I am worried he is giving me my freedom back to win his court case - we will be divorcing soon.
Do you think he is sincere and is giving me my freedom? Or is he playing a game to get evidence of infidelity?
2006-10-30 03:37:23 · 15 answers · asked by janna c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it. He has/
2006-10-30 03:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's unlikely he's being sincere. It sounds a lot like he's playing a game to get evidence of your infidelity. Just hold the course, await the end of the court case and then find someone for yourself because you want to, not because your husband says you're free to.
2006-10-30 03:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by djg5150 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you find someone after the seperation why is that infidelity your already divorcing. i think he wants to make himself feel better about his own situation. Found a girlfriend and there going to get married. he may be feeling guilty or could be playing a game. Ask professional advice tell them what your husband has said and see what they think.
But only find someone when you feel ready to do so not because you husband is giving his permission.
2006-10-30 03:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play that game at all, remain the way you are. He has probably been advised by his attorney to get you to be unfaithful that way you also won't go out a winner or any better. They always do that. My step father tried it with my mom and her lawyer told her it would joepardise her case. So, stick to yourself. You can date as much as you want to when the divorce is all over.
2006-10-30 03:41:25 · answer #4 · answered by DolphinLami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay "single" like you are now. If you really want to go out with someone consult your solicitor. At the hearing act sad and crusshed!!! After the devorce get yourself some sexy new clothes, go out and find yourself a real man!
2006-10-30 04:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by Vicki Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by law you are legally bound to the person you marry
if you are sexually involved with another person during that time, "with or without permission", this is legaly deemed as adultery
just cause he could not behave himself, trying to trick you into the same error so can then label you the same as he - adulterer
if you are divorcing - you do not need his permission on anything
be cautious what you legally sign to also - cos once it is done - it is done
2006-10-30 03:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he thinks you are stupid. Do not give him anything to play against you. Just get your divorce and THEN go on with your life.
2006-10-30 03:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by Roger S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, to be on the safe side....wait til the divorce is final. He could be trying to get evidence on you. So be cool and wait.
2006-10-30 03:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is being a jerk, he has not right to give you permission to do anything.
Do not fall prey to a trap, wait until the divorce is final~
2006-10-30 03:49:18 · answer #9 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Janna that guys pushing you into a trap so wise up and dont fall for it and why would he want to do it to you did you have a bitter parting
2006-10-30 04:09:14 · answer #10 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play it!
Consult your solicitor before you do anything!
He may be sincere but only YOU know that!
2006-10-30 03:40:24 · answer #11 · answered by Amanda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋