well..the story has come to an end..atleast i wont be flooding the space nemore with questions about this guy..the guy at my work place who i thought was interested in me. .surprised me...since 2 months we have been seeing each other during lunch hrs at work....and he seemed very fascinated..he wud do all kinds a things to catch my attention and talk 2 me..for the kinda person i am....i used to get nervous initially since i was equally attracted...we spoke very briefly only coupla times...2 weeks back I thought he spoke rude, and did not really pay much attention 2 him...not sure if this really pissed him off....that was just for a day and i felt bad for everything and walked to him and tried talking and guess what?? he walks off saying he is very busy and has lotsa things to do..since then he has been avoiding meeting me anywhere on the floor..well..now how do i get back at this guy...and save my self -respect and show him that i equally dont care....lord!
2006-10-30 03:39:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that you should get flowers sent to your self and delivered to your work place, and then brag about it and make sure that he hears you.
2006-10-30 03:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by dnelly 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Why do you want to get back at him? It doesnt sound to me like he has done anything wrong, you were rude, he didnt want to deal with your mess and found someone else. learn from your mistake and move on he has. And by the way I made a similiar mistake recently and lost my guy because of being to flirtatious when i thought he was just dumping me without saying goodbye and in actuality he had a very good reason for not emailing back so soon. now i have to just move on. but i dont want to hurt him. I never would.
2006-10-30 11:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that , but try your best to stay away from him and if you can't help it because you guys work near by then just don't seem that you're down , make it seem that you as well don't care and that you're happy too..
If he talks to you don't ignore him cause you need to show you're the bigger person in this mess, but the answer that you will give him should be straight to the point and then just walk way..
Best of luck to you !!!
2006-10-30 11:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by ELEN G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you, 12?
You don't need to get back at him.
Why not just let him be? Ignore it and move on? He's not worth a second look.
"now how do I get back at his guy...and save my self-respect and show him that I equally don't care...lord!"
Obviously you do care.
Obviously you want him to pay.
My advice? Grow from this experience and learn that office relationships seldom work out.
2006-10-30 11:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i have the same thing going on now with a co-worker, i told him that i like him and even told him if he would like to catch a movie and he agree and cancel later. i was hurt but i play it cool that was months ago and still today, i have feeling for him but i play it cool, when he sees me he say hi and i say hi back and walk away. when i walk away from him, that it when he comes around where i work at and barder me with stupid question like he doesn't the answers but i just answer his question about work and get back to work. i also say hello to him when i see him.
he flirted with me last week and i thought oh my god it means he like me and them i call him he didn't answer or back so i feel like a fool, but i decided to act cool like i did before and just do what i am at work for.
i think u should say hi with a smile and walk away and if he want to chat a little talk to him and if u don't have time let him know u don't have time to chat in nice way. play it cool, stay away a little he might come around.
2006-10-30 11:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, grow up.
You NEVER date someone you work with. It's always a disaster.
Second of all, you do not get revenge on someone you work with. You are supposed to be a team working to help the company acieve it's goals, not running a soap opera.
2006-10-30 11:44:37 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn from this mistake.
Ignore him.
Why would you want to lower yourself to his level and try to get back at him?
You are stronger than that.
Ignoring him and going on with your life and work is the best thing you can do.
Remember to smile often!
2006-10-30 11:45:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay attention and act like he doesn't exist. Don't run when you see him, talk to everyone else but him in the room, never address him in no sorta way. Make sure that he never comes up in conversation.
2006-10-30 11:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ignore the cold shoulder and be friendly. Getting "even" only makes you on the same level as him.
2006-10-30 11:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By not caring. If you do anything ( like asking for ideas on here ) it just shows you are bothered by it. Ignore him, it may even get his attention.
2006-10-30 11:44:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If like him try to talk to him,
but don't look desperate and don't beg!
If he's still acting stupid then just forget about
him cuz he's most likely waist of time!
2006-10-30 11:48:29 · answer #11 · answered by Ant Giron 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋