My bf and i have a tirbulent relationship sometimes breaking up three times in one week over piety arguments over anything.This has been going on for a year the getting back together and breaking up all the time. Jealousy attacks on both sides and bad argument where things get thrown.We are both in college which does not help.We are both polar opposites me the good girl, with good grades who is shy, but likes to let loose sometimes when with friends. Him the bad boy who is smart but cuts class and passes by skin of his teeth is very outgoing and thinks he nows everything!We are both stubborn and he likes to mess with me to get me mad and both of us has a temper.
2006-10-30 04:54:16 · 7 answers · asked by Tiffancy L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At end of the day we end up together in bed having makeup sex but i am kind of getting tiered of this is this normal?
2006-10-30 04:55:13 · update #1
I do love him but he drives me insane!
2006-10-30 05:00:41 · update #2
It's just plain stupid. Break up with him and pretend to be a grown up for once.
2006-10-30 04:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay i can definitely relate my b/f and i have been together 3 years and the first two years were like that.. we would kill each other i mean we would literally say things to cut deep... and i was getting so tired of it... i mean we would break up every other day to the point were may friends were sick and tired of hearing about our screwed up relationship... and it was over stupid things... well anyways i talked to a friend of mine and she was in the same type of relationship and she told me the same advice I'm going to give you now... The first 2 years are the hardest because it's two personalities crashing into 1 and either you take a poop or get off the pot... if you love him and want to be with him then work it out suck it up and show him... guys learn from example.. trust me... ever since i started sucking it up and only arguing over what important we've both been very happy.. the respect issue gone gone uphill too...
2006-10-30 13:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by candylbsb45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that is far too much drama to have in your life, and it certainly sounds like your relationship has progressed past the point of being health EVER AGAIN. Yes it's true that opposites attract, but you have to be on the same wave-length sometimes! I would say you two need to break it off permanently.
2006-10-30 12:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by daisyprincess78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an unhealthy relationship for more than one reason. If you both love each other and want to continue the relationship, the I would suggest going to see a counselor...if neither of you wants to deal with the hassle, then it is better to break it off completely and for good. Good luck!!
2006-10-30 13:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by VAWeddingSpecialist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody needs that much drama in their life. life is wayy too short to live unhappy like this. get out while you can and find someone that makes you happy ALL the time!
2006-10-30 13:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd be getting tired of the crap too. as hard as it seems, try to talk to him about it, and let him know that the next time you 2 break up, it is for good. then stick to it.
2006-10-30 12:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some folks thrive on drama..go figure.....
2006-10-30 13:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋