ok, so i've been single all my life, and I recently started a new schooling program, I met this guy, and I know a lot about him, and i've checked him out, and he's legit. He says he loves me, and I love him too, and we're supposed to be meeting in 2 weeks, but I'm worried that when we meet he'll find something wrong with me, and he won't want to be with me....i'm just searching for some advice I guess....
2006-10-30 06:04:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a lot of people here seem to be quite worried that I love the guy, however, I do love him, as a friend, as a person, and slightly as more...it takes time for love to grow, and blossom into that kind of committed love, but you are still able to "love" without meeting someone in person... :)
2006-10-30 06:30:45 · update #1
first of all how long have you known him ? and how can you love him whey you've never actually met him? it's one thing to talk on the phone and another to be with that person face to face. so first just meet him befor you jump to loving him...
2006-10-30 06:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be a lot more careful than you have been. It's too late now, but never say you love someone unless you know what you're dealing with. Fortunately, he has been just as irrational so at least you're on the same level.
2006-10-30 14:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by SAjivemuffin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you and this guy know and love eachother as much as you say.Then if hes smart,he knows what the value of that kind of closeness is and wont walk out as fast as he walked in.Attraction to someone is usually about 85% personality 15% physical.
2006-10-30 14:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by con10twithlosing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...how long have you "known" him? I really don't think it's LOVE that you two are experiencing. You both just are desperate to have someone in your lives. I think yall should have started out as friends and when you eventually met you could have taken it to the next level. Good Luck though!
2006-10-30 14:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by dangerously in love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm sure that everyone will tell you to be yourself, but as we all know is a little more complicated than that........As you see i suggest to relax, do not try too much, dont please him and most important be confident about yourself....do this and the rest will fall in it's place .....After all have fun!!!!
If nothing turns out to your advantage let go ...something better is waitting for you ........
2006-10-30 14:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by A. RMZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have these fears when first meeting someone. You may be the one that is no longer interested once you actually meet him. Just be yourself and dont put too much pressure on your first meeting.
2006-10-30 14:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy with who u r and if u love u he will 2
2006-10-30 14:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by grumpy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll only find something wrong with you if you believe that. When you meet him, keep the same positive attitude you have now and you'll be o.k.
2006-10-30 14:08:23 · answer #8 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you know you love him when you haven't even met? You really have to be with someone and spend a really long time getting to know them first.
2006-10-30 14:15:05 · answer #9 · answered by tawnycarter@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be worried! When you meet him show confidence in yourself and in him. It's your first boyfriend so it will be scarey, just take a deep breath and take it one step at a time.
2006-10-30 14:08:43 · answer #10 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋