one of them is a great father provider etc. and the other makes me feel like a woman loves me passionatly and the sex is amazing. I have two children to consider and one on the way do I pick up and leave the one who is a great father and provider for the one who is amazing in other ways?
2006-10-30 05:03:45 · 13 answers · asked by momof2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It takes year to REALLY know someone.
The other man is only showing you the side of him that he uses to attract women.
I assume you know and love the "great father".
As for the othe man I think you are "loving the chase", but you really don't know him yet.
When you are able to go to the bathroom with the man in the same room you really know each other (I KNOW THIS IMAGE KILLS THE IDEA OF ROMANCE).
So you are asking if you should toss away a man you know and love for someone that you really don't know yet. It a gamble, the other man could be a better OR a big loser when the passion dies.
Marriage takes work and a good marriage take more work and a happy marriage takes a lot of work. If you don't put the work in you will not find it with any man (great father or the other man).
THINK ABOUT:
Do you really think your two children will ever accept this other man?
Does the pleasure you're getting balance out the pain you will cause? (to your husband, children and to yourself)
2006-10-30 06:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well it's too late not to be selfish.
And dear, Love is a sacred blessing of the heart.
It has nothing to do with being turned out like some cheating floozie.
What you are feeling is lust and desire.
You obviously don't even love your man because your dreaming of someone elses kock right now.
Either shut up and never do it again, or follow your coochie...oops I mean heart and go with the guy that fukks you silly...you deserve each other.
2006-10-30 05:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll try to make this as gentle as possible.
You shallow, conniving, little . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Presumably you are pregnant by your husband not the cuckold.
You are a liar and cheat. You are willing to let the guy who married you and supports you languish at work while you go get your rocks off because it makes you feel good?
This format does not allow the the words of contempt which you deserve for dumping on a guy who has done right by you and your children while you cheat on him.
2006-10-30 05:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love with both of them and are committed to one of them with kids, living together, etc., then the answer is simple. Pick the guy you have kids with. You are having fantasies about someone else. So what. You're human. It will pass in time. Don't make the huge mistake of leaving this guy for someone who seems exciting to you right now.
2006-10-30 05:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i guess your marriage vows dont really mean that much to you, for you to be sleeping with another man, and pregnant with WHO'S baby? or do you know?? That's the most disgusting thing I've ever heard, I'd expect that from a man, but not a woman. Get your priorities straight!!!!
2006-10-30 05:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by darlene_tassone1971 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whoa there, honey!!! First, who is the father to your children - second, are you married to either one?
I would say - let them both go until you have your life sorted out .
2006-10-30 05:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by wild_orchid_tx36 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all which of them are you in love with you didnt said
the first one you only said he is a good provider and thats really good for your kids but the second one it seem more lust than love so i think you should really explore your feeling so you dont make the wrong choice and i think you should take in consideration your 3 children your feelings and then take the decision that you think its better for you my best wishes and the best of luck
2006-10-30 05:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by user 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES I CAN HEAR YOU BUT i MUST SAY YOU ARE JUST GONNA GET HURT IN THE LONG RUN...WHY NOT GET A DIVORCE DEAR YOU CANNOT HAVE YOUR CAKE AND EAT IT TO...MAYBE IF YOU ANDYOUR HUSBAND WOULD TAKE SOME TIME FOR EACH OTHER JUST MAYBE YOU WOULD NOT BE LOOKING FOR LOVE SOME WHERE ELSE...THINGS JUST DO NOT WORK OUT WHEN THEIR IS MORE THAN 1 MAN
2006-10-30 07:02:46 · answer #8 · answered by blugenie12005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being incredibly selfish and rude by being with two men. You are not doing either of them a favor by choosing one.
2006-10-30 05:36:30 · answer #9 · answered by Chicken Jones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to listen to your heart. i made the wrong mistake by going with the good father. sure he was a good father and gave the kids anything they wanted. but what about you, you have needs too. you need that male to make you feel good about yourself. you will be happy in the end.
2006-10-30 05:13:19 · answer #10 · answered by twisted 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋