I really like this guy. He says he likes me. But, he has some feelings for another girl that he works with that won't give him the time of day. But, she likes to give him enough attention or flirtation to make him still want her. Is their anyway of maybe making him realize it and that she is no good? Is their anyway to win him over. We have had sex on several account. I just don't feel like his heart is with me. What should I do?
2006-10-30 06:12:07 · 8 answers · asked by kitty kitty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont give up, keep doing the things your doing to catch the mans attention. ive found from exp. that even if it was a girl in my life that i wasnt really all that into, if she stuck around and really showed that she was really interested, i would finally come around. sometimes it worked out, sometimes not. as for the other girl, he'll find out sooner or later
2006-10-30 06:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a stinky situation. If I were you, I would run the other way. Sounds like maybe he's using you if he's still "looking" at another girl. But no theres no way to make him realize she's no good. Be careful... you could end up with a broken heart. Best of luck.
2006-10-30 14:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you have done messed up. first of all he says he likes you but wont give you the time of day. take a real good look at that ask yourself. you should come to the conclusion he is an acquaintance not a friend. now we come to the part you have already had sex, now you are a bedroom buddy no chance of becoming more. im sorry done been there and done that. go on and find someone else
2006-10-30 14:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by angie_d_121074 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not talk this other girl down to him, you will only give the impression that you are jealous of her. Just let him find out in his own time about her, soon he will see. I don't know if I would continue having sex with him. You are making it too easy for him. Make him fight a little for you, this in itself might make you more desirable to him.
2006-10-30 14:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all- STOP having sex with him! He may not take you seriously, because he is getting what he wants out of you without a relationship. Cut him off, be friendly, but stay off limits. He might just realize that he wants you, and not just the sex. If not, cut your losses and move on.
2006-10-30 14:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by Ritata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, it's never a good idea to go out with a co-worker. If it doesn't work out, it leads to very awkward situations.
2006-10-30 14:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by Damon M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you already had sex with him and he still wants that other girl then don't waste your time .just let him be and he'll figure ut out on his own.
2006-10-30 14:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definitely leave his *** alone cause if he feel some for another girl that means he just don't love you and if you beg for him you must be crazy.
2006-10-30 14:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by Loka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋