Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

at 18 i lost my virginity then at 19 i started dating my current boyfriend for some stupid reason we all ended living together my 1st and his gf, my boyfriend-n I. My feelings for my 1st (my bf knew this already) emerged again being in close proximity of eachother i cheated on my bf..5+ yrs later we have a baby, he already took me back..why is he emotionally/physically distant ?

2006-10-30 03:48:23 · 4 answers · asked by wannaBluvd 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-30 03:45:59 · 36 answers · asked by Camden M 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for over 8 and a half years. We have a 2 1/2 year old son and have been trying to conceive. We have generally always had a very healthy relationship...no major problems. Besides our son he is my life. Our friends and family think and say that we belong together. Yadda yadda yadda.... Anyways in the last couple of months he started lying to me about little things. I don't mean anything major but stupid little things. I don't get really mad at him when I find out but I do get upset and let him know it. Then the next day everything is fine. I don't want him to get the impression that it is ok to do this....but I don't want to make a huge deal of it either. It reminds me of dealing with a child, you want to punish them so they don't do it again, yet you don't want to in fear of pushing them away. I hope that someone can help me.....PLEASE!!!!

2006-10-30 03:45:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-30 03:44:44 · 11 answers · asked by Michael D 1 in Singles & Dating

anytime I go out on my own, several girls come to dance with me, if i chat with one, the rest will pull her away, if I try to chat all of them, I go home without links with any of them. What do you suggest I do next tiem ladies?

2006-10-30 03:44:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok everybody has done things as teens and young adults that may not have been the best idea in hindsight but how do you handle the drug situation now if you have a young adult who is drinking illegally, occasionally alone, and possibly stealing it from work and smoking pot in the house when they think no one is paying attention and possibly other drugs? Works very part time and takes a few college classes but doesn't wake up in time to get there sometimes.

Do you back off and hope it's just a faze or do you take action and if so to what length? I ask because my significant other is going through this will their 19 year old and it is causing chaos in our house. There is also a 15 year old and 14 year old to consider.

He also tends to lie or say it's none of your business if you ask anything like where he is off to or details to a particular incident

2006-10-30 03:43:30 · 11 answers · asked by Subi 2 in Family

ok so i have bein seein my gf for about a month now...she says she loves me(already) and wants us to get down soon and go out...the only thing is, i dont see her very often and when shes not around im interested in her sometimes, but sometimes when we talk theres just no interest...is that a sign that this girl is not for me, or should i give things more time?i just dont know what to do, shes a really sweet girl and all but idk what it is thats holding me back.

2006-10-30 03:42:57 · 5 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 03:42:28 · 24 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

and we all know that just might not work. he use to not treat me like his woman so i said lets just be friends cuz it seems he treats me better when we dont have a commitment. well he said he dont want to be just friends. he wants us to be together. that doesnt make sense to me. what is he really trying to do and say?

2006-10-30 03:42:13 · 4 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

Not sexual, unless you keep in mind I'm very pregnant! Also not super expensive. What do you wish someone would do for you?

2006-10-30 03:41:15 · 26 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well.....i love a girl.........i love her too much......and you can call it one way love......coz about other side of love..i always got confused........coz dere is always alottt of guys around her...n she dnt tell me abt dem.....but as i feel each n every thng abt her.....n came to knw dat there is some one around him........i try to tell her that how much i love her....but when she tell me abt the guys who's around him.......dey r too much gud den me...so i Kept Silence......so tell me which way i shud choose?

2006-10-30 03:41:09 · 7 answers · asked by Astrologer 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend moved away a couple of years ago and i know where she lives, but do not know her phone#, just recently i found out from her mom that she has an e-mail address, but her mom did not know it and she does not have a phone now, i was wondering how i could go about finding an e-mail address for her

2006-10-30 03:40:18 · 3 answers · asked by lisa m 1 in Friends

i have a feeling for this guy and he said he is not looking relationship, he told me that months ago and he been nice to me and talk to and sometime like to barder me. i stay away because i have feeling for him and b/c of what he said months ago that he isn't looking relationship.
sometime i feel like i have to act in away so he can ask me out.
i feel that it best to be urself then act like somebody i am not right?

2006-10-30 03:40:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well..the story has come to an end..atleast i wont be flooding the space nemore with questions about this guy..the guy at my work place who i thought was interested in me. .surprised me...since 2 months we have been seeing each other during lunch hrs at work....and he seemed very fascinated..he wud do all kinds a things to catch my attention and talk 2 me..for the kinda person i am....i used to get nervous initially since i was equally attracted...we spoke very briefly only coupla times...2 weeks back I thought he spoke rude, and did not really pay much attention 2 him...not sure if this really pissed him off....that was just for a day and i felt bad for everything and walked to him and tried talking and guess what?? he walks off saying he is very busy and has lotsa things to do..since then he has been avoiding meeting me anywhere on the floor..well..now how do i get back at this guy...and save my self -respect and show him that i equally dont care....lord!

2006-10-30 03:39:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 03:39:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We will be divorcing soon.

Do you think he is giving me freedom to prove that I can be unfaithful and to influence his divorce case ( he is rich, and we were together for 5 years)

2006-10-30 03:39:11 · 60 answers · asked by janna c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my sister has been going throu a really tough time lately, i see her slowly changing back into her bad lifesyle everyday(sex,drugs, fights, Rebel without a cause). I dont know whats causing it, but i think it might have something to do with this being her Seniour year at high school(its my last year 2). we use to be really close until i started going back to church and she sorta just quit going. Could it be that she feels betrayed by me or something, cause we use to do alot of fun stuff together, go clubbin, skip school 2 go 2 tha movies,partys, etc; i tried talking to her, but she just tells me shes sleepy or has 2 go somewhere. i really care about my sis, please help me. what should i do?

2006-10-30 03:38:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive been dating a girl for 2 years, we have lived together for the last year. We recently broke up because of too much arguing, and honestly her mother was over for the week as she lives far away and almost pushed us apart, saying thats it ive had it and im gonna make u both move on. Now I have insane feelings for this girl, i still love her and i feel like shes the one. Anytime I told her that she would start crying, and I cant even talk to her becasue her mother wants to be in the room and i cant talk to her on the phone. I really want to save the relationship but I dont know if I can do it. She really values and loves her mom and I feel liek im in the backseat. I dont know what to do, im crazy about her and I feel like im being forced to go away without even exchanging my thoughts with my exgirlfriend. I feel gained up on in a way, I dont know what to do....

2006-10-30 03:37:36 · 7 answers · asked by screwed_up02 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been thinking of this guy for such a long time..
I used to like him, i guess...
He's the only person who can make my heart beating so fast...
i've been with a few guys for sometimes, but none of them can make me feel the way i felt with him... but the fact is, he doesn't like me back, worst of all, he hates me..

so, here's what i wanna know,
does that mean he's my first love?
and a few days ago, I dreamt about him,
we've never talked anymore for 3 years now, we've met each other, almost everyday at school, but i never wanna see him and he too. But strangely, when he's somewhere near me, i'll be directly look at him.. so did he..

please tell me what u think...
thank you..

2006-10-30 03:37:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am worried he is giving me my freedom back to win his court case - we will be divorcing soon.
Do you think he is sincere and is giving me my freedom? Or is he playing a game to get evidence of infidelity?

2006-10-30 03:37:23 · 15 answers · asked by janna c 1 in Singles & Dating

His parents coming from a different background/culture disciplined him differently. I don't know where or how it started but, it seems to be so natural to him, it hurts where i am bruised for a week or so...

2006-10-30 03:36:05 · 30 answers · asked by wannaBluvd 2 in Family

Is it wrong to enjoy being slapped,tied up, choked,and belittled during sex?

2006-10-30 03:35:55 · 49 answers · asked by Jessica S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 03:35:45 · 10 answers · asked by Baby Star 2 in Singles & Dating

God Bless!

2006-10-30 03:35:37 · 10 answers · asked by I-C-U 5 in Singles & Dating

even if it started to have an affect on your personal self-esteem?

2006-10-30 03:33:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-30 03:33:39 · 14 answers · asked by mystery t 4 in Marriage & Divorce

im also a bridesmaid at this ignore friend wedding. Shes also a bridesmaid at mine...so how can i tell her i dont want to be anymore?

2006-10-30 03:32:47 · 3 answers · asked by Newlywed 4 in Friends

Ok so this other person has physically everything you desire, would you have a No Strings Attached encounter then?

2006-10-30 03:30:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 03:29:57 · 48 answers · asked by peterjones3967 1 in Singles & Dating

For instance, if your bf or husband lost all his money, would you still "love" him? What if after that, he lost his leg and vision, would you still "love" him? How about if he suddenly got Alzheimer's, would you still "love" him?

2006-10-30 03:29:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships