2006-10-30 06:16:04 · 10 answers · asked by ecam0709 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, what do you fight about? Trust? Money? What movie you want to see?
If it's trust, be honest with him. Tell him how you feel and why. Unfortunately, if there are trust issues, you may want to seek couples counseling. Sometimes having a third party to help you see eachother's points of view helps a great deal.
If it's money, sit down and work out a budget. When it's on paper, it makes it so much easier to follow.
If it's about personal preferences about things you want to do (ie the movie thing) compromise is the key. Alternate activities that you two want to do. Go see a band he wants to on Friday, and then have dinner at a restaurant you like on Saturday.
Bottom line, communication (no, yelling doesn't count as communicating) and compromise (from BOTH people in the relationship) is the key to minimizing arguments.
Even the best relationships require work because there are two people involved, and everyone has there own wants and needs. When you forget to work on making your wants and needs known or forget to show the other person the same courtesy, that's when arguments happen.
2006-10-30 06:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by Astrid79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either one has to learn to be more tolerance and have more self control. when both are dominion/ hot tempered at the same time it doesn't do any good in a relationship. no matter who is right or wrong doesn't matter as long as you are not doing something illegal that are forbidden by the laws. even if you are right for a particular situation and let him be the right one instead if it makes him happier and then when all these slowly mellows down there's where you are able to talk more sense into the relationship. it moves from stages to stages. things don't change over night but if one really value the relationship and are willing to stick into it there are lots of sacrifices.
2006-10-30 15:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to stop and think about this. Think about the pros and cons of the relationship. Does the good out weigh the bad? Why did you fall in love in the first place? Try to figure out why you are fighting and what you both can do to compromise and discuss it with him. Find out how he feels about all of this. If he is willing to keep trying... feel special that he loves you that much. Don't give up on him so soon. Best of luck.
2006-10-30 14:28:02 · answer #3 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to figure out why you are fighting? don't really like other other that much, but would rather be in a sucky relationship, than alone? Jealousy? it sounds like you dont belong together, relationships should not be this hard. You should adore each other, and support each other.
2006-10-30 14:19:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new boyfriend. That will stop it. Guaranteed.
2006-10-30 14:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by TheOneVersion2.0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from each other.
2006-10-30 14:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by Tonya W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick and choose your battles is my advice
2006-10-30 14:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him and get a new one
2006-10-30 14:18:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET A DIFFERENT BOYFRIEND.
2006-10-30 14:18:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him now
2006-10-30 14:18:38 · answer #10 · answered by angie_d_121074 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋