if you did why did you do it. I am just curious was it bc they were not there for you? i mean what made you take that leap.
this is a honest question i just want to know why some cheat. that is all
2006-10-30 06:19:49 · 11 answers · asked by knowssignlanguage 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have............I really wish I could give you a single reason.but there really isn't one single reason for it......For me it has absolutely nothing to do with my husband being good or bad or anything about him at all. It was more about me........It made me feel ALIVE! It made me feel sexy and wanted and not so old......I am not old but when you are with someone who does not act their age you can start to feel old before your time. It made me feel good to know I still had what it takes to get a guys attention........But I want you to understand it had nothing to do with my husband.........He tried and still tries very hard to make me feel all those things but I guess I kind of feel like he is "suppose" to feel that way.........It is just different when someone else thinks that way too.....This is a very good question but also very, very hard to answer......May you find what you are looking for.....
2006-10-30 06:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I are in a divorce because of this. He was the cheater. My husband is a very responsible, successful man. The problem with him is that he is still, for some reason, stuck in the same mentality that he was in high school. We are both 30 and started dating when we were 14. We dated other people from time to time and got married when we were 23. He was captain of the football team and we live in a small town where everybody knew him. He could always have any girl he wanted and after we got married, I don't think he realized that he couldn't be that way anymore. Now he is alone and women still throw themselves at him. What's changed is I am the one he wants and he can't have me anymore.
2006-10-30 06:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have I cheated? Yes. I met a person online, met them in person and had sex with them. I did it only because I am not happy with the physical relationship that I have with my husband. Actually, I have made plans to meet someone else again, however, something all seems to get in the way. My husband does not know. I don't know if he has on me or not, he works away for 10 days at a time. I don't know if that makes me a bad person or not. I live for my children and don't want to cause any problems in my home life.
2006-10-30 06:43:19 · answer #3 · answered by MelissaJ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was married to a very controlling man who was always criticizing me. After I had my son I gain some weigh which took me sometime to get off but with work, taking care of a newborn, a house and everything else it took me awhile. He would call me names and make me feel horrible. I by all means take the blame for cheating but I meet someone who was telling me things I needed to hear at the time.
2006-10-30 06:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age you might have to define cheating a little more clearly. I have friends who are swingers. They can go to a party and have sex with many different people and they don't consider that cheating, but if he has a fling when she is not around - she says same address same day is fine otherwise- she considers that cheating.
2006-10-30 06:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have one year ago now a year later my husband leaves me he has gotta have someone else i cant seem to cvatch hiom still haveing sex telling me he loves me but not in love iwants a divorce now doesent gets mad when i go out with friends says if i really love him and want him back i should stay home and be a mother not out at bars that he is not going to come home if thats how it is.gets jelouse ckeaks up on me but acts like he dosent care comes sees kids every day sex between us better than ever but then he leaves and goes to his friends how weirdhe is supposto be my huband di you think if he was interested in someone else he would still be jelouse or cheaking on me or would have got all of his stuff out and got a house like he said 1 month ago he was going to do inee help ed e mail back because i dont no how to get my ansers
2006-10-30 06:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've cheated on my girlfriend, yeah w/ her bestfriend, who made out w/ me just b/c her bf didn't go to school on that day, then later on, after schoool we got a room and did the nasty, yeah, and then one of my friends told my ex!
2006-10-30 06:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we haven't and my husband tells me everything even his pass (although it hurts to know the truth - but glad to know he's being honest) and we have no intentions too in the future as well cause we know of the consequences if we do.
2006-10-30 06:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In maximum states the decrease off is two years for annulment yet you will be able to desire to have grounds, yet she ought to touch the family individuals courtroom close to her to ascertain. in all likelihood she will merely might desire to document divorce.
2016-12-28 08:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by osuch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm current'y thinking about it because my physical relationship with my husband is not that great.
2006-10-30 06:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by Laura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋