Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost three week and we are having problems already.He's the jelouse type of guy and i don't like that i been telling him that there's nothing to worry about because i love him and i will never cheat on him but i still think he doesn't belive me even though he says that he trusts me. I realy like him a whole bunch but i just feel bad that i'm trying to fix this things out and he wont wanna talk about it and keeps ignoring me. I been calling him and sending him txts but he wont answer my calls or messages. I don't wanna say this but if he doesn't change i think i'm gonna break up with him but @ the same time i don't wanna do it 'cause i love him....what should i do?
2006-10-30 05:01:02 · 9 answers · asked by ***i <3 Mi BABi*** ^:J&K:^ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not going to tell you what to do, but here's my take on it...
A jealous guy is not a bad guy, unless he's overzealous about it. It shows that he cares in a Tarzan kinda way. But, it sounds like he is insecure with himself and may have been badly hurt previously. If he doesn't want to talk, it may be that he is uncomfortable with expressing his feelings. That is too bad, because without good communication, you're riding on a sinking ship. All you can do is express how you feel, tell him you need him to be able to talk to you, and see what happens. You may have to spell it out for him!!! Contrary to all blatant hints to your situation, ALL guys at some time or another are simply neanderthals when it comes to "reading the obvious". Sounds like he is young and hasn't figured out the finer points of communicating with his partner. If he truly KNOWS what you are seeking from him and he works on it, then good for the both of you. If he doesn't, then you need to decide how long you want to pursue him. Sometimes people don't know what they are missing until it's gone. Sounds cliche but true. I'm guessing that you're young also and have plenty of time to find Mr. Right, otherwise you wouldn't be asking. Good luck.
2006-10-30 05:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good relationship can only be built on trust, he may just be really busy and unable to talk, the woman I love is very busy and our schedules are always getting between us, if you want to make it work than work for it, but only if you are sure it is what will make you happy.
wit luv, Nik
2006-10-30 05:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by nik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to make him listen to you if he love you then he will respect how you feel if he don't then leave him alone you could probably do better. girl all men are like that so insecure over whats there's and do not wanna imagine it being bothered if you love him understand where he coming from and try to work it out.
2006-10-30 05:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by Mz.Tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you bear this kind of guy? the jealous type is always the type to avoid. you wouldn't have a life if you go without with him. it seems also that he is more selfish than he appears. talk to him, confront him about these issues, and see if he is willing to change. otherwise, dump him.
2006-10-30 05:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by CreativeGEEK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to advise person like you. It seems you wanted to get out of that relationship but you still holding on.....Its only you who could decide what you wanted to do.
2006-10-30 05:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know the answer to that question.
2006-10-30 05:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by PrInCeSs P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's already broken up with you!
2006-10-30 05:03:22 · answer #7 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he aint the right one for you
2006-10-30 05:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by Jonesha W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do i know
2006-10-30 05:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by SKINNY BONES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋