Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

My friend is in love with a guy but I think she is wasting her time. She said they revealed their fondness for each other in April and proceeded to kiss. She performed oral on him (he did nothing for her). She asked if he wanted to come back to her place and he replied no, that he wanted to "take it slow." They continued to see one another ( a movie here, bowling there but no intimacy). She found out he got involved with another girl, intimately, in June. In October, he came to her birthday bar hopping party and she learned that he no longer had a girlfriend. On the way to the bar, she rode with him and they began to get intimate, he whipped "it" out (as he had done before and she performed oral). As before, each time she asks him out, he makes an excuse. She asked me what she should do. I really think he just likes her for the "intimacy" he gets. What do you think? She doesn't believe me.

2006-10-30 04:49:12 · 8 answers · asked by terryoulboub 5 in Singles & Dating

I am about 80lbs heavier than I was when we first married 12 yrs ago. My wife has not changed at all and really is very gorgeous. I feel bad when we have our time together in the sense that I am able to touch her great body but she doesn't have the same of me. I know I should loose the weight but motivation is tough..any ideas.

2006-10-30 04:49:10 · 14 answers · asked by Notta 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay i have this girl i was with and she said she just wanted to be friends until i'll relationship get better. And i still love her and she says she still love me and lately we have been hanging out going to the movies and talking to each other alot and i feel i have changed but im just wondering from a woman's view will u take a man back in fall in love with him again if u think he have changed because i dont think she will still be hanging out with me and letting me watch her child if she didnt still love me and want to give me a second chance. And how long do u think it will take for a woman to fall back in love with someone do it take weeks or months. And is it possible

2006-10-30 04:49:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's tough i'm taking courses online to learn a bit of simple words,kinda frustrating though.You think this relation ship will work?

2006-10-30 04:47:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i have been together 3 years on november 2 but his birthday is november 1st.... so we usually celebrate his birthday on our anniversary... I have over done the gifts, the first time i got him a $1,500 movado watch then i got him a $1,700 lap top and i did all the sweet things like i don't know what to buy him like all the little nick knacks clothes cologne i buy him for fun and this year for my birthday he went completely all out he spent over $6,000 to make it unforgetabble Now my question is i am really tight on money but i really want to make his birthday unforgettable too. What should i do or what could i get him? but still could be in my budget...? nothing over $300.00 Help please...

2006-10-30 04:47:31 · 16 answers · asked by candylbsb45 2 in Singles & Dating

He had a dream the other night that I got married and seemed pretty sad about it and was calling me like crazy since that dream. He didn't want me to go to store late last night to get him some soup (he's sick) because he doesn't want me out that late at night. We've been dating now for a year and a half.

2006-10-30 04:46:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been enjoying anal sex for about 7 years sometimes I like it more than intercourse. My best friends says I'm nuts. I have tried to get her to let her husband do it but she won't budge. My question is I'm I the only women besides porno stars that like it. Lori

2006-10-30 04:45:57 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 04:45:34 · 7 answers · asked by cottoncandy302 1 in Family

all of a sudden you found your best friend is dating the girl you love ...

NOTE : your best friend knows very well that you really loves this girl but he didn't give a damn....

2006-10-30 04:45:16 · 7 answers · asked by tito 1 in Friends

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

Additional Details

34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

2006-10-30 04:44:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the name or the website for that tv show were you write them and they pick a needy family to help???? I know this 85 year old man, who lives with no water and no electricity who needs help.. Please hurry it is very important... and if you dont know that particular one is there another group... because i just dont have the money to help him like he deserves... it is very sad

2006-10-30 04:43:26 · 10 answers · asked by bbevans2006 2 in Friends

wat can i do .. iam so emotionl ..like i just broke up with my bf .. and.. my friends didnt like him and kno thay were not together they r like happy .. and i really need true friends right kno.. 2 help me out ..

2006-10-30 04:43:17 · 11 answers · asked by chikilin003 1 in Friends

2006-10-30 04:42:55 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to date one but someone told me that in general they

(a) do not date
(b) if they do, they will only date from their own caste

Anyone know more about this?

2006-10-30 04:42:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband had a one time affair two years ago. He was really sorry and long story short, I decided to stay, I have 4 kids and think that a dad is really important (even if he hardly helps at all with parenting). Four days ago, my 12 year old son was on the computer and found evidence of computer porn. By investigating, I found the times they were made was the times my husband was on. I don't get it, I keep myself looking beautiful, satisfy him in bed often, take really good care of him, and treat him with respect. I don't know how to handle it because he will deny it and lie about it and NEVER admit to it. I have trouble trusting him again. I'm afraid his porn habit will lead to something again. What do I do?

2006-10-30 04:42:01 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

wat if u r committed but u find another guy softer in heart than ur harsher in heart bf?....n that guy is serious about u too, for a relationship n u too get infatuated wid that guy

2006-10-30 04:41:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend, is spying on me. In other words, she is pyschic.
Trust me, she knows me inside and out, and the things I do.
Since she is born with this incredible, an accurate gift, should
I confront her about it? And let her know, that is not fair.
Tone it down, a little.

2006-10-30 04:40:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okay, he likes me i like him--but we only talk through myspace, and we dont talk at school, what do u thinks going on??? what can i do

2006-10-30 04:40:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

somebody said it's feeling a feeling or something you've never felt before. am confused bout it all.

2006-10-30 04:40:28 · 3 answers · asked by Yadnus 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok...I woke up on saturday morning...with remembering this dream...:
I went to the doctors, they told me I was pregnant....and I was like ok...how long...she told me it happened the week of halloween... (dream was in the future) I told my husband we can't have sex this whole week...He thinks I'm over reacting....Am I???
Not that I don't want kids....just you know not ready...

2006-10-30 04:40:12 · 15 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5 in Marriage & Divorce

We were engaged for about a month, met online about 2 months before hand. It still hurts, will for a while, but I was asked out last night by a good friend of mine....

2006-10-30 04:38:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 04:37:51 · 15 answers · asked by hossein 1 in Singles & Dating

I am planning on staying in tonight but don't wanna be boring and watch tv all night again with my partner! What can we do that would be fun and exciting?

2006-10-30 04:37:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What cha plans?
What cha costume?

2006-10-30 04:36:32 · 10 answers · asked by just1more 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm actually pregnant, and usually very attractive. However, I have gained a bit of weight. My hubby has done nothing to make me think hes ashamed, but I was wondering, from a guys persopective please?

2006-10-30 04:35:38 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing someone on and off for a year and now the dynamics are changing. How can both people be satisifed without one feeling cheated and the other feeling pressured? Is it possible to go from a sexual relationship with expectations to a sexual relationship without expectations and to always maintain the objective of the relationship; which is to be friends no matter what? This is a tough one, I know; but one worth exploring. Relationships are never as simple as: Ask a question///get an answer. But, please try. Thanks.

2006-10-30 04:35:21 · 18 answers · asked by boo 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my Girl friend loves each other as much as love can get. But I did something hoirrable to two of her friends not on purpose and I've tried to tell them sorry and I've done everything I could to get them to forgive me, but they won't.
Anyways, I'm affraid my girl friend is stuck in between and I don't want to lose her and I don't want her to be upset...she is my only friend but I also don't want her to lose her friends. So my reason for asking this is, how I can make it so that she won't have to chose a side and keep her friends and have her still be my girl friend. She is also worried about me having low self-esteem(which I do) so how can I improve on that as well? We really love each other and we want to be there for each other. How can I help and how can she help as well?

2006-10-30 04:35:09 · 2 answers · asked by Drew S 2 in Friends

2006-10-30 04:34:39 · 12 answers · asked by tightcurls69 1 in Family

Mine is my dad hes the best and the only person who will love me no matter what!

2006-10-30 04:33:50 · 13 answers · asked by CaSeY LyNe 3 in Friends

Ok so I have dated this guy for four years now and we are sorta still together but dont have the "title." We are college students and he loves to party, dance with girls, and has a history of lying to me. He always tells me he could never lose me and if he did his life would be hell. I cannot trust him anymore. I dont have that attraction anymore either.

Recently I met a guy at work and I am starting to like him. I hung out with him all night Saturday night and we have been talking on the phone. My question is, How do I tell the guy that I have been seeing for 4 years that its over without breaking his heart? Also, should I be honest about the other guy or just wait to tell him that?

2006-10-30 04:33:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating