her heart is with him, not with you. you are not the one for her. she is on the rebound and the rebound person always gets the shaft. no she is not happy, even if she dating you. why be there if she isnt really there for you. you deserve better, someone who will give you all of them self and not part of them self. unless you like drama, then stay where you are.
2006-10-30 05:00:14
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answered by Anonymous
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Alright, she's what you call "very greedy". She is only thinking of her feelings, no one else's obviously. First of all, you dont' need to put up with that! WHy are you doing that? Second of all, it's her ex! She shouldn't be contacting him anyways.....she dumped him. He has moved on and she can't stand it. She wants attention from him. Just to have the satisfaction that he's still 'in love' or 'talking' to her. I say you need to RUN from her. You can't be serious! How will you ever trust her? You can't tell me that her trying to contact her ex all the time makes you happy? HE is over HER! She may be over him, but still wanting attention from him. I don't think she's a very loyal/trustworthy person if you ask me.
2006-10-30 04:53:54
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answered by inlovewow 4
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Okay, I know what's going on cause I've been through this before! She is contacting her ex cause they were together for SO long. She isnt quite comfortable in a new relationship. It doesnt mean she doesnt love you or any of that. She's used to being with him and now she's not so its messing with her emotions. You need to confront her and tell her that you know she's talking to him and it hurts you. Tell her that you dont mean to be a control freak or anything but she needs to stop. Tell her that its just hurting her, trying to contact him. Tell her that you love her and you're there for her. Tell her that if she ever needs to vent about her past relationships or her current feelings, she can talk to you. Maybe you should start out by talking about your past and say "has that ever happened to you?" Get her talking and feeling like she can trust you. Be calm and hug her lots. Tell her that she shouldnt be upset that he wont talk to her cause she doesnt need a jerk like that anyway!
2006-10-30 04:52:13
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answered by katie-bug 5
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She has not closed the door on the last relationship. You can bet she'll email you as well if you two break up. She has an issue with letting go. In my opinion you should cool it with her so you don't get hurt. And you will. Tell her you want her to deal with her past issues w/her ex and if you really want a relationship with her step back for a bit and wait and see.
2006-10-30 04:50:42
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answered by areyoukidding 4
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She's obviously still hung up on him or thinks she is. Some people want what they can't have. BTW, quit torturing yourself by reading her emails. Tell her you're dropping her so she can spend more time emailing her ex. (Maybe he has blocked her) Then try to find someone else or just take a break from love for awhile.
2006-10-30 04:51:17
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answered by Anonymous
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I think she could be confused. She might wonder if she did the right thing when she dumped him or she might just like the idea that two men want her even if she wants just you. The only way to tell what is going on is asking her straight up.
2006-10-30 04:50:59
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answered by Eileen 3
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Sounds like she is having a hard time letting go and upset that he is not all broke up about it. I would just ask her up front what is going on and why she keeps trying to reach him. It is obvious that he is over it, but she is not.
2006-10-30 04:49:10
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answered by mayihelpyou 5
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We Ladies are very busy ask your question in 2 lines.
Sorry could not read your question which runs like a china wall.
2006-10-30 04:50:22
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answered by SKG R 6
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The only person who would know what is going on inside her head is HER. My suggestion is that you as HER what is going on.
2006-10-30 05:00:46
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answered by Anonymous
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oh wow. she hasn't gotten over him yet. poor thing. she needs more time. or she's a nutcase. either one, leave this one alone. she still hasn't gotten a clue that her man has left her.
i been there.....so i can sympathize. it can take some time.
2006-10-30 04:50:58
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answered by Bella 5
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