Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

My bestfriend doesn't have anything to do with me now that she found a guy to date! So i started hangin out with her bf's sister in law... I have been knowing her for a while, she is really nice, we are just alike! I love her to death..... but, now my friend is gettin really mad because we're hangin out so much. We try to invite her to do things with us, but she says no everytime! and she only wants to do things with me when her bf is gone workin'.. What should i do about that?

2006-10-30 06:09:29 · 3 answers · asked by *Red Hotts* 2 in Friends

I'm 19 and I like this guy I go to work with who is 52. We both flirt with each other. He asked me out today. I'm not sure if I should say yes or not. I like him a lot. I told him that I would think about it. What should I do?

2006-10-30 06:09:08 · 23 answers · asked by abbylove123186 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend moved in with me and now after about a year, still no help with bills. He says it's because he isn't getting enough hours and spending more than usual. He does help with food and does house work on the weekends when he's not working. My bills are about 1000 per month with my own kid. He has no kids, 2 small credit card payments. He does spend about $150 on gas per week because he drives two hours both ways per day. We've talked about it, but there always seems to be something else that comes up for his reason "not having it". I only ask him for $280 per month, but still feel "bad" for reminding him. He's only remembered once. Am I being unreasonable? How do I know if he's just using me? He did give up his own place two hours away, which he didn't have any problem paying the bills there, which equalled out to more than the $280 I ask...

2006-10-30 06:08:56 · 20 answers · asked by trooper 1 in Family

is it alright for a mexican to go out with a salvadorian?

2006-10-30 06:08:24 · 5 answers · asked by TANIA J 1 in Singles & Dating

i am muslim and i love hindu guy but my parents dont agree

2006-10-30 06:05:46 · 28 answers · asked by javeria p 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 06:05:09 · 15 answers · asked by kaveman15120 4 in Singles & Dating

Should I instead opt for a "civil union?" My husband is my soul mate, and I love him more than anyhting else. I don't ever want to let him go. But, since I am not religious, should we get a divorce and get a "civil union" instead? I have seen more religious people that are homosexual denied marriage, yet I, a non-religious heterosexual, am allowed it. It isn't fair. So, what is marriage truly? What is it for me, since religion doesn't really play a part in my marriage? How would a civil union be different?

And please, if you're going to answer me, don't try to convert me. I've heard it all, and my beliefs are what feel right in my soul. I am a good person and I have no problem with you as long as you're a good person too.



I'm putting this question in Society and Culture so that more of the religious people will see it. I honestly want their perspective.

2006-10-30 06:04:43 · 18 answers · asked by Kharm 6 in Marriage & Divorce

he says he loves us but i wonder. he has started staying away for longer periods of time. he doesn't do the things to help around the house like he says he will. Ex.: need place fixed on leaky roof, 1.3 year ago said would fix, still isn't fixed and part of ceiling has fallen. says he wants to marry me but won't because i don't want to live in his house because of disgusting neighbors and don't want my kids around them. i want to live here in my house. the one friend i had was a guy i definately am not attracted to and bf said he doesn't even want me to talk to him because he might try something with me. friends with this other guy for 5 years and nothing ever happened! he checks my cell phone. he quit telling me goodbye when he leaves for work in the morning. he won't talk to me about any of this. i just can't understand why he still lives with us but doesn't seem to want to make a real committment. i don't go anywhere or have anymore friends 2 talk 2. need his financial help.

2006-10-30 06:04:40 · 8 answers · asked by nowibelieve 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, so i've been single all my life, and I recently started a new schooling program, I met this guy, and I know a lot about him, and i've checked him out, and he's legit. He says he loves me, and I love him too, and we're supposed to be meeting in 2 weeks, but I'm worried that when we meet he'll find something wrong with me, and he won't want to be with me....i'm just searching for some advice I guess....

2006-10-30 06:04:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been even though nothing was said I am sure they knew what we were doing. Its always important to call first.

2006-10-30 06:04:22 · 9 answers · asked by Notta 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i do not like my sister's boyfriend. i wasn't keen on him when she started dating him (i wasn't keen on my brother's girlfriend either, but i gave them both achance, and i like her now.) i starting losing patience with this boy when he swore in front of my younger siblings, and stopped trying to like him when he called me to ask me if he could borrow my credit card to rent a car to go to canada. i have tolerated him at family events, and being in my house all the freaking time (he has his own family, shouldn't he spend sometime with them?) i fear that he will consider himself invited to my college graduation. i don't want him there, it's an evening about me, don't i have every right to be selfish? my mom thinks i should be nicer, and that i don't want to want to upset my sister. my relationship with my sister is already strained, between fights over a phone bill, and her boyfriend. How do I make it clear to her I don't want him there, with out hurting our sisterly bond?

2006-10-30 06:03:48 · 16 answers · asked by viennagirl 2 in Family

My b/f best friends mom died last week. She lived 300 miles away. My b/f & 4 of their other guy friends were going 2 go 2 the funeral 2day. I asked him if he wanted me 2 go & he said not if the other guys weren't going 2 take their wives. It was odd 2 me but I said ok. Then yesterday he got a call that 3 of the others weren't going & it was just 1 of them. My b/f never talked 2 his friend Joe (who is going) he talked 2 Jeff 1 of the guys who decided not 2 go. & Jeff was setting up the plan on when my b/f needed 2 meet Joe. He said cause he didn't have Joe's number. So my b/f left @ 4:30 this morning supposedly 2 meet Joe...I got a little suspicious so I tracked down Joe's home number & pretended 2 be a salesperson & asked 2 talk 2 him. He answered. Then I immediately called my b/f asking about the trip & how things were going & I asked him what Joe was doing & he said he was asleep, I said r u going 2 let him drive? He said yea later. Why is he lying? What should I do?

2006-10-30 06:02:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as if god or some1 didnt want u to be with her (im a guy) and there is sum better off sumwhere else ?
i like this girl but my heart was broken when i found out she had a bf ..she seemed so correct for me but now im realizing maybe god or whoever just didnt want the relationship to happen ???

2006-10-30 06:02:20 · 12 answers · asked by jaideep b 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in my 30's. I'm single, I have been for quite some time, and I plan on remaining that way for all eternity. I have never wanted to get married. EVER. And yet everyone around me, including complete strangers, constantly harps at me: "When are you getting married?" "Why aren't you married yet?" "You need to get married?" "You just haven't found the right guy." "Get married now." "MARRIED! MARRIED! MARRIED!" I'm not even bothering to respond politely anymore. I'll get married when hell freezed over, when everyone else gets divorced, or when blue monkeys fly out of my butt.

Anyone else tired of nosy people who can't mind their own business?

2006-10-30 06:02:05 · 14 answers · asked by badkitty1969 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Please give your age now and when you started. If you have not it is ok because many others have never either because of age or religion. Real answers please.

2006-10-30 06:02:01 · 19 answers · asked by laxthefacts 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, Can u plzz tell me the difference between our EGO & Self Respect. I mean when & where to draw a line...??, As for me my Self Respect is really impt but at the same time i dont want to hurt anyone coz of an ego. So how to know dat wat we r doing is for our self respect or coz of our ego.....???


Thnx for ur reply.

2006-10-30 06:01:54 · 8 answers · asked by simple 2 in Friends

we are both 26...been together for about 4 months...
i'd like to stay away from flowers...only cuz i'v already gotten her some recently.

2006-10-30 06:01:18 · 13 answers · asked by curious1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

all my family hates him, and his lifestyle is like Mr. Party man with NO morals.i told him I am preggo and he wants to be in the life with me but I dont trust him!

2006-10-30 06:01:14 · 27 answers · asked by gigerninfo 2 in Family

I LIKE IM SO MUCH BUT HE JUS OLDER THAN ME

2006-10-30 06:00:17 · 13 answers · asked by LILMARK4LYFE 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been friends with him since Sopmore year and we have been friends since. We can tell each other anything and everything. We feel very comfortable around each other, but for some reason I can't tell him I love him. I told him that I liked him before but never I love him. Now we live 2 hours away and i hardly get to see him. We talk on the phone and aim and myspace stuff like that but in a way that isn't enough. Its kinda hard to tell him how i feel becuase what if he doesn't return those feelings and I lose him as my best friend. Please help!

2006-10-30 05:59:15 · 19 answers · asked by ~loves2much~ 1 in Friends

2006-10-30 05:59:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, i"m 17 yrs old me and my ex just broke up about a month ago. we were togther a year and 4 months .The reason we broke up because i needed my space and he wasn't respecting that, he wanted to be up under me 24-7,he was to contolling didn't want me to go places unless he was with me and was jealous of the relationship i had with my friends, saying that i treated them better.so i figured that it was unhealthy, so i broke up with him. The relationship we had was kinda strong because i was so use to him and he was use to me. he says he's gonna change, and wants us to work stuff out but i have developed feelings for this other boy, he is really sweet but like no one he isn't perfect he has his flaws. but i still have feelings for my ex, i don't want to break neither one of there hearts and i don't want to break mine by making the wrong decision. Any advice please. Sould i go back to my ex or move on a take a chance at something new.

2006-10-30 05:58:41 · 12 answers · asked by shay 1 in Singles & Dating

I lied to my fiance .We've been through worse b4 though..We broke up back in june for a month and realized that it was a mistake cause we were still so much in-love. I lied to him about how i got my car. My parents paid for half, and when i couldn't get the other half financed myself, a "friend" offered to co-sign. No strings attached since i am making payments. I told my fiance that my parents paid for it all. Come to find out, this "friend" had alot more feelings for me than just friendship. When he realized that i didnt feel the same way he told my fiance about paying for half the car. (well, co-signing 4 it)..I know i should'nt have kept it from him, but i knew how'd he react. We've been together for almost 2 yrs. Is this something big enough for us to call it quits? I've tried talking to him, but right now he's so angry that he doesn't want 2 hear what i have to say. It also came out infront of some of his friends so i know he's also embarrased. What can i do to save our relatshp?

2006-10-30 05:58:02 · 15 answers · asked by teeny 1 in Singles & Dating

it seems so hard to find the right one. women just don't need us anymore

2006-10-30 05:57:42 · 13 answers · asked by Ozzy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 05:57:35 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I try everything to make him happy, I cook, clean,laundry give him my last I'll do anything but It always seems like I'm bothering him, he screams and yells for nothing. Say if I ask what do you want for dinner he will say what the f*** you can't just make something and he can't hold me because I'm the female only I should show affection. I'm so confused I can't even explain it properly. He calls me a retard when were driving or I park to far away from the door, I have no common sense just everything is wrong and my fault. I love him so much what should I do to help our relationship or him????????????????

2006-10-30 05:57:29 · 9 answers · asked by jfurlerbaby23 2 in Singles & Dating

I live an hour and a half from a woman who is 23 and has a 2 year old son. Every saturday I drive to visit her starting two weeks ago, and she just gave me an invitation to come down every saturday to hang out and drink with her yesterday. She used to be my boss, and I know she had a crush on me at one time. Every time I visit her we have sex. And last time I was there I told her that I thought we should date. She avoided the question so I dropped the subject. But she did go outside and talk with her roommate imediately after I asked her that. I feel like I'm getting mixed signals. I really like her and her kid. I don't kiss her in front of her roommate because I think it will embarrass her; but next time I am down there I am thinking about giving her a red rose right when I get in the door and kiss her. Does this sound like a good idea? Any other good ideas to get her to date me? Thanks!

2006-10-30 05:57:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that the traditional Polish way of doing things is incorrectly.
Is this true?

2006-10-30 05:57:21 · 5 answers · asked by HouseoSmyth 1 in Friends

i love him but we live far apart is love strong enough to withstand the distance

2006-10-30 05:56:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just met this girl a few months ago on cross country team. I have always thought she was gorgeous just seeing her around school so I was kind of excited to actually get to talk to her. Anyway...we talk just about every day now online and at practice...school..etc. But it's nothing big really...we just kinda have small talk. I have devloped a pretty big crush on her...she doesn't have a boyfriend and it doesn't seem like she really has any other guys she's interested. However I have no idea if she feels any affection towards me at all, so I don't want to straight up tell her I like her and have her freaked out.

Advice?
Thx

2006-10-30 05:56:57 · 6 answers · asked by michaelxcore 1 in Singles & Dating