ok so i have bein seein my gf for about a month now...she says she loves me(already) and wants us to get down soon and go out...the only thing is, i dont see her very often and when shes not around im interested in her sometimes, but sometimes when we talk theres just no interest...is that a sign that this girl is not for me, or should i give things more time?i just dont know what to do, shes a really sweet girl and all but idk what it is thats holding me back.
2006-10-30 03:42:57 · 5 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not ready for a gf
2006-10-30 03:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, u need to go slow. n don't start thinkin' if she's for u or not! it's just been a month, so don't get ur head in too many fugitive things. since u don't see her often, then try to keep in touch regularly over the phone, messegs or email. don't plan what you want to talk about, just flow with the moment and be yourself. relationships are bound be slow or less interesting at some certain stage but u shouldn't think that straight away. don't expect to many happening stuff so early, take ur time. u got too much expectation with her but u're not ending up anywhere with explanation so that's the fact which is bothering and holding you back. be urself and take ur time with her, don't rush in like fools do, she'll come around.
2006-10-30 11:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by don_yourmate 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not sure of yourself yet.. Don't jump into a serious relationship like that or else you will be trap in there.. You would suffer from it.. One month is not enough time for you to decide...
2006-10-30 11:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by jane u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like you are scared that you may have found someone that you might could care for!
2006-10-30 11:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time and see how it goes. However, do what is best for you.
2006-10-30 11:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by loveangel22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋