My friend is in love with a guy but I think she is wasting her time. She said they revealed their fondness for each other in April and proceeded to kiss. She performed oral on him (he did nothing for her). She asked if he wanted to come back to her place and he replied no, that he wanted to "take it slow." They continued to see one another ( a movie here, bowling there but no intimacy). She found out he got involved with another girl, intimately, in June. In October, he came to her birthday bar hopping party and she learned that he no longer had a girlfriend. On the way to the bar, she rode with him and they began to get intimate, he whipped "it" out (as he had done before and she performed oral). As before, each time she asks him out, he makes an excuse. She asked me what she should do. I really think he just likes her for the "intimacy" he gets. What do you think? She doesn't believe me.
2006-10-30 04:49:12 · 8 answers · asked by terryoulboub 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her to stop performing oral sex on him. He's never going to take it a step further with her b/c she lost respect for herself when she decided to perform oral on him. After he became intimate with someone else in June, why would she perform oral on him in October? He'll never do anything with her other than allow her to give him that little pleasure. She is looking for love and acceptance and she will not get it by sucking on his penis......That's all he want from her. They passed the taking it slow part when she did oral on him. For some reason, girls don't see doing oral as a big issue........where is the respect that you should have for yourself? She is doing all of that and he still do not want her on another level and he never will. Tell her to get with somebody that will respect and love her and to stop wasting time with him.
2006-10-30 05:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by DaddysGirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend isn't the brightest bulb in the package!
To me, oral is even more personal than intercourse. You shouldn't be sucking some dude d*** that doesn't care about you!
2006-10-30 12:55:16 · answer #2 · answered by Nunya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend is being used. She's giving it away for free... so, why should he ante up? Guys don't usually commit to anything they don't have to.
As for what to do... well, "Stop" comes to mind. But, this is her choice. Say your piece... and then drop it. Let her do what she wants. Just don't tell her that you told her so.
2006-10-30 12:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sam I AM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's using her for a b.j. cause it sounds like she gives them out pretty freely. and as soon as other guys hear about it they're gonna be calling her for a movie here or bowling there. tell her to keep it out of her mouth
2006-10-30 12:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right. She should dump the A sshole
2006-10-30 12:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a jerk and i think she needs to dump him. i think all he wants from her is oral sex and thats all
2006-10-30 13:11:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think the next time he pulls "it" out she should go down and bite it off....
2006-10-30 12:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ew.....she is so being used like trash. intimacy my rear end!
2006-10-30 12:52:33 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋