many people live in your home, what kind of work do you do, what is your age, are you married divorced.......then ask the name (first only). When your husband gets home, tell him she called and told you all about the affair, with all that information you have he can't deny it lol

Answer 6

Call the number from a payphone or something similar and act as if you are a phone company (electric company, etc...) checking and verifying some information. Simply say: "I am calling to check and see if you are happy with your phone service Miss Conners"...when she says "my name isn't miss conners politely say "oh, my goodness, i apologize, i am looking at the wrong paperwork....what is your name again?" people automatically give out their name when they think what they're doing is important and has to do with their service....especially when you're polite. once you get the name do this.....write the name on a piece of paper and put it on the refridgerator....just leave it there and see what happens. be well.

Answer 7

Now is the time to further your investigation. The first thing you need to do is a reverse phone search so that you can get her name, address, etc. You should then go into your husbands email, and find any emails from this woman. It may be innocent, but why take the chance.

Answer 8

That you think the phone company is over charging you because you keep seeing this number but don't where it is coming from or who it belongs to. If it is an aunt or cousin then they will understand if it is someone it shouldn't be then they'll probably act a bit suspicious. Also a great search engine is www.smartpages.com you can actually look up info by simply providing the number. I hope this helps and I hope you don't find anything that you shouldn't.

Best Wishes!!!

Answer 9

My husband has done the same. I confronted him about it. He just changed his cell phone number. But of course sooner or later he just called the females back and gave them his new number.

Answer 10

You may be over reacting but maybe not. Call the number and say your name and then ask who that is. If they dont know who you are even when you say your name you know he is cheating. Confront him and tell him some girl called him from this number and who is it?! Hopefully she is one of his relatives. If not good luck to you and find another guy who is worthy of you!