Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

i am so skinny but i have a crush in a fat girl. can that happen foe me to go out with her

2006-10-30 06:23:21 · 24 answers · asked by SKINNY BONES 3 in Singles & Dating

Before our marriage my wife was showing some signs of depression but nothing that was out of control. The day after we came home from our honeymoon she has becomes worse by the day. She has said numerous times that she is going to kill herself and her kids. I was abler to get her to the doctor but she refuses to go back because she wants to save her time-off for the end of the year. She was prescribed an anti depressant but after taking it for a month she decided to stop cold turkey. She tells me everyday that I don’t care and is always pushing me away and contradicting herself with everything she says. On top of everything my kids have got stuck in the middle and now my daughter cries and does not want to go with me when I pick her up. It was getting so bad that I decided to keep my kids away from it this past weekend, but of course that made things worse. She refuses to tell anyone about her depression and puts everything on me. I have no idea what to do , I cannot handle it anymore

2006-10-30 06:23:14 · 9 answers · asked by Chris H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'd like a girlfriend, but it it really true that if you stop looking, they will come or is that false? It'd be nice to have a girlfriend to share things with, to compliment each other, etc. Sometimes it sucks being single, sometimes it doesn't and sometimes it sucks just hooking up, cause it gets nowhere....any advice on what to do? Should I be worrying about this and just live my life day by day? I just hate going everywhere, whether it be bars, parties, the mall, anywhere where people exist and seeing couples holding hands, holding each other, uuuggggh its annoying but im envious....its just been too long since I've had a real gf ( 2 years). I just want something more than a hook up.....should i be worrying, thats the question....

2006-10-30 06:21:18 · 29 answers · asked by chrisj7682 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 06:21:06 · 18 answers · asked by love 1 in Weddings

2006-10-30 06:20:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am seeing this girl, we have a VERY special connection (we both feel it) She is also dating this other guy that she meet before me, that she really doesn't like too much. But, they were dating first. I told her at dinner the other night how much I cared for her and my feelings towards her (very hard for me to do, to put myself out there like that). Well she said she feels the same, but she needs some time to figure things out, because she already is dating this guy. But she still wants to see me while she figures it out. Should I see her again soon ? Should I giver her flowers or a poem ? Should I try to win her over ? ..... Or, should I play it cool ? and let her contact me (not what I want, because I am nervous and waiting is making me crazy...haha) ?

2006-10-30 06:20:10 · 18 answers · asked by Richard J 2 in Singles & Dating

I think I must be going through exactly what most 18 year old guys go through.......I will be turning 38 in 4 days! And all I can think about is (I am sure you can figure that out) Anyways, It is making me crazy..........I have also been married 15 years.....I have asked tried to talk to my husband about this as it is (or should be) a very exciting phase in our marriage. He does not seem to understand or care about exploring any of this with me. I have been having strange ideas I will admit but it would still be fun to be able to talk to him about them? Have any of you been there and how did your spouse react?

2006-10-30 06:20:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 06:19:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you did why did you do it. I am just curious was it bc they were not there for you? i mean what made you take that leap.
this is a honest question i just want to know why some cheat. that is all

2006-10-30 06:19:49 · 11 answers · asked by knowssignlanguage 6 in Marriage & Divorce

ive meet this woman, hmmmmm shes wonderful inside and out we met for the first time,2nd meeting , i was invited to her place and 3rd meeting we went out on a date... we both want this to go slow... seems as if im going to fast... we have hugged and a few soft kisses were exchanged,, im crazy bout her and its hard to hold back my feelings.. so if i sent flowers to her would this be pushing or rushing things, come on ladies help me here..i dont want to blow this.. and if so whats type of flowers would be your choice keep in mind slowwwwwwww... i thought about 11 yellow roses and one red one right in the middle...thanks for your help

2006-10-30 06:19:11 · 13 answers · asked by boots 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a very good mind when it comes to sex. like my friends will call me up and ask me to help them. like role playing. i just want to knoe if it is a bad thing to have that kind of mind.

2006-10-30 06:18:19 · 12 answers · asked by hazeleeyes 1 in Singles & Dating

Were can i find a girl? In whom i can see my happiness!

2006-10-30 06:17:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and stays depressed. I want to help her but she just keeps pushing me away saying i think im better than her because i attend a university and i dont have kids but im not that type of person. how can i help her better herself. because shes on the verge of emotional breakdown

2006-10-30 06:17:26 · 8 answers · asked by Luckycharm 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If a guy is well in doubt but, has very little self esteem. How can I make him feel that he is good in bed and make it understandable on how much I want him?

2006-10-30 06:17:08 · 15 answers · asked by kitty kitty 3 in Singles & Dating

If you only see your boyfriend on the weekends because of distance, don't you think it should be obligatory that you get it at the minimum of 5 times?! You have to make up for lost time during the week don't ya?! And why the hell do I have to beg for a*nal?!
I am completley and utterly SE*X STARVED here!!!!

2006-10-30 06:16:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I never talked to my dad before, not until 2 days before my 16th birthday. He decided to call me. It was cool and all. Buttt. like. I don't know if I want him in my life. I don't know what to do. I found out I have a brother and another sister by him. Which totally sucks because all these years I thought I was the only child. So what should I do? Let him in my life, or push him away? I'm truely confused.

I've called him many times before this, he's always hung up on me, once I said who i was.

I know it's not my brother or sister's fault.

They're wayyy younger than me.

but I really think that I don't want to meet him in person. [face to face] I am not ready for that. I'm much older now, and I know he must of done this to me because of some logical reason. Personally, I don't care much to know him. He's miss half of the most important things in my life. He hasn't been there for me for any birthdays, no holidays, nothing. He was totally clueless. I just want to know why.

2006-10-30 06:16:26 · 17 answers · asked by [.MamaBugg.] 4 in Family

2006-10-30 06:16:04 · 10 answers · asked by ecam0709 1 in Singles & Dating

i left my husband of 12 yrs, just 9 weeks ago. i met this guy who ask me out and we have started dating frequently. i find that this person is absolutely fabulous and we have alot in common. he likes to watch old movies, and play scrabble, he likes to cook for me and reads books with me (even the bible) hes smart and he respects my intelligence also. hes not competative, although he likes a good debate, he is not a baby about it when he is wrong. the thing that makes me feel apprehensive is that my best friend of 30 years, thinks it is just a rebound relationship and she thinks i should date other men. i dont want to, i really like this guy and have found nothing to indicate there are any risks in dating him. i just wonder what others have experienced in relationships that seemed perfect from the begining, is it possible to fall in love so soon? please be honest with me, i want to move foward in this relationship with my mind at ease.
in peace,
lily

2006-10-30 06:16:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how is to to move for teens?
switch schools;
gotta make new friends;
and leave some of ur friends and family behind?

2006-10-30 06:14:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

last year my aunts visited me. this was the first time i ever met them in my life. my mother showed one of them these pics we took on vacation in jamaica that i'm really embarrassed by. i had my hair cut in a hideous way and the pic is just a bad reminder of that time in my life. having that hair cut was hell for me especially at school. the aunt that saw the pic asked my mother could she have it because i looked so pretty in it. she gave it to her and i was really upset that my aunt brought the pic back with her since i didn't want anyone to c it. my aunt sometimes joke about it and even though i don't go off i 'm really pissed off deep down and i try to tell her but she keeps saying that i look so pretty which is not the point. the other day her and her bf were on the phone joking about the same pic and i never wanted him to see it but she was like but he's ur uncle (their gonna get married) i told her i didn't care i'm mad that she's not repecting my feelings what do u think?

2006-10-30 06:14:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She's 34, has one child, and has been pretty depressed for a couple weeks. We talked Thursday and everything seemed fine, even though we didn't see each other over this weekend because she said she needed to spend time with her son. Usually she calls me after he's in bed, but she didn't call Friday night. Saturday I waited until about 9pm, called and text her wondering if she was alright. She text me back that she was ok. She never called later. Sunday I text her again, asked her to not stop talking to me. Called her at 10pm and she didn't answer. Text her this morning asking if she'd call me when she could, no reply as of yet.

We've been seeing each other for over 3 months, talked to each other every day, and now nothing. I feel like if I call or text her more then I may be annoying. But I also feel like if I don't, then she'll think I don't care. I thought we were in love with each other, but this doesn't bode well and is confusing.

What do you think I should do?

2006-10-30 06:14:10 · 5 answers · asked by Answers4u 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 06:13:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

women- what is the height that u will go to in a guy to marry or date? And why is height an issue with us and prefrance and or weight?

2006-10-30 06:12:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy. He says he likes me. But, he has some feelings for another girl that he works with that won't give him the time of day. But, she likes to give him enough attention or flirtation to make him still want her. Is their anyway of maybe making him realize it and that she is no good? Is their anyway to win him over. We have had sex on several account. I just don't feel like his heart is with me. What should I do?

2006-10-30 06:12:07 · 8 answers · asked by kitty kitty 3 in Singles & Dating

i just went away for a week to my mums mates house and that week was the best week of my life. we didnt need to go out to enjoy ourselfs and i felt closer to this guy and his mum than i do with my own family is this really weird

2006-10-30 06:11:28 · 14 answers · asked by weirdo 2 in Family

THE GUY THAT RAPED ME IN 6TH GRADE (IM IN 9TH) IS IN MY SCHOOL AND IM SCARED AND THE POLICE ALREADY KNOWS ABOUT IT I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT ELSE TO DO.
IM SCARED AND I GET PANIC ATTACKS WHENEVER I SEE HIM.

2006-10-30 06:10:41 · 19 answers · asked by esmie p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been best friend with ths girl ang since kindergarten. We are now 21. We have drifted apart in the past year or so. She is dating a drug dealer who is crazy and robs people for their money. I am planning a baby shower for my other best friend kim. The question is should i invite ang? I don't talk to her anymore but i know she will be offended if i don't. I also don't want her crazy bf threatning our baby shower party or waiting outside my house. Is it better to not invite her and make her really mad or is it worth risking the chance of her bf ruining our baby shower for kim?

2006-10-30 06:10:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

their mum or dad hit them or shout at them for no reason what so ever, get extremely angry like bad bad temper or takes stress out at them for something they havent done. i have noticed its like 'ohhh your mother cant do that' or 'ohhh she's your mother' etc and then when the kids swear and say my mum is a B***c or my dad is a B*****d, then you get these answers too. why? why cant people see what the problem is and help resolve them than say 'that cant bve true' or 'you are lying'. there are mums or dads out there who are like that. why do we have an NSPCC then if it didnt exist?

2006-10-30 06:10:27 · 18 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a circle of friends and I stopped dealing with one of the girls in the circle because she always lies, when she is not you are still questioning if she is telling the truth or not. Lately she has been joining the circle, but I have not been talking to her. Should I just get over it and deal with her knowing that she is whom she is (a lair) or just back out of the circle and loose my other two friends.

2006-10-30 06:10:08 · 7 answers · asked by Lady 2 in Friends

I know I should feel fortunate but there is still the pain of the divorce. What can I do to forget about the past?

2006-10-30 06:09:41 · 11 answers · asked by paco 1 in Marriage & Divorce