ive meet this woman, hmmmmm shes wonderful inside and out we met for the first time,2nd meeting , i was invited to her place and 3rd meeting we went out on a date... we both want this to go slow... seems as if im going to fast... we have hugged and a few soft kisses were exchanged,, im crazy bout her and its hard to hold back my feelings.. so if i sent flowers to her would this be pushing or rushing things, come on ladies help me here..i dont want to blow this.. and if so whats type of flowers would be your choice keep in mind slowwwwwwww... i thought about 11 yellow roses and one red one right in the middle...thanks for your help
2006-10-30 06:19:11 · 13 answers · asked by boots 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Not at all. It is a very sweet gesture.
When I met my "now husband" he would bring me roses. He brought me one for the first time we met... he brought me 2 for the second time we met... and he brought me 3 for the third time we met... etc..
Buying a lady flowers is not rushing things. It is simply showing her that you are thinking about her and you are respecting her. That is the way I look at it. Very nice... Go for it!
I like your idea of roses. That would be a great idea.
2006-10-30 06:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by Keith Perry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving her flowers is a wonderful idea.
Roses are very expensive. Maybe a less expensive mix of flowers would be more approiate at this early stage of the relationship.
Do you know the meaning of the colors of roses? I believe yellow means friendship. Red is Passion. Best you check with a florist before you send roses, you don't want to send the woman the wrong message. There are very expensive roses.....a dozen can cost around $75. plus. You can get roses at the grocery store cheeper. You can also get a lovely mix of flowers that would be a less symbol of commitment than roses are.
It is totally up to you what you do.
2006-10-30 06:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sending flowers would be okay. However, don't send roses. I think roses should be saved for later. It is too soon for roses, even yellow ones & definitely not the red one in the center. Send a "mixed bouquet" of various flowers & specify to the florist that there should be no roses included. Save the roses for when you guys get more serious or become boyfriend & girlfriend as opposed to just dating. If you send roses right away, what's left to "take it to the next level" in the future.
2006-10-30 06:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flowers are a wonderful idea.
Roses are nice and most women like them, but you may want to consider something a little more unusual. Check with the florist and see what is available, it shows you put osme thought into it.
An actual plant might be something to consider. Growing plant...growing relationship. Also a plant lasts longer than a bunch of cut flowers.
Good luck.
2006-10-30 06:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by coppersmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like that yellow then the one red one that sounds sweet! Flowers is a good start and maybe go with her favorite flowers maybe ask her what type she likes next time you two talk or meet. but your idea is a good one too. Flowers is a slow thing to do. So go for it.
2006-10-30 06:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Roses are too fancy for a few relationship. Give daisies, lilies, sunflowers, tulips, or even a mixed bouquet if you must, but hold the roses until you're serious.
Go to www.1800flowers.com and see what kind of friendly "Just Because" flowers they have.
2006-10-30 06:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Half dozen yellow roses with that red one in the middle. I think that would be very nice. Plus with a little note that you are "just thinking about you" on the card. That is plain and simple and shows caring. Good Luck to you and her.
2006-10-30 06:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't send roses. They send too much of a message and if you've only known her for a few weeks this might set her off. Send her something colourful, not just one type of flower.
2006-10-30 06:24:02 · answer #8 · answered by Bloody Wing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think flowers are too much at all. i would lay off the roses though and go for some other type of flowers if your worried about over doing it.
2006-10-30 06:22:07 · answer #9 · answered by ttothej4343 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband on a blind date - and a week after the date he sent me a dozen red roses to my work, I thought it was very sweet! xoxoxo
2006-10-30 06:24:30 · answer #10 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋