as if god or some1 didnt want u to be with her (im a guy) and there is sum better off sumwhere else ?
i like this girl but my heart was broken when i found out she had a bf ..she seemed so correct for me but now im realizing maybe god or whoever just didnt want the relationship to happen ???
2006-10-30 06:02:20 · 12 answers · asked by jaideep b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can find quiet a few people that you will think is the one for you. She already has a b/f, so she is not available to you. Stay friends with her. Maybe she will not have this b/f for long and you can tell her how you feel. And you may just find that soulmate while you were being friends with her.
2006-10-30 06:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly believe things happen for a reason. Usually, at the time, you never know the reason but later on in life when you look back it dawns on you and you see the progression.
For instance - perhaps by not being with girl you meet another girl that you fall for and later realize that girl A was completely wrong for you but you just didn't see it at the time. Perhaps by not being with the girl it forces you to do other things in your life like joining a group or making different friends which then leads you to your career that might not have happened.
2006-10-30 14:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by betsymaemae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fate does happen when its ready i thought thsi guy i was seeing off and on for 5 years was the one for me but in the end it just kept getting worse and i know realize the guy i am with for the last 3 months we were in the same place at least three times and never met so maybe my fate is i met him when i did becasue before we probally would have just said hi and that was it due to i was stuck on the other one so when it is ready your fate will happen maybe not with her or maybe later in life god has his ways fo making things happen. good luck
2006-10-30 14:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by vomissie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the same thing you are! I'm in a relationship, and have met someone who is also in a relationship. It seems like me and him are ment to be, and both of us are in relationships that are not working out. For some reason though we still arent together, even though we both feel like we met for a reason, and are perfect for each other. I do think fate has something to do with it. I like to think things will work themselves out in the end! Good Luck to you!!
2006-10-30 14:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by katie d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no doubt that God has a plan for everyone. i use myself as an example. i was in a 6 year relationship with who i figured would be my husband. for unexplained reasons i just had a change of heart one day and broke it off. i was absolutely and completely devastated for a long time. then out of the blue i met who is now my husband and i realize that it was meant to happen that way.
2006-10-30 14:06:41 · answer #5 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
understand that we as humans have the ablilty to love more than 1 person, and in your case your connection just so happens to be with someone who is with another person. Step back for a while and check out the realtionship, but do small things to let her know that you really like her but not so that it will cause problems in her present realationship. If you are the cause of the brake up than the change's of her going back to him will be great. Just step back and look at the way he treats her and you do it better. But remember
STEP BACK AND WAIT BEFORE YOU MOVE.
you never know she might be good for you or not, you might just feel that she is the one because she is with someone else.
just a thought??
2006-10-30 14:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by marion p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK FATE DOES KEEP PEOPLE FROM BEING WITH ONE ANOTHER. IT COULD BE THAT THE TIMING JUST ISNT RIGHT AN IT COULD HAPPEN LATER. OR YOU WERE JUST MEANT TO BE FRIENDS. WAIT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS EITHER WAY YOU HAVE A GREAT FRIEND OUT OF THE WHOLE THING
2006-10-30 14:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by becca_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a strong believer in fate. Dont stress it, the right girl will come to you in time...
2006-10-30 14:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by msteachernj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True destiny is what it is. No matter what you want, there is a higher plan for you and every decision you make guides toward that plan.
2006-10-30 14:17:31 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, and sometimes fate prevents you from using your English very well...
2006-10-30 14:06:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋