Her hubby hates me because of a misunderstanding which he refuses to let die. My husband has let it die. Me and her communicate secretly and I have been with her thru all of this but now I don't want to cuz her trouble with him. He is very moody and anything sets him off. I even got her a Baby Blanket and she lied to him about who it came from..We are the best of friends and I hate not being there for her.
2006-10-30 05:32:59 · 9 answers · asked by curious_59 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i would go anyway and not give two sh*ts what he thinks. if she is your best friend you should go anyway. and he needs to stop being a big baby about it. get over it. she shouldn't have lied about the baby blanket. she should stand up to him and tell him that she is a big girl and can pick her own friends. she doesn't pick his friends does she? didn't think so. she should tell him to back off. she's the one having the baby and wants you to be there.
2006-10-30 05:39:47 · answer #1 · answered by *~*Ash*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women who recently give birth are overwhelmed by the experience and the large number of visitors who come to the hospital. I would suggest stopping in really quick to bring some flowers and a card or gift and leave immediately. Don't stay any longer than 10 minutes. Then, you can see her again about a month or two later. This will be a very emotional and very PRIVATE time for her and her husband. I suggest that you don't bother her.
2006-10-30 05:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by Butterfly Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough. Stay away. This isn't HER baby, it's THEIR baby, and you have nothing to do with it. She needs her husband every minute of the day right now - and for a long time to come, with a howling brat stinking up the place - and you don't come into it.
2006-10-30 05:36:45 · answer #3 · answered by CAROL DOMINO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its one of the most special days of her life and if she wants you there, great. Phone her up and tell her you'd love to be there but that as he doesnt like you, you dont want to ruin the day. Its her desision and whatever the answer youre just going to have to live with it. But if you cant be there for the birth you definatly have to visit soon after. Your friend wont want you to not see her just because of this stupid arguement.
2006-10-30 05:40:46 · answer #4 · answered by Elle :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants you there, be there. You're her best friend and she counts on you. If she feels that your presence will make the task easier, you have as much rights as her husband. Good luck gurl, the world needs more friends like you.
2006-10-30 05:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should still go cuz it will mean a lot to your friend to have you there who cares what her husband thinks its the fact that your there to support your friend.
2006-10-30 06:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by SexyAmby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okkkk.. if shes married. she should listen to wat her husband says.. like they should make decisions together. becuz if there is a misunderstanding that'll ruin they're relationship.. butt i admit that kinda sux how he duznt let u visit ur frienddd. or talkk or be closee. if ur friend was true to you. it wouldnt matter to her wat her husband thinks about u... and if they dont care about u.. dont care about themm... in order to be respected u mustttt respect urselfff
2006-10-30 05:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by hi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what you have to do i m sure he will not mind you helping his wife.
2006-10-30 05:36:34 · answer #8 · answered by godknows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away this is their private moment .
let them have privacy,
2006-10-30 05:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by daisymayNY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋