Is it wrong to enjoy being slapped,tied up, choked,and belittled during sex?
2006-10-30 03:35:55 · 49 answers · asked by Jessica S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I really enjoy being slapped, choked, belittled,etc during sex, bondage is wonderful.I also feel the need to have sex at least twice a day, is that wrong? My husband can't keep up. I have to masterbate at least once a day.I almost always fantasize about being raped or hurt in some way.
2006-10-30 03:42:47 · update #1
beat me whip me tell me you love me! perfectly normal babe
2006-10-30 03:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by paulisfree2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, no but you have to be careful with the choking thing!! You can get brain damage! As far as being slapped, I like that too, but not hard! I also love being tied up!! So I feel we are normal. I like to be called a slut too! So yeah bondage is my lifestyle too! :) Just for the record, I WAS NOT sexually violated in anyway in my past! There is nothing wrong with you! I thought I was crazy too for a time, but I was so happy when someone told me I was not!! I found out there was lots and lots of other people who enjoyed this kind of lifestyle! You also have to trust the guy your with!! It is very very important! See the link below for a good movie reguarding this lifestyle!
2006-10-30 04:00:30 · answer #2 · answered by LadyL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I think many people (although they may not admit it) enjoy a bite on the nape of the neck, a firm grip on the hips of a lover, and yes, the occasionl spanking. I don't think it's wrong, but I am also not you. The question to ask yourself, is do YOU think it's wrong to enjoy being slapped,tied up, choked,and belittled during sex?
2006-10-30 03:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by Joel Sopp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think anything that consenting adults do in private with other consenting adults is fine. Choking is the only act that would cause me to be concerned. This is something that could very easily go badly. Do you really want to risk dying for the sake of a little excitement?
2006-10-30 03:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as no laws are being violated, what you and your partner want to do in the privacy of your bedroom is not "wrong". I have found over the years that when women want to be treated like that during sex, the vast majority of them have been sexually assaulted in their past and have somehow come to believe that is how they should be treated. It frequently stems for a poor self image and lack of confidence. Not all women like if for that reason, but most do and you need to ask yourself why you like it or feel you need to be treated like that during sex. If you do it because you honestly enjoy it, that is one thing, but if you do it because you think that is all you deserve, you need to seek counseling.
2006-10-30 03:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need some help, a little bondage and role play is fun but constant rape fantasies and the abuse sound like you have a lot of deep seeded issues that you need to address
2006-10-30 04:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by burnttoast97 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not wrong but makes me wonder what trauma you went through early on that made you like it. honestly could handle all but the choking thats just a little to much for me.
2006-10-30 03:38:04 · answer #7 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Anything (within reason) to spice up a sexual relationship can be fun, but I would not allow choking.
2006-10-30 03:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a great girlfriend but too unstable to marry.
I love the fact that you have a strong drive but I think you may need help.
2006-10-30 04:18:27 · answer #9 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel it isn't wrong as long as it doesn't go to far. You say your husband can't keep up have you thought of finding someone on the side???
2006-10-30 03:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by justme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You enjoy that? Can i get your phone number? What else can you do? If loving is sex is wrong who would wanna be right?
2006-10-30 03:41:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋