Okay, I have a little problem. I am so sick of loving my ex, and everytime I try to walk away something about him just keeps pullin me back.Now I hear he is "talkin" to this chick i know. I have alot of better guys wantin to hook up with me, and I really like two of them, but I LOVE my ex. It's not only about love, sex is also keepin me single. I already messed up and had sex with him (alot) and I dont wanna have sex with other people so I stay single so I wont cheat. He is my weakness and if I am to stay faithful I gotta stay away from HIM! and his guy I am kinda "Talkin" to asked me a couple of times if I think I would be faithful and I said yea but I am not too sure if that is true. All of my best memories are with my ex (and so are my worst) I wanna stop bein stupid and move on but I cant. I keep thinkin about what we had and how much fun it is with him. But he don't give a damn about me because if he did he wouldn't do the things he do. So how can I let go if I still want him!
2006-10-30 04:16:10 · 10 answers · asked by :Dazed and Confused: 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That ain't a lil problem....and you like gettin used it seems. Might as well move somewhere else, or avoid him at all costs. That is a choice YOU have to make. It's either you can let him use you, and not complain about it cause well...you're enjoying yourself aren't you? You can always have a polygamous relationship...because honestly the fact that his dick is in some other girl, and then decides to stick it in you isn't a wonderful thought...not to mention the aids....the nasty things he may do...every time you do it..you've just let HER stuff get in you.....they say saliva n stays in the mouth for 3 days from people who french kiss...could work the same for your man (specially if he doesn't wash himself.). I dont know a lot of people get caught up in their lovesickness because of that bond....the only way to get rid of an addiction is to take it out of the picture altogether...
THink of him as a cigarette.....you love to smoke it (don't offer details PLEASE!), and it makes you feel free..but it's slowly but surely killing you....so you need to find a patch (someone else) or just rehab (finding a HOBBY...) or just get rid of it altogether.
THe only person who can end it is YOU..you have to really WANT to end it...regardless of the pain....no pain no gain as they say....so it's either you indulge in your drama, or get away and find a better haven for your happiness...and deter from the stereotype of a drama queen.
2006-10-30 04:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE? What control it has over us and our lives!
Don't allow it to become so obsessive that everything you do and say is centered around someone Else's life. What about yours? Apparently he's not thinking about it so you need to! Don't consider his feelings consider yours, and make yourself happy somehow without him. And although you still want him and will be no doubt thinking about him remember that he is your X and probably will hold that title forever. Your a smart girl and you said it yourself he must not give a dam about you if he's doing things that are going to hurt you. My belief that has always made it easier for me is: "there's always one better then the last"
Be patient, be strong....
2006-10-30 04:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by MedicineWoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been through the same scenario...........my best and worst memories are with my ex............but as soon as he moved on i realized something..............don't jump into a relationship right away but go ahead and keep talking to these guys and while your at it slowly work your way out of you ex's life so that way it doesn't hurt so bad..............then when you feel your completely ready to date somebody else then go for it..........but if you feel that you still love him give yourself time away from him to really decide that
2006-10-30 04:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by mommabree04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all people who likes to do chores is a lil loopy! Me and my bf consistently get lazy and dont choose to cook dinner or sparkling! have been occurring week 4 of no longer doing laundry! he's frequently the 1st to furnish in and initiate the cleansing, then i'm getting stimulated and help him! yet a week later, the vicious cycle starts off over!!! lol!
2016-12-08 23:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best cure for a broke heart is to find a new love...
2006-10-30 04:19:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie i wish someone felt that way about me but you would probably really love me cause i am always the decent one that gets screwed over
2006-10-30 04:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OFF THE CROSS AND GIVE SOMEONE ELSE THE WOOD. MOVE ON AND GET A DECENT GUT.
2006-10-30 04:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by BAG LADY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take his calls. Ignore his emails. He is not good for you!
2006-10-30 04:18:43 · answer #8 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is get another tell him and together you will overcome this.
2006-10-30 04:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by Kenneth P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it to him babe
2006-10-30 04:19:56 · answer #10 · answered by Blackdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋