Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

Your friend is in a relationship. It ends, she commits suicide because of that, leaving beautiful children behind...who do you blame? Other's are blaming the guy. I think most of that is out of anger. I think that the guy was an *** but the ultimate decision to take her life was her's and her's alone...I can see being upset with him, if he hadn't of done _____ (fill in the blank), then she'd still be alive. He's the reason she felt so much pain she felt as though she couldn't continue on with life. Even though, we're all upset, I don't think rushing to kill the guy she committed suicide over is the answer. What do you think? I don't really feel anyone's to blame. It's a tragic situation that everyone is going to have to just get over. The ones that are really going to suffer are the children.

2006-10-30 05:43:21 · 34 answers · asked by Ms. Meli 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have custody of her and I have her ss card, but he knows the #. Can he go behind my back and take credit for her?

2006-10-30 05:42:53 · 12 answers · asked by izy966 2 in Family

What was the outcome & Do you regret it?

2006-10-30 05:42:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my MIL feels as if she does't have control then everything is just wrong she has always tried to control everything me and my hubby do with or kids my prob is my daughter had a b-day months ago and my MIL acted as if it never happened (daughter is from a previous relationship) and now my MIL wants my middle child come spend the weekend with her i told her no way because the she has treated my oldest her response is it is all my head i am crazy and my hubby needs to take of it or she will my question is has anyone gone through? this i also found out my MIL doesn't like me for what ever reason i always thought we got along even though she put me down every chance had i had a miscarriage a year ago and she was glad i almost bled to death but she was glad that just makes no sence to me most people would be upset about it she just don't care that she lost a grandchild and we lost our baby this bothers me so much everyone says don't worry about it can anybody give me advise please help

2006-10-30 05:42:13 · 7 answers · asked by daysfan207 3 in Family

hah thats a problem

2006-10-30 05:42:05 · 4 answers · asked by fan#1 2 in Friends

2006-10-30 05:41:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-30 05:41:12 · 13 answers · asked by anklebiter 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 05:40:15 · 24 answers · asked by gnuhbaby54 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has two little boys 4 and 9 that I want to involve in giving him a gift. Going to dinner for sure but I want to also do something special.

2006-10-30 05:40:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm seeing this amazing girl who I have been with for over 6 months. We go to college together and she graduates in May, I still have another year after that and then 4 more years of medical school. She lives 500 miles away from me during the summer.

I really love this girl and I can't find a reason to just end it with her except that my grades have been going downhill since I met her and I logically don't see the relationship working after she graduates even though every fiber of my heart wants it to work; it is impractical.

I am very logical-minded and she is the opposite (a flowery arts major). I don't want to crush her but I feel like I should just end it now rather than later so that we can both stop pretending like it will work out down the road when we both know it won't.

Also, we have put this conversation aside many times because I believe subconsciously we both know it is going to have to end even though neither of us want it to.

What should I do, end it? Why?

2006-10-30 05:39:56 · 6 answers · asked by doug h 1 in Singles & Dating

she sits next to the guy instead of sitting next to passenger side door. if there is a bench style seat in the truck she would be sitting in the middle of the seat instead of sitting on the right side of it.

2006-10-30 05:39:30 · 14 answers · asked by gerald16 1 in Singles & Dating

About a year ago my last boyfriend beat me pretty bad. I loved him so much. I don't remember much about it. I caught him cheating, I slapped her he beat the sh/it out of me. I still have a knarled hand from where he broke it and a scar on my skull where he bashed it against the house. Of course, I left him, but I'm still having trouble with intimancy. Like I said, it's been a year. Still I can't stand to be touched, even a brush turns my stomach, and I can't have sex. I've always loved sex until now. On the one hand I'm very horney, but when my new flame tries to get close physically, I freak out. What is wrong with me? How long will this last, and when will I be able to stand being touched again?

2006-10-30 05:38:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

no bad thinking, think what can they do.

2006-10-30 05:37:55 · 11 answers · asked by Ryan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you think you can help a girl out?I need to know what you think the most romantic thing a girl could do for a guy.Thanks!

2006-10-30 05:37:11 · 14 answers · asked by Pardon Moi? 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend broke up with me on a Saturday, and he started crank calling me the same week on Wednesday. He would crank call me every other day, and there were days when he would go on crank calling every day, one of the days that he crank called he was making this very weird voice tone, I guess so I couldn't recognize his voice, and he started telling me with that weird voice tone that he loved me and that he wanted me back, and that he was hurting, but he didn't tell me that it was him, he just kept it with the weird voice, so then after going to the verizon place to scan the private caller I found out 4 sure that it was my x. So I called him and confronted him, and told him to feell free to talk to me, not to stay quiet, and that I still talked to my X's like friends, that I wasn't some one who hold grudges, and I also told him that I was over the break up, then he denied saying he didn't crank call in an angry way, after that he hasn't carnk called or called, wht do u think?

2006-10-30 05:36:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just started going back out with my ex boyfriend, we have only broken up once and dated for 2 months. I don't know what is going on between us, and I don't know where to start. He hangs out with this girl named catie, I don't trust her near him, and I don't trust when he has drugs in his system and he's near her. She sleeps over at his house once in a while, and my friend who is pregnant tells me that mothing ever happens even though catie tries, Mike says no. He recently went to a party that she held, and he slept over there. I haven't talked to my pregnant friend, so I don't know what is going on! Please tell me what you would do in a situation like this and what you think is going on. Thank you. Blessed Be, Becky

2006-10-30 05:36:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

either I can take her out for a night of fun and sex, or she will not give him any of my messages any longer!

Any ideas?

2006-10-30 05:35:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im a single mother of five kids on a based income of $800.a mo.
We need a home fast!

2006-10-30 05:34:51 · 14 answers · asked by jamie n 1 in Family

this past saturday was my birthday. I told my boyfriend not to worry about getting me a gift because he's been laid off from work, but instead that we should just go do something fun.
Saturday I had to work some OT and afterwards i went to his place, he didnt tell me that he was planning on taking me out to dinner so i ate before i went and accidentally spoiled that. We were going to go to a haunted house with 2 friends but they showed very late and we ended up just watching movies. I was dissappointed with the day.
That sunday, he said he would make it up to me. We ended up going to do an errand he needed to do and then one that i needed to do. When it came time to eat he said he didnt want to go out because he wanted to save money and we went to my place and watched more movies.

i was curious as to how he would have taken me out sat but not sun.

Am I being selfish to feel like he didn't do anything for my birthday?
Should I say something to him?

2006-10-30 05:33:59 · 15 answers · asked by attila 6 in Singles & Dating

A guy I've been kind of seeing for about 3 months (we've known each other for a few years and had always had feelings for each other and recently got back in touch, we live quite far apart so have got together 3 times and spend the w/e together, text lots every day and spek on the phone) called me on friday night, drunk, and said he didn't want anything serious, I was quite upset then at 9am the next morning called me and said he didn't mean any of that and nothing has changed in his feelings towards me, then called again that evening to say the same thing. I think he really likes me but we haven't really confessed any feelings to each other yet, I am scared to incase he isn't as into me as I am to him., I think I'm falling in love. Why do you thin he behaved like he did, was he trying to find out how I felt and test me?

2006-10-30 05:33:46 · 47 answers · asked by Soso 1 in Singles & Dating

Her hubby hates me because of a misunderstanding which he refuses to let die. My husband has let it die. Me and her communicate secretly and I have been with her thru all of this but now I don't want to cuz her trouble with him. He is very moody and anything sets him off. I even got her a Baby Blanket and she lied to him about who it came from..We are the best of friends and I hate not being there for her.

2006-10-30 05:32:59 · 9 answers · asked by curious_59 3 in Friends

I am trying to understand people that have not interest in sex...are you like that? why? does nothing turn you on? how could that be?

2006-10-30 05:32:18 · 9 answers · asked by Orange Cloud 2 in Singles & Dating

following the question i asked previously. now that im alone. im looking for a date? any advice ..i need an honest loving man. any idea of any internetinterracial free dating sites in uk.coz i want that to be my first stop whilst i pick myself up from a broken heart

2006-10-30 05:31:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-30 05:31:14 · 11 answers · asked by SmB/CBolling 2 in Singles & Dating

My partner is a coke addict, some days he's honest about it, some days he denies anything is wrong with him. This weekend was a nightmare! When do you say enough is enough on a 4yr relationship?!

2006-10-30 05:31:13 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How long have you been together, and what do you do (besides sex) to keep the spark alive. It seems like we change hobbies with the season. Darts for a while, pool for a while, farmers market for a while, restaurants for a while. watching football, trivia, crosswords, whatever. It always changes. Do you ever get stuck in a rut where nothing changes?

2006-10-30 05:30:59 · 29 answers · asked by chefgrille 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you say this is a nice ring? and would you like it if a guy had bought you it as a surprise?

http://www.ernestjones.co.uk/webstore/detail/R/4205146/N/0/?Ntt=4205146&Ntk=PRIMARY

2006-10-30 05:30:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

hehe, one's next to me....

2006-10-30 05:30:38 · 2 answers · asked by SmB/CBolling 2 in Singles & Dating

Ho do you leave a situation you really don't want to be in.The guy that I'm with he's the type when he's nice he's really nice and when he's mad he's really an azzzzzz!He can say whatever he wants but you can't say nothing.I have a ten yr old and don't want her in the middle of my shi@.My friend said to leave when he's not here,but I think that would make matters worse.He knows I want to leave I have told him and he just looks at me with this look on his face that's unpredictable.I have a truck but they stole it 2 weeks after I relocated here.But it's in the shop now and it should be ready by next Tuesday.Should I tell him I'm leaving or just do it when he leaves to go to work?I really need help on this.

2006-10-30 05:30:16 · 30 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Marriage & Divorce

why thte hell would he do that when he's begging me to get back with him??

2006-10-30 05:30:02 · 8 answers · asked by gnuhbaby54 1 in Singles & Dating