girls I need your help? your opinion is greatly valued 10 points to best answer?

Question

this girl means the world to me she lives in another state and I havent seen her in 5 years but she means the world to me and I love her so much and when I talk to her I feel like apart of me comes to life. Every time I hear Far Away by Nickelback I start crying cause it describes how are relationship has been . I have no idea how she feels about me and She is coming up for the holidays so should I tell her then I am so confused. Girls would you think its weird if someone you havent seen in 5 years told you how much they love you and everyday with out you is torture and you love them so much. Be honest I would rather you be honest then tell me what you think I want to hear. Thank you

I am 15 years old

Answer 1

I would say, spend some time with her. Just pal around and see how things work. If you are still feeling so comfortable with her then I would give her signs or give her strong hints that you really do like/love her. Girls like to hear how guys think.

Answer 2

Sweetie, you are so young. If she is the same age you might freak her out if you tell her this. But you can tell her that she means alot to you and you wish you lived in the same state so you can date -- who knows, maybe you can have a long distance relationship, or go to the same college. Otherwise you need to live your life the best you can while staying friends with this girl. I know how much this hurts but to quote a song from before your time, "hold on loosely but don't let go." If you do get together when you are a few years older think how much better it will be because the two of you have already been friends. Good luck.

Answer 3

Yeah, if someone told me that, I would be more than a little freaked out PARTICULARLY because you're only 15. I'm 20, and I remember what it was like to be 15 and all that jazz. Yes, what you feel is valid and real, BUT you've also not seen everything there is to see in life. Honestly I really foresee this ending in a restraining order. If you really feel like you love this girl, I would tell her that you think you have a crush on her - since you haven't seen her in 5 years, I would wager that you don't -really- know what she's like anymore, and that some of the love you feel isn't for her, it's for your idea of her. So take it easy, take it slow.

Answer 4

If I was not involved with anyone, and I was speaking to you on a regular basis, obviously there is a relationship of some kind, whether it be friendship or more. I say go for it, if she feels the same, this could be the greatest gift she could receive. Always be honest with your feelings, something great could possibly come from this. If not, you still have her in your life as a friend. Don't ever be afraid to show your emotions, woman love it, because not many men can. I hope something wonderful becomes of this.

Answer 5

I think you have fantasized a relationship with this person. It's easy to do when you don't have reality in your face every day. How can she mean the world to you when you haven't seen her since you were 10 years old? If she is coming for the holidays, just be cool and see how things are. Don't come on like a lunatic, professing undying love when you don't even know what she feels. Examine your feelings analytically and see why you feel such passion for what is really a stranger.

Answer 6

first of all love has no age restrictions, next since you havent seen her in five years your probably shouldnt come off too strong because seeing someone is a big part of a relationship and no matter how much you write or talk on the phone so she may not feel the exact same way about you or may also be unsure, you dont want to scare her off. Just let her know that you care alot about her and you realy miss her and want to try something more than friends. take it slow

Answer 7

Sweetie you are very young. But I know how it feels to love someone at that age. I say tell her how you feel. Just remember though sweetie that she lives very far and it might not work out. But in any case friendship and in a relationship you should always be honest the truth will set you free. She might feel the same way about you. So take a chance and go for it. Good luck sweetie !!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

I think that you should tell her and that she might feel the same way. This whole time she might have been hoping that you would say something. I would wait untill she come to town and you can spend some alone time with her and see if you feel like she is interested in you. After not seeing her for so long, when she comes you might even find that your feelings have changed. I think when you see her you'll know what to do. Good luck!!!

Answer 9

you're 15? wow, you talk pretty mature for a 15 year old guy. She's obviously coming out for a reason, to see you... isn't that a tell tale sign? If she didn't feel anything for you, she'd never be heading out your way. I dont know if you want to freak her out with your confession of undying love, maybe bring it in to the relationship slowly. I think personally, i would be a little freaked out if someone confessed that kind of thing to me, espcially without human intervention in 5 years. To be honest, you'd have alot to lose if you blurt out something like that, especially if you "love" her that much. SLOW AND EASY... buy her something nice for xmas and just let it go day by day .. you'll get signs and signals from her.. and then you'll know whether to make an @$$ out of yourself. lol.. good luck bubba!!

Answer 10

The truth is there is no wrong way to tell someone how much you love them. If that is how you are feeling about her then don't hold back. You have to put yourself out there sometimes and when she comes to visit during the holidays, be real with her. You never know...She might be feeling the exact same way as you. Follow your heart. That is the best way to go.