My wife is an ex hooker. I want to have a custody of our son. What are my chances?
When I married her she was 21 and in the big mess. She was a prostitute in monaco, and i got her out of it.
One month into marriage she told me she is pregnant and demanded one million dollars to be put into her account, otherwise she will abort our child. I managed to keep her waiting for that money until it was too late to do the abortion :-) But the relationships went downhill from there , she said i cheated her by not paying.
We lived together for 5 years, she was abusive and rude to me, called me ugly, old, bold and old and disgusting..She is bright so she graduated at the top of her course and even got into London School of Economics for masters.
2 years after our son was born she cheated on me, than abandonned our son and dissapeared for 2 months hooking again.Thank came back demanding maintenance and kid. She was about the loose the case, and i still loved her, so i took her back.
But now I meet a girl of my dreams and want to re-marry. Do you think i will get a custody?
2006-10-30 04:23:13 · 23 answers · asked by Nikolaj B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
have not being involved in childs life a lot up until now - my wife was. She was a good mother and changed her lifestyle a lot after marriage. She became a successful student and got a good job a year ago, but than droped it to study for masters recently.. She has being a model mother for the last two years and now comes across as a highly educated and smart woman. However I am sure she will revert to prostitution because she is very greedy and can't resist the money.
I have to admit that after all the rejection i reverted to drugs and have a cocain addiction which I am currently treating. I am 47 and my wife is 27. I have being arrested recently with drugs and currently released on bail. I am hoping to get a suspended sentence.
My wife doesn't do anything at the moment, just studies, but she found out about a girlfriend and is threatening with divorce now. I am afraid she is about to take me to cleaners.
2006-10-30 04:32:04 · update #1
If you can prove that your wife is still a hooker than you may have a chance. Try to make the judge see that she has a history of abandoning your son for the street life and you will probably win.
2006-10-30 04:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by L@M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she demanded so much money or she would have aborted the child, it seems you have a penny or two about, so get yourself a good solicitor, and you should get custody. Whereas for the divorce settlement, I am affraid she might get 50% of your assets. If I were you, I'd deny ever seeing this other woman that you want to remarry - keep her out of the picture for the time being in case the court decided in your wife's favour, for the benefit of your child not being 'traumatised' because you entered into a new relationship, yet the child is unfamiliar with this new person in his life.
2006-10-30 21:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by ribena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you have sole custody of your son, it should be shared between the two of you both of you have bad habits so you are even on that one, but it is very cruel for a man to try to take a child off its mother. If you are trying to avoid maintenance by having the boy that is also wrong. You should have packed up with her when she abandonned you before you met the other woman.
2006-10-30 12:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because she's an ex prozzie, don't make her a bad mother, the fight was between you and her, and not the child, i think she was asking for a bit too much in order for her not to abort this child (emotional blackmail)...she didn't so that's a good thing, all the bad things she said to you were said out of angst, she prolly didn't mean any of it, we all say things we don't mean when were upset with our partners... you cannot take that child from her just because she's back on the game, but you can file for a divorce and share custody of the child, as long as she is looking after him then whats to worry about...you keep paying her maintenance and she will be happy, but don't drag your son into this, after all he didn't ask to be born, so be adults about this, stop bickering and make your child grow up a happy person....you've met someone else now, so move on
2006-10-30 04:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A) I have to assume you're writing some low-rent screen play and can't figure out how to end it.
B) If you are the type of person who might have $1,000,000 to buy off a hooker-turned-model (happens all the time, I'm sure--just like strippers getting degrees) you can surely afford an attorney and shouldn't be asking random teenaged Yahoo-ers for legal advice. Another hole in your story: wouldn't she want a million Euros or a million pounds?
C) Hole number 3: A hooker tells you she's pregnant and it's yours. You believe her?
2006-10-30 04:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by T. B. the Wise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Poor child - mum's a prozzie and dad's a druggie. I think you'll both be lucky the kid doesn't 'divorce' the pair of you. Neither of you seem to be able to stay on straight-and-narrow long enough to focus on bringing up this poor child in a loving environment. Sort yourselves out, the pair of you, and try to come to an amicable agreement of joint custody where the child spends its time with well-balanced individuals.
2006-10-30 06:03:03 · answer #6 · answered by Just_wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certaintly think you have a chance. If you are worried that the child isnt actually yours and therefore wouldnt get custody, stop worrying. Since you were married at the time she gave birth and your name is on the birth certificate, you are recognized as the childs father, even if a blood test says your not.
2006-10-30 04:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i cant think all the advice above its really what you expected to read and i didn't either because i hope I'm wrong for your sake and your son but i think your going to have to put up a good case to get custody as usually despite all the woman usually wins but Good Luck old son
2006-10-30 04:42:24 · answer #8 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing like a sad guy... Drugs are for losers !!! Go make a no baby with the new gf and forget the previous baby sad as it may sounds your are never going to win... As YOU say she is smarter than you and seen you coming long long way off !!!
2006-10-30 17:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by weescotsguy66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you having a laugh or what. You are a druggie by your own admission and she's a good mother again by your own admission. Why would any court in the land grant you custody. Get real/
2006-10-30 05:28:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋