their mum or dad hit them or shout at them for no reason what so ever, get extremely angry like bad bad temper or takes stress out at them for something they havent done. i have noticed its like 'ohhh your mother cant do that' or 'ohhh she's your mother' etc and then when the kids swear and say my mum is a B***c or my dad is a B*****d, then you get these answers too. why? why cant people see what the problem is and help resolve them than say 'that cant bve true' or 'you are lying'. there are mums or dads out there who are like that. why do we have an NSPCC then if it didnt exist?
2006-10-30 06:10:27 · 18 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I truly believe you. There are some mothers and fathers out there that should never have been. I know there is help out there. If this is happening to you, you can call social services. They can help, no person should have to live with abuse at any time. I hope you find help.
2006-10-30 06:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by june clever 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well some may not belive them bc every 11-19 year olds say these things about there moms and dads like speacally the younger ones they say mean things about there moms and dads bc they did not get what they wanted or whatever so they say i did not do anything and they hollered at me bluh bluh. Sometimes as adults know kids say these things so when a kid says something like my mom yelled at me for no reason we tend to think they did do something. If you really do think they are abused then you need to have an adult they you can trust and tell them or you call the social services and tell them you think that these kids are being abused. Then the agency will look into it and investigate the parents.
well i hope this answer your question.
2006-10-30 14:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is abuse and that is why NSPCC exists to help abuse victims. Unfortunately, some people exaggerate or make it up for all sorts of reasons. This is not only not right it is also using invaluable resources on a false occurence.
My Brother did it with his school, social services were involved and everything but it was all lies. It is difficult but he few who lie make it so that people doubt others.
2006-10-30 14:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by mjastbury 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think people will usually get involved unless there are physical marks on the body. It's not right, but we are in a day and age where some people are scared to get involved. Don't give up. Keep trying to talk to a trusted adult, maybe in school. Someone will listen. If you positivley can't find anyone. Call children services yourself. They have to follow up on any kind of reported abuse. Good luck. I'll be praying for you.
2006-10-30 14:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Phoebe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, some children do exaggerate. Yes, I know that a lot of children out there are abused but, how can you know that they are the ones? Some may just want attention. I have never answered any of these questions that you are talking about but, I would handle them with care if I did.
2006-10-30 14:14:03 · answer #5 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most questions on here are not a whole story and we cant give specific advise on what to do. All we can do is read the question and answer it to the best of our ability. If you don't like that answers then that's your problem not ours.
I do know of parents that speak very badly to there children and it pisses me off to no end. Sadly I cant change them, they have to do that themselves. If you are in this situation I would tell a relative that you can trust like a grand parent someone who can talk to your parents for you.
2006-10-30 14:30:18 · answer #6 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think most people are afraid to interfere. If that children need to talk, maybe their teacher can help them or the helpline from NSPCC if they cant speak to anybody
2006-10-30 14:14:01 · answer #7 · answered by Starlight 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
School children should have a word with a trusted teacher and anyone over the age of sixteen should do a runner!
2006-10-30 14:16:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People only believe what they want to believe. If you say it happened they don't want to be responsible for helping you and so it's easier to say it didn't. There are a lot of people like that but my advice is keep trying to any1. I did.
2006-10-30 14:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by fuzzierfelt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nobodys saying these young people are lying
2006-10-30 14:12:52 · answer #10 · answered by alex p 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋