My b/f best friends mom died last week. She lived 300 miles away. My b/f & 4 of their other guy friends were going 2 go 2 the funeral 2day. I asked him if he wanted me 2 go & he said not if the other guys weren't going 2 take their wives. It was odd 2 me but I said ok. Then yesterday he got a call that 3 of the others weren't going & it was just 1 of them. My b/f never talked 2 his friend Joe (who is going) he talked 2 Jeff 1 of the guys who decided not 2 go. & Jeff was setting up the plan on when my b/f needed 2 meet Joe. He said cause he didn't have Joe's number. So my b/f left @ 4:30 this morning supposedly 2 meet Joe...I got a little suspicious so I tracked down Joe's home number & pretended 2 be a salesperson & asked 2 talk 2 him. He answered. Then I immediately called my b/f asking about the trip & how things were going & I asked him what Joe was doing & he said he was asleep, I said r u going 2 let him drive? He said yea later. Why is he lying? What should I do?
2006-10-30 06:02:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him and ask him what's really going on! If you're suspecting infidelity, leave him alone! Good luck to you on that and hopefully, you will know the truth!
2006-10-30 06:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was a really good play by play that u did..nice job...well are u sure that the whole mom dying thing was even true? I mean seriously u should talk to him ask him that question ask him why is he lying and where Joe really is tell him what u did and that u caught him he might come out or hang up but ya know u can do better he obviously didn't want u to go because of something that he didn't want u to see or hear about somethings up u need to comfront him about it...obviously...the phrase "not if the other guys weren't going to take their wives" for some reason that doesn't make sense to me...yeah u might want to comfront him about it tell him about Joe seek him out hun!!! Maybe he has something that he can't get out to u bc he's afraid u might make fun of him or is to sad to explain...just tell him that u want to know these things and it won't work out if he don tell u anything and come out with the truth it's all about trust in a relationship take is wisely!!! Good Luck!!
2006-10-30 06:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is lying because there is no funeral and the JOE is really a JO. He is cheating on you. You have busted him in the lie, so just face the facts he is cheating. He is a pig you don't need that. Using a funeral as an excuse to screw around.
2006-10-30 06:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon, you need to tell first pray to GOD and ask him for guidence, then contact him again and ask him is everything ok and how was he and joe doing. if he continues to lie then let him know that if joe is with him why did joe call the house looking for him. then he will start saying that you are a lie and all you have to say is i am doing what you did so who is with you, joe is at home i talked to him. see where it goes from there
2006-10-30 06:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by O.E.S. Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plenty and much and loads of individuals have this subject! that's called, uh, mendacity and cheating. And that's often maximum suitable to no longer get returned with the guy who's doing it. He would not be responsive to why he did it, yet I do: because of the fact he ought to. because of the fact that's risky, and unsafe issues are relaxing. Getting away with naughty stuff is relaxing. And that little thrill is what he's after, no longer an particularly loving relationship. He placed that little thrill over any love he had for you, any care he had approximately your emotions, any admire he has for you. That thrill meant extra effective than all of it. So pass on; he's not that into you.
2016-12-08 23:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by claypoole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be cheating and meeting someone, but you should confront him when he gets home it's so much easier too lie over the phone than in someone' face. Or he really did not want you to go, but why not. Do some more investigating quick.
2006-10-30 06:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by jfurlerbaby23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bf devised a plan to keep you stupid and you cought on to his lil trick, bravo for your efforts to get the truth but he might be lying about his mother being dead go to the funeral and eys spy!! i would
2006-10-30 06:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes cheating!!!!! break up wid his ***, or call joe and tell him wats goin on
2006-10-30 06:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by Rae Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell this guy joe whats going on... what state are you in??? hope it goes well...
2006-10-30 06:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by jeans0079 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should confront him, and get the truth.
2006-10-30 06:06:17 · answer #10 · answered by George 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋