Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and everytime we talk about marriage he always ha a good excuse why he hasnt asked me yet. He wants a better job, we are both so busy, he wants to surprise me ,money is tight ect. I am 25 years old and I have a 5 year old child...Should I move on? I am startin to feel like I am wasteing my time.

2006-10-30 04:33:20 · 13 answers · asked by SWEETCAITY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay.....u may not think this is any of my business, but.......never mind, okay she is only 14 years old, and im even older than her and she has this boyfriend and they go really far.....u know what i mean right???? and she drinks, and all that, she doesnt do drugs or anything, but if shes not carefull shes gonna' end up with a kid, can i tell her something or what can i do??

2006-10-30 04:32:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How can I stop obsessing about sex. I think it is because I am a 24 year old virgin, and I want to wait for my soul mate. This is the hardest thing I have ever tried to over come in my life. I think about sex all the time. I think about it so much that I have even started to hate it. I also want to give in on waiting for my soul mate but I really don't want to so please help me with any ideas on stopping obsessing about sex thank you.

2006-10-30 04:32:04 · 25 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 26 year old white male in McDonough, GA.....and there seems to be very few girls who just looking for fun and NOT trying to get married!! Let me know if any of you girls from the south Atlanta area and just looking for fun!

2006-10-30 04:31:50 · 3 answers · asked by Justin L 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is this question asked so obsessively? There never has been, nor will there ever be, a consistent answer. Womens prefences vary. This is about insecurity. We men are just too insecure. Who agrees with me that the size question has no single answer?

2006-10-30 04:31:15 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When my husband & 1st wife split, she took their 5yr old girl (only child) & disappered for 5 months. When he got her back, he felt so bad, what she had gone through. She was sleeping with him, she would cry & he would give her anything. Its not as bad as it was, but the sleeping with us at night. For awhille I had her in her own room all night for 5-6 weeks, then we watched a show on TV in bed, now I can't get him to put her in her bed. He says the feeling of her needing him helps with making up for what she went through. My complain is we sleep on a queen bed, he is 220 lbs, I'm 140 lbs, both are 5' 8", & she is 45 lbs, a 5 yr old. I wake up to his knee wedged in my back or a leg over my lower back , or a arm wraped around my head.He is a logger, excavater, a big guy. If he & I go to bed alone, its onely for a few hours. But I cant get him to put her back. Now I'm the geluase one, & don't understand the bond they have, ect. What do I do?

2006-10-30 04:31:14 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im trying to get a present for my best friend/ x gf i know what to get her I want to get her a cell phone and I would pay for it every month. I know this would be the best present, but here is the problem right now i live in FL and she lives in GA Im moving back so but for now Im here. I would have to buy the phone in GA right? How would i do this.plz help I really one to get her a cell phone.

2006-10-30 04:30:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I’ve just recently started a new job; the team I work in consists of me and three other people. We all get on well, there’s one girl who’s three years older then me, and during one conversation regarding another co-workers marriage, she asked me if I had a girlfriend (which was totally from nowhere, and was directed to me whilst other colleagues were still talking to each other, so no one apart from me actually heard what she said). Me being rather shy, I just said “no” and laughed it off, she then apologised and said she shouldn’t of asked (considering we don’t even no each other that well at all).

Now, I’m just wondering if this in fact means anything. Because I do really like this girl, but I’m not sure if I should flirt with her, or should I enquire why she asked me that question? I would just like to know people’s thought’s, it probably might not have meant anything at all LOL.

2006-10-30 04:29:59 · 15 answers · asked by sonnysingh85 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 04:29:47 · 29 answers · asked by Notta 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've had 3 dates, so when do you consider yourself more then a date?

2006-10-30 04:28:50 · 12 answers · asked by Lin_82 1 in Singles & Dating

someone who was short sighted? someone who you knew would need help with travel and reading? or would you feel that this would be a burden on youself and think to yourself you would not be able to handle it? Someone with a minor disability e.g. short sighted would this bother you?

2006-10-30 04:28:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife says i have an anger control issue, and i feel like maybe she is right, but sometimes it is hard to control. some of the reasons i get angry, are as listed, when i hear people chew their food like crunching ice, chips and so forth it drives me nuts, when people talk during a movie. when my kid talks back to me or ignores me when i ask him to do something and he does not do it , i get very upset.
now i am not physically abusive, but i get very loud and mean is what my wife says. in the mornings is the worst. I don't understand it i used to be easy to wake up and i used to wake up in great mood, but mornings are not fun for me anymore, it is always a fight to get my son up and dressed for school, i have to take our dogs outside, feed them. i drink coffee in morning but i have to wait till i get to work to have my first cup. i feel like i don't have anger issues i feel like i have frustration issues.

2006-10-30 04:28:37 · 14 answers · asked by boominz28 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months now. My family doesn't have anything against him except the fact that he has been divorced. He was previously married for two months. His ex-wife cheated on him while they were on their honeymoon. And when they got back she said that she wanted to marry this other guy. So my boyfriend did the only thing he new to do, and divorced her. All of this happened about 6 years ago.

Do you think he is free to remarry?

My parents are taking it back to the Bible ( which I believe is good) but they are saying that they believe biblically that under no currcumstances should a divorced persone remarry. I have brought up the Matthew 19:9 verse, but they say that that (exception clause) only applies in a situation like mary and jospeh. So pretty much if my boyfriend would have gotten married, but had not slept with his wife. Then he would be free to divorce her and remarry.

2006-10-30 04:28:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Should polygamy be allowed?
If yes, what are the advantages of polygamy?
If no, what are the disadvantages of polygamy?

2006-10-30 04:27:50 · 4 answers · asked by R A 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Best friend has a wonderful boyfriend who she has had sex with. She bumped into her ex at the mall and they started hanging out and were flirting a lot. Ex couldn't belive that they had broken up. Although the day before she ran into him, her other guy friend had a dare for her to kiss his buddie, which she did. She feels that she can conquer the world with her ex, she's too ALIVE for her boyfriend, and doesn't really know the one she kissed, but she does know that she's happy with him. What does she do to make HERSELF happy? I already told her to find a way to think about herself without being selfish. How can she do that with 3 guys who bring her down when she tries to be happy with them?

2006-10-30 04:26:45 · 9 answers · asked by goddess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

What would be more important to you in a relationship... love or wealth? if your hsuband/wife loved you soo much that they would stand by you no matter what, but you wasnt very wealthy but you could support them would that be enough? or would you want luxuaries and be spoilt? answer with honesty

2006-10-30 04:25:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are you still as happy as the first day you got together or happier

2006-10-30 04:25:45 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Should polygamy be allowed?
If yes, what are the advantages of polygamy?
If no, what are the disadvantages of polygamy?

2006-10-30 04:25:40 · 12 answers · asked by R A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 04:25:15 · 2 answers · asked by sweetgirl 1 in Friends

it's a twist. my g\f caught me with my wife. now for whatever reason they're both mad at me. i mean MAD. i don't know whether to smooth the whole thing out, or get a new wife AND a new g\f. i hate to start from scratch again..........whaddya think i should do????

2006-10-30 04:24:30 · 25 answers · asked by kurleylovescheese 6 in Singles & Dating

My wife is an ex hooker. I want to have a custody of our son. What are my chances?
When I married her she was 21 and in the big mess. She was a prostitute in monaco, and i got her out of it.
One month into marriage she told me she is pregnant and demanded one million dollars to be put into her account, otherwise she will abort our child. I managed to keep her waiting for that money until it was too late to do the abortion :-) But the relationships went downhill from there , she said i cheated her by not paying.
We lived together for 5 years, she was abusive and rude to me, called me ugly, old, bold and old and disgusting..She is bright so she graduated at the top of her course and even got into London School of Economics for masters.
2 years after our son was born she cheated on me, than abandonned our son and dissapeared for 2 months hooking again.Thank came back demanding maintenance and kid. She was about the loose the case, and i still loved her, so i took her back.
But now I meet a girl of my dreams and want to re-marry. Do you think i will get a custody?

2006-10-30 04:23:13 · 23 answers · asked by Nikolaj B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

To start out with. I'm in a 3 year relationship right now. No serious problems between us at all. However, one of my guy friends has been acting really weird lately. He's been wanting to hang out with me almost every day...he'll call me insisting that we spend a good part of the day together...he's usually not this clingy. The other day he told me how beautiful I was..and how he liked the pictures I have on my website..etc. I don't want to think he's wanting something more than friendship because he knows I'm involved with someone else right now. What could it be?

2006-10-30 04:22:09 · 14 answers · asked by Jackie 2 in Friends

Do you prefer,blondes,redheads,or brunettes?Or does it even matter? Is it really true that blondes have more fun? I'm a redhead and I have lots of fun.I also know redheads are very kinky.

2006-10-30 04:21:33 · 15 answers · asked by Jessica S 2 in Singles & Dating

my dad just recently got a job up north and is only home on weekends so i live with my step mom who i absolutly dont get along with! and my mom lives in alabama and i really dont want to live with my step mom but i dont want to just up and leave my dad... and things havent been going to well, like with school and this one guy... and i'm really scared that if i stay here then i'll do something stupid. the only thing that's keeping me here is my friends but there should be more.... i'm just not happy anymore :[

2006-10-30 04:21:31 · 7 answers · asked by yooo JUSTINE <3 1 in Family

So he's avatar is like a dark haired guy with big funny glasses,
he's nickname was dubling guy and now it is dubs up or something like it.I'm just wondering who is he?
He is so mysterious...if you find him just let me know.
Grazie tante!

2006-10-30 04:20:48 · 8 answers · asked by Minerva 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for 5 years. I have one child already and want another. My husband doesn't. The marriage is not going so well. Possible divorce in our very near future. To get to the point, Ihave known this "friend" of mine for almost 1 year. He knows all about my marriage, ect. The other day when we were talking, I told him how badly I wanted another child and his comment was "Well, when do you want to start working on it?". I should maybe mention he is a single, 40 year old dad of a 13 year old, and I am 23 with a 4 year old. Should I take him seriously or what should I make of his comment?
serious answers only! NO HATERS!!

2006-10-30 04:19:39 · 35 answers · asked by blue_eyed_girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiances mother and I got along up until this past Mother's Day. Both my family and his have very close family values so the holidays are always difficult. We have worked out a system that is perfectly even, one year his family, one year mine. They live about 2 hours away from us so it is difficult to see both sides in one day. Last Mother's Day we told her we would be coming to visit on the Saturday before Mother's Day because we were going to be with my mom on Sunday. She told him to "Have fun with his new family" and hung up on him. She has not called us since. He is waiting for her to apologize (which isnt going to happen) and he is the type that avoids things. We have been to some family functions and she acts like nothing ever happened but still won't call us or come over. We are getting married in 6 months and I need addresses from her and some music selections....also, I just want things to be normal again. What should I do??

2006-10-30 04:19:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok so this guy we talked for like 2 weeks straight and then he starts dating this other girl but still acts like he likes me and then on top of that needs to know who im texting or whatever in class and like he randumly texted me last night and asked me how i was and i said fine and then i asked how he was and he told me alright i guess and then i asked what he had been up to and he said hanign out with megan the girl he is somewhat seeing and then asked about me and i said hanign out with my friend brandon and then he wanted to know what is last name was and i said he didnt go to our school adn he like stoped talking to me wtf idk if he thinks i schould still like him even tho he is practically going out with someone else or what

2006-10-30 04:16:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I have a little problem. I am so sick of loving my ex, and everytime I try to walk away something about him just keeps pullin me back.Now I hear he is "talkin" to this chick i know. I have alot of better guys wantin to hook up with me, and I really like two of them, but I LOVE my ex. It's not only about love, sex is also keepin me single. I already messed up and had sex with him (alot) and I dont wanna have sex with other people so I stay single so I wont cheat. He is my weakness and if I am to stay faithful I gotta stay away from HIM! and his guy I am kinda "Talkin" to asked me a couple of times if I think I would be faithful and I said yea but I am not too sure if that is true. All of my best memories are with my ex (and so are my worst) I wanna stop bein stupid and move on but I cant. I keep thinkin about what we had and how much fun it is with him. But he don't give a damn about me because if he did he wouldn't do the things he do. So how can I let go if I still want him!

2006-10-30 04:16:10 · 10 answers · asked by :Dazed and Confused: 2 in Singles & Dating

He told me he was seperated when I first met him in which I found out they were stll together a couple of weeks later. Even after I found this out I continued to see him. Things were fine between us until I told him I was going to keep the baby. Then he began to threaten me if I didn't abort. Even after I was too far along to abort he told to put baby up for adoption. When I told him I was going to keep it he informed me that he didn't want to have anything else to do with me and don't call him when baby is born because it was low down of me to keep baby after I told him I wouldn't keep it. My family wants me to put him om child support, but I promised him I wouldn't do that. Plus I'm afraid that things would get really ugly if his wife were to find out. This is not the first child he has had outside of his marriage. He's a police officer and my house is on his beat, which I have not lived at my house for the past two months. But I would be afraid to move back after I give birth.

2006-10-30 04:15:44 · 47 answers · asked by divalicious 2 in Other - Family & Relationships